DH and I have 2 kids. I have recently started losing weight and religiously losing weight. I’ve made real, visible progress. I’m also on a strict diet. At first DH seemed to be supporting me. He couldn’t believe the difference. His taken a new interest in our relationship and shows me attention I never got while I was big. He previously would never want to be intimate now his always around me. The nicer my body gets, the more I notice some strange behaviour from him. He will eat unhealthy food such as McDonald’s by me (normal because he just enjoys junk food.) I fast on certain days and he will get the nicest of meals and ask me to order it for him & I get to see everything I’m missing out on. Again, not too unusual. But his been asking to go out to meals (which we never do) at the most unhealthiest restaurants. Burgers, pizzas- knowing full well I can’t eat it. Then when we are there he tries pressuring me into eating. He said yesterday “can you have the rest of my burger? I don’t want it to go to waste.” And suggested we splash out and have a feast. I had a salad but admittedly I did have a slice of pizza. While he would watch the kids when I went to the gym before, he claims to be busy when I ask and I can’t go as frequently as I did before. I also work out when the kids are sleeping and he suggests we should use that time to spend together instead. We was talking last night and he admitted that he doesn’t trust me to not leave him although I would never. What do I make of this? It seems as if he is (not so) subtly to sabotage me. But knowing men they are not as calculated as this and he might just not realise.