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To think things don’t last as long as they once did?

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K8Davidson · 25/04/2025 20:35

I bought a new toilet seat a year ago, and it broke yesterday. I’m very frustrated because when one issue is solved, something else breaks.

My furniture is mostly antique because I know they will last for the rest of my life!

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Fizbosshoes · 26/04/2025 07:13

As a kid I remember our fridge lasted forever. The fridge we had before our current one lasted about 2 or 3 years and we had it repaired twice in that time too. By the time it broke a 3rd time, it felt better value to get another one.

Similarly when we moved in our house there was a really old dishwasher that worked fine. We re-did the kitchen and bought a new one. After about 2 or 3 years the plastic coating started breaking off the drawers/racks. It still worked but we looked into replacing the racks. It was going to be about £240 to do that and it seemed ridiculous against the cost of the machine. We ended buying a second hand dishwasher for £75.

I recently had an issue with my phone (it's about 3 years old) the person in the phone shop said the issue was due to a "very old" sim card! Admittedly they replaced the sim free. I find it stressful to change phones I don't understand all the people who upgrade each time a new one comes out 🤣

In smaller items, I bought a rucksack last year and it lasted 6 months before the strap broke off (I do not regularly overload it)

Our sofa is about 25 years old though, and not planning to replace any time soon.

BlueSpikeyPearls · 26/04/2025 07:18

OoooopsUpsideYourHead · 26/04/2025 00:41

Then again, when I was growing up in the 70s, we had a TV repair man who would come round and replace all sorts of parts and a washing machine repