Hi,
I'm in a long distance relationship. At first we would call each other everyday and text multiple times a day. Where he lives, he doesn't have access to affordable internet so when we moved to calling only once every two days, I didn't mind at all.
About a month ago, he started going 2,3 days no contact. I tried to tell him I needed a little bit more communication but he dismissed my feelings.
Last Sunday we had a brief phone call after which he pocket called me and I heard a female voice (didn't understand what she said) then he hang up. I tried to call back right away but he didn't pick my call which made me feel like something suspicious was going on. I texted him that "I now get why he's been acting aloof lately".
The next day he called me, told me the pocket call happened when he was on his doorstep chatting with his neighbors (A guy and his girlfriend). He said I was nagging him and acting unreasonably because I couldn't be in a LDRS and not trust him. Then he said we would now make daily facetimes if that's what I need to feel comfortable.
It's been a week now and he didn't call, not once. He texts but no call.
He's supposed to visit me in June (already went through the visa process, booked his flights etc.)
So now here I am, literally boiling because his behavior really makes me feel like he doesn't care at all about my feelings or my needs. I don't want to bring the subject up again because he'll say I'm pestering him.
I've decided to stay put so it's been 8 days of random texts or facebook video links.
AIBU ? Part of me thinks since his making the time and effort to come visit me for an entire month, I should overlook this call thing. Another part feels like it's not just about the call per say but about the nature of this RS. If I'm not important enough for him to take 30mn in an entire week to call me, what's the point of even coming all the way here ?