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I was in blackout and parents haven’t even texted me

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Stopeatingcrispsanddips · 29/04/2025 23:05

I live in one of the countries where there was a power cut, it was frightening at the time and still feels a bit unsettling. My parents haven’t even WhatsApped us to see how we are (they still live in the U.K.)

Is this normal?

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Spirallingdownwards · 30/04/2025 11:57

Did you text them?

Do they usually text you because I wouldn't think I must text just because there is a 12 hour power cut which happen from time to time here anywhere but just not over such a wide area.

NewShoesForSpring · 30/04/2025 11:57

FlakyCritic · 30/04/2025 11:44

Sounds like a very primitive and undeveloped place. Where I am most transports, hospitals, banks, supermarkets and even pubs and restaurants have generators that kick in within a minute of the power going out. They'd all go broke if they didn't. Trains go on generators in a power strike so would not be affected. And don't forget many/most businesses still have landlines (which do not run on power), as do some families, and there are still landline public phone boxes in towns.

All of this sounds very farfetched and very unbelievable to me and like it's not a developed country.

Edited

You are utterly ridiculous. I cannot believe what I am reading here. My god. I truly hope Great Britain doesn't have a similar experience.

MrsSkylerWhite · 30/04/2025 11:57

We only heard about it when it over. Was described on radio news as a blackout of the Inerian Peninsula.

Not sure how to say this without being potentially rude about your parents, sorry!

If they had heard reports of the Iberian Peninsula, would they know that included your country of residence?

MilkyBarsAreOnMee · 30/04/2025 11:58

I think I have reached the end of the line with MN. The amount of ignorance and deliberate obtuseness on this thread is unbelievable.

@Stopeatingcrispsanddips based on the news I read and heard, and updates from colleagues, I would definitely have contacted friends/family to check in on them, so I can understand your frustration. I hope things are back to normal for you now.

FlakyCritic · 30/04/2025 11:58

NewShoesForSpring · 30/04/2025 11:57

You are utterly ridiculous. I cannot believe what I am reading here. My god. I truly hope Great Britain doesn't have a similar experience.

How am I ridiculous? It is true that where I am, generators are timed to come on within a minute of the power going out. That's a TRUTH! I'm not lying.

steff13 · 30/04/2025 11:58

itsnotagameshow · 30/04/2025 11:53

What it is about this that people aren't getting? The INFRASTRUCTURE went down. It wasn't local, it was country wide and beyond, so everything was overwhelmed. When was the last time an entire country, and its neighbour, lost all power suddenly?

And how does the fact that it was the entire country affect how a backup generator works?

EspanaPorfavor · 30/04/2025 11:59

lol at Spain being primitive though!!!

itsnotagameshow · 30/04/2025 12:00

steff13 · 30/04/2025 11:58

And how does the fact that it was the entire country affect how a backup generator works?

Just the one?

shootingstar001 · 30/04/2025 12:00

FlakyCritic · 30/04/2025 11:44

Sounds like a very primitive and undeveloped place. Where I am most transports, hospitals, banks, supermarkets and even pubs and restaurants have generators that kick in within a minute of the power going out. They'd all go broke if they didn't. Trains go on generators in a power strike so would not be affected. And don't forget many/most businesses still have landlines (which do not run on power), as do some families, and there are still landline public phone boxes in towns.

All of this sounds very farfetched and very unbelievable to me and like it's not a developed country.

Edited

You sound ridiculous. Madrid is the capital of Spain, used to live there. Very far from an 'primitive and undeveloped place'

But it's very apparent someone who makes such comment that has so many ignorant points in it has clearly never left the back water they live in.

itsnotagameshow · 30/04/2025 12:00

MilkyBarsAreOnMee · 30/04/2025 11:58

I think I have reached the end of the line with MN. The amount of ignorance and deliberate obtuseness on this thread is unbelievable.

@Stopeatingcrispsanddips based on the news I read and heard, and updates from colleagues, I would definitely have contacted friends/family to check in on them, so I can understand your frustration. I hope things are back to normal for you now.

Do you know what, me too. It's sad and worrying.

Funnywonder · 30/04/2025 12:00

FlakyCritic · 30/04/2025 11:57

How are they not primitive if they don't have generators? Explain that!

