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Would this be acceptable in your workplace?

187 replies

olderbutwiser · 06/05/2025 14:43

I’ve started to receive out of office emails saying “I am out of office until xxx. Please resend your email after that date”.

I may be a dinosaur, but to me it’s unacceptable to put the onus on the sender to resend their email on some random future date. Clearing piled-up emails when I get back to the office is just one of those things you have to factor into your working life.

Votes please:

Perfectly acceptable nowadays, you’re a dinosaur —> You Are Being Unreasonable
It’s completely unacceptable, time for a Meeting Without Coffee —> You Are Not Being Unreasonable

OP posts:
Someone2025 · 06/05/2025 18:14

CombatBarbie · 06/05/2025 14:54

Very common practise in alot of workplaces.

I work with an awful lot of consultants and clients and have never seen it,

ELMhouse · 06/05/2025 18:14

JDM625 · 06/05/2025 18:09

I've only seen it a few times at my work and find it rude. I'd then have to work out how to schedule my email to send the required time. 🤔

I equally can't stand 'I'm on leave, please email [email protected]' and then he has an OOO saying 'I'm on leave, please email [email protected]' and it goes on and on! 🙄

It’s really easy it’s just one button. 🙂

Hamandpineapplepizza · 06/05/2025 18:15

Yanbu. It's wildly unreasonable and unprofessional to expect people to re-send their emails

JDM625 · 06/05/2025 18:17

ELMhouse · 06/05/2025 18:14

It’s really easy it’s just one button. 🙂

Thank you. I'm clearly not techy savvy but will have a look at how to do it tomorrow when I log in.

ClareBlue · 06/05/2025 18:17

LandSharksAnonymous · 06/05/2025 17:40

I think it’s very easy to say that, if you don’t get many emails. I average easily 500 a day. Last time I took two weeks off, I came back to 4.5K emails.

No way am I reading them all when I come back and no way am I searching for the relevant emails, if only because I have actual work to do and reading emails that are no longer relevant isn’t at the top of my list. They get mass moved into a separate folder, I read my handover note where one of my Deputy’s gives me a heads up on anything I need to action and I’ll search for those emails, and anything else never gets read.

If your email is urgent, it’ll be actioned in that persons absence by using the OOO provided or going to an alternative contact in their team…

So I disagree that ‘clearing piled up emails’ is one of those things.

Edited

So are you dealing with 500 a day when you are not on leave. It seems people want to get on with their real work when returning from leave and delete all emails, but when not on leave accept and deal with the volume.

Ultravox · 06/05/2025 18:19

Don’t think my work would like it but it’s inspired!

SwanOfThoseThings · 06/05/2025 18:20

Emmz1510 · 06/05/2025 17:46

I don’t understand. If I’m off and senders get an out of office from me, the email still arrives and I can still see it on my return. I thought that’s how these things always worked? Why would someone need to resend it? So it doesn’t get missed in the pile of unread emails when you return cos it’s nearer the top of the pile? My out of office advises who to contact in my absence in the case of emergency. There’s no request for an email to be resent!

The idea is that people bulk delete emails received in their absence when they get back from leave.

angelcake20 · 06/05/2025 18:25

My DH and many of his colleagues do this. I’m not sure I approve but they would have literally hundreds of emails to look through after a week’s holiday otherwise. Their large organisation sends a huge amount of info that he reads little of anyway.

whitewineandsun · 06/05/2025 18:27

Cloudysky81 · 06/05/2025 15:25

I do this.

It hugely speeds up working through the email backlog when returning from holiday.

It also highlights how the vast majority of work emails I receive are completely pointless.

It also highlights how the vast majority of work emails I receive are completely pointless.

Agree. I think it's fine.

JeannieJo · 06/05/2025 18:28

Happens all the time in my workplace. Sign of laziness if you ask me. I would never waste my time to have to plan and resend after their holiday

whitewineandsun · 06/05/2025 18:28

MargaretThursday · 06/05/2025 18:13

If I got that response I'd just reschedule the email to send on the date they were back. Surely that's what most people would do?

Exactly. It's not a huge deal.

Neemie · 06/05/2025 18:29

It sounds like the kind of thing you would do if thought you were 100% secure in your job and someone else provided the clients.

Poshjock · 06/05/2025 18:31

Very common in my workplace. The OOO is to inform that recipient is unavailable and the expectation is to contact one of the alternatives or if absolutely no one else can help - re contact on their return.

