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Someone Told Me My Husband Is Seeing Someone

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TheCoralMoose · 27/04/2025 23:32

Ok Im new on here and im seriously worried.

Last week I had to get a taxi to a GP appointment because I wasnt feeling very well.
Its only a 15 minute walk but i have been really ill.
My hubby goes out to a bar every night and uses taxis.

The taxi driver chatted to me during the journey and said he dropped my hubby and his sister off to a club on the easter saturday.
He has two sisters and has never socialised with them.
I asked him what the woman looked like he said about 59 ish. dark hair in a bob medium build. It sounds like his first wife.
I went to the surgery because I have been having a ache in my lower stomach not sharp but dull. Having to wee a lot and when i do wee it feels like a mild cystitis and my vulva is itchy and irritated too.
Its keeping me awake too.
The doctor said it sounds like a UTI and prescribed Trimethoprim suspension ( i hate swallowing pills).
Two weeks on i still feel no better. Im phoning the surgery tomorow.
Someone has texted me to say he is seeing someone else for a very long time.
What do i do?.

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Endofyear · 28/04/2025 09:06

TheCoralMoose · 28/04/2025 00:39

I have been thinking about ending my marriage before this happened tbh.
He is controlling and has struck me with a phone.
Rude to my family.

Ok he sounds like an arsehole - you need to leave. Get yourself tested for STIs. Have you got family/friends to support you? You can call Women's Aid for advice and support. It sounds like your partner is abusive and you deserve so much better.

ThisQuirkyPoet · 28/04/2025 10:18

Bigcat25 · 28/04/2025 03:52

I think he meant height, 5'9.

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That makes sense

TheCoralMoose · 28/04/2025 14:02

I went to the surgery this morning.

The female doctor who saw me examined me and asked if i had had sex with anyone apart from my husband. I said someone told me he is cheating.
I was told the symptoms sound like chlamydia and she did say my vulva looked inflamed.
I have been given cephalexin to take three times a day for one week.
She swabbed me and i will get the results in a week.

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