Where do you live that has regular ‘bog standard’ blackouts and loads of generators? Surely a non primitive country wouldn’t have a great deal of experience of blackouts in the first place?

You are funny though. In an irritating yet weirdly entertaining way.

ItGhoul · 30/04/2025 12:01

It was a power cut, not a nuclear strike.

If one of my relatives was in country where there'd been, eg, an earthquake or a terror attack or massive riots or something like that, of course I'd want to check that they were OK. But I would assume that a power cut (even one as major as this) would be annoying and mildly unsettling, rather than massively endangering. I might text purely out of curiosity but I wouldn't be worried, or think they needed emotional support.

thepariscrimefiles · 30/04/2025 12:01

FlakyCritic · 30/04/2025 11:49

Landlines don't need power to work, so something doesn't add up there.

And if people are stuck on trains because of lack of power, the backup generators are substandard.

So much of this simply does not add up. It really really doesn't.

My landline needs power to work following Virgin Media's switch to their digital fibre network.

Jaichangecentfoisdenom · 30/04/2025 12:02

ManchesterLu · 30/04/2025 11:38

We've had power cuts locally and it wouldn't cross my mind to check the family were okay. You just get on with it until it comes back on, right? It's not life threatening, just annoying.

It was a completely different thing in this case, though, not local, not just power cuts but everything completely unexpectedly coming to an abrupt halt nationally across at least two countries, Spain and Portugal, with Andorra and parts of France also affected. Perhaps if you read other people’s posts explaining exactly what happened, particularly the posts by those who were physically present in the countries concerned and who had to live through it, it might make more sense to you.

FlakyCritic · 30/04/2025 12:03

shootingstar001 · 30/04/2025 12:00

You sound ridiculous. Madrid is the capital of Spain, used to live there. Very far from an 'primitive and undeveloped place'

But it's very apparent someone who makes such comment that has so many ignorant points in it has clearly never left the back water they live in.

Yet the 'backwater' I live in (and it's not even a city, it's a country town!) has generators that get businesses back up in a minute. So explain that then, why can't a capital city have that?

Please explain that.

Funnywonder · 30/04/2025 12:03

thepariscrimefiles · 30/04/2025 12:01

My landline needs power to work following Virgin Media's switch to their digital fibre network.

Also, business landlines are usually linked to a digital switchboard. I wonder how that is powered? Let me think …😆

shootingstar001 · 30/04/2025 12:04

FlakyCritic · 30/04/2025 11:57

How are they not primitive if they don't have generators? Explain that!

There were obviously backup generators in place in some places like hospitals etc but there is no contingency for a total European blackout of power across 3 countries ding dong! The whole point is that it's not a simple power cut for a bit.

ElBandito · 30/04/2025 12:05

FlakyCritic · 30/04/2025 11:44

Sounds like a very primitive and undeveloped place. Where I am most transports, hospitals, banks, supermarkets and even pubs and restaurants have generators that kick in within a minute of the power going out. They'd all go broke if they didn't. Trains go on generators in a power strike so would not be affected. And don't forget many/most businesses still have landlines (which do not run on power), as do some families, and there are still landline public phone boxes in towns.

All of this sounds very farfetched and very unbelievable to me and like it's not a developed country.

Edited

BT will have turned off the old copper phone network in the UK by the end 2025 and phones will instead use the internet to make calls. Maybe that's already happened in Spain, in which case you will need power to make a call.

FlakyCritic · 30/04/2025 12:06

Funnywonder · 30/04/2025 12:00

Where do you live that has regular ‘bog standard’ blackouts and loads of generators? Surely a non primitive country wouldn’t have a great deal of experience of blackouts in the first place?

You are funny though. In an irritating yet weirdly entertaining way.

A country that is tropical/sub tropical and experiences a lot of storms and cyclones. Our last cyclone saw a huge city lose power for 4 days. Trains still going. Pubs still open. Hospitals still running (though on emergency only surgery), supermarkets still open.

Isn't it strange that we had no problems (of course individual homes without generators were out of power, but generally businesses were fine)?

Could someone explain this please? And no, I'm not trolling. I am genuinely shocked at what I am reading on this thread.

#Edit sorry 4 days. Some other parts in the northern part of the state were out for 6 days, so almost a week. Trains and trams still running.