Discussed this with a senior manager only the other week, was told that she returned to over 300 emails within a week and had no means of spending that time catching up with similar numbers pouring in every day. Therefore the box is deleted and if it is important she would get the second request on her return.

I think it is a pragmatic approach and stops people from becoming trapped in email answering on their leave or working over hours to catch up on return (something that was previously an exception in the organisation but it slowly being eradicated due to stances like this).

Sherararara · 06/05/2025 18:32

Someone2025 · 06/05/2025 18:14

I work with an awful lot of consultants and clients and have never seen it,

Same never seen it. Standard reply is I’m on leave and will respond upon my return.

ELMhouse · 06/05/2025 18:35

Someone2025 · 06/05/2025 18:14

I work with an awful lot of consultants and clients and have never seen it,

It’s common at my work place. I do leave a ‘handover’ person to delicate to in my ooo but if it’s not urgent and can wait for my return then people can just schedule to send on my return.

i however see by this thread that many people don’t know how to do that so i guess they would find it rude or inconvenient to them.

when you get 100s of emails a day it takes so long to go through inbox when you get back whilst also still receiving those 100s of emails you normally get.

AirborneElephant · 06/05/2025 18:37

It’s becoming more and more common, I rather like it as it means you actually get holiday time rather than having to make up for it afterwards. I work on a broadly similar basis. I’ll filter the several thousand unread email for anything external or from my boss / senior people. The rest I’ll assume either got dealt with in my absence, or if it’s still needed they’ll mail me again. I just don’t have the time to work out whether two weeks of requests are still current.

CarpetKnees · 06/05/2025 18:38

CamillaMacauley · 06/05/2025 17:14

Where I work you can see that someone has an out of office reply on and what it says before you send the email. I assume it's the same everywhere if using Outlook?

That works for people working for the same organisation, but not for all the other people I send e-mails to.

CarpetKnees · 06/05/2025 18:41

MargaretThursday · 06/05/2025 18:13

If I got that response I'd just reschedule the email to send on the date they were back. Surely that's what most people would do?

No.
If I've sent someone information about something, that is that task completed and I move to the next one.
If they are stupid enough to delete it, then that's their loss. They've missed out on that information. I don't have the capacity to start lists of who might read their e-mails on which days. Nor do I have the capacity to go back to a task that I have finished because someone else is too lazy to do their job properly.

Whatsitreallylike · 06/05/2025 18:42

This would be encouraged at my office. A lot of emails are dealt with by the time you return so it wastes a lot of time clearing or following up on queries that have long been dealt with. Also, there’s a big push for MH, ‘when you’re off your off’ sort of thing, many people have work phones or access to work emails in their personal phones so work emails can often disturb down time. This is fine if it’s urgent, but they’re often not.

Hufflemuff · 06/05/2025 18:43

I work with older generation Germans.

Their out of office.

"I am out of office until 7th of May. Your email will not be forwarded."

LandSharksAnonymous · 06/05/2025 18:44

ClareBlue · 06/05/2025 18:17

So are you dealing with 500 a day when you are not on leave. It seems people want to get on with their real work when returning from leave and delete all emails, but when not on leave accept and deal with the volume.

Where did I said I read the 500 emails I get a day?

I read, perhaps, a quarter - if that.

BitOutOfPractice · 06/05/2025 18:46

This is where AI can be useful. Ask it to summarise your inbox, delete marketing emails, and flag up any actions.

BitOutOfPractice · 06/05/2025 18:47

@Worriedsickmostofthetime if you are using outlook on a desktop / laptop, it’s on the menu at the top called “options”. It’s a very useful tool.

ArtTheClownIsNotAMime · 06/05/2025 18:47

I've never seen this in real life and wouldn't be impressed. I also wouldn't resend unless it was purely to my benefit to get an answer.

BigGra · 06/05/2025 18:50

whitewineandsun · 06/05/2025 18:28

Exactly. It's not a huge deal.

I got 6 out of office replies to 1 email today.
I’m not going to reschedule the emails to auto send on :
Monday to Jane
Tuesday to Bob
Wednesday week to Rita. etc.
They have the email it’s entirely to them to delete, Ignore, follow up on their return.

I guess it may work in organisations with low email traffic, where I work not a chance. I receive 100s of pointless spam emails and send upwards of 30 emails a day. Resending to align with everyone’s calendars would be carnage.

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