Exactly. People say “your kids, you pay for them”. Then lament how the birth rate is falling and women are having children later, when it’s impossible to build financial stability and buy a house before your 30s for most people, if they can do that at all.
It makes zero sense to structure society in such a way that people either have to raise children in poverty, or they have to be simultaneously in the most demanding part of their career at the same time as having small children when they need the most of your time.
A sensible society would very generously fund young adults to have a decent standard of living in a proper family home and take this time out of working life to focus on raising their children without the threat of financial insecurity, knowing that if they did so and enabled people of, say, 25 to have children, they’d then be able to ramp up their participation in the workforce again at around 35 and you’d still get another 30 years or more of full time work from them as well as what they’d done before having children.
The whole structure of society needs to be changed to support young families and children and make education much, much better than it is as well. Everything that has been done in the UK regarding how business, working hours and life stages and tax is structured creates the precise opposite effect to what we should be doing if we want to encourage higher birth rates, more children and a happier and more healthy population.
The UK is one of the most non child-friendly societies I’ve ever come across. The attitude towards children is horrendous (you often see threads even here, on Mumsnet, comparing children being in public spaces to people being there with dogs, as if that is remotely comparable!!).
These same people will be complaining when their expected state or public sector pensions evaporate into thin air in a few years’ time because they will be literally unpayable, because there simply will not be sufficient workers to pay them.
What do they think will happen? The teachers, for example. When there are hardly any children, so most of the schools have closed, and there are 1/4 of the number of teachers that there are now, how do they think their pensions will be paid? Do they think we’ll be hiring teachers to work in empty schools with no children just so those teachers can pay their pensions from their salaries for sitting in empty classrooms?
It’s nuts how so many people refuse to understand basic maths. So depressing, really.
I think Vogon poetry might not be so bad after all…. I hope? 🤞 🚀