XWKD · 30/04/2025 12:08

Stopeatingcrispsanddips · 30/04/2025 00:29

Did it happen to you, i’m not saying that in an arsey way, but unless you were going through it, you can’t properly understand

It didn't happen to your parents either. They might not have thought it was a big deal.

B1indEye · 30/04/2025 12:09

FlakyCritic · 30/04/2025 11:44

Sounds like a very primitive and undeveloped place. Where I am most transports, hospitals, banks, supermarkets and even pubs and restaurants have generators that kick in within a minute of the power going out. They'd all go broke if they didn't. Trains go on generators in a power strike so would not be affected. And don't forget many/most businesses still have landlines (which do not run on power), as do some families, and there are still landline public phone boxes in towns.

All of this sounds very farfetched and very unbelievable to me and like it's not a developed country.

Edited

Are you thinking that all the Spaniards got together to perpetrate a big old joke on the rest of the world?

What possible evidence could you have for it being unbelievable?

Is where you live in Spain?

catkeys · 30/04/2025 12:09

FlakyCritic · 30/04/2025 12:06

A country that is tropical/sub tropical and experiences a lot of storms and cyclones. Our last cyclone saw a huge city lose power for 4 days. Trains still going. Pubs still open. Hospitals still running (though on emergency only surgery), supermarkets still open.

Isn't it strange that we had no problems (of course individual homes without generators were out of power, but generally businesses were fine)?

Could someone explain this please? And no, I'm not trolling. I am genuinely shocked at what I am reading on this thread.

#Edit sorry 4 days. Some other parts in the northern part of the state were out for 6 days, so almost a week. Trains and trams still running.

Edited

You have warning of storms and people will stay home, not be out and about on crowded roads and on trains and in the middle of going about their everyday lives 🤦🏼‍♀️

Aprilweather · 30/04/2025 12:10

FlakyCritic · 30/04/2025 12:06

A country that is tropical/sub tropical and experiences a lot of storms and cyclones. Our last cyclone saw a huge city lose power for 4 days. Trains still going. Pubs still open. Hospitals still running (though on emergency only surgery), supermarkets still open.

Isn't it strange that we had no problems (of course individual homes without generators were out of power, but generally businesses were fine)?

Could someone explain this please? And no, I'm not trolling. I am genuinely shocked at what I am reading on this thread.

#Edit sorry 4 days. Some other parts in the northern part of the state were out for 6 days, so almost a week. Trains and trams still running.

Edited

😂 Mate. No way are you for real not understanding the differences between set ups in places which regularly deal with weather takimg down infrastructure and set up in places where that isn't a case.
It's like Siberian person laughing at Saudi for not being set up for deep sub zero temps.
Stupid

Funnywonder · 30/04/2025 12:11

FlakyCritic · 30/04/2025 12:06

A country that is tropical/sub tropical and experiences a lot of storms and cyclones. Our last cyclone saw a huge city lose power for 4 days. Trains still going. Pubs still open. Hospitals still running (though on emergency only surgery), supermarkets still open.

Isn't it strange that we had no problems (of course individual homes without generators were out of power, but generally businesses were fine)?

Could someone explain this please? And no, I'm not trolling. I am genuinely shocked at what I am reading on this thread.

#Edit sorry 4 days. Some other parts in the northern part of the state were out for 6 days, so almost a week. Trains and trams still running.

Edited

You have answered your own flipping question, haven’t you? It’s something that happens frequently where you live, due to cyclones, therefore contingency measures are in place. It’s like asking why the buildings in my town aren’t earthquake proof. Um, we don’t have earthquakes.

RatalieTatalie · 30/04/2025 12:12

MilkyBarsAreOnMee · 30/04/2025 11:58

I think I have reached the end of the line with MN. The amount of ignorance and deliberate obtuseness on this thread is unbelievable.

@Stopeatingcrispsanddips based on the news I read and heard, and updates from colleagues, I would definitely have contacted friends/family to check in on them, so I can understand your frustration. I hope things are back to normal for you now.

Agree. I'm genuinely baffled sometimes by people's responses on here. Do people not usually converse with their families?

I'm not talking about sending out rescue teams, just an "OMG just seen the news about the power, what a pain, are you without anything" or what have you?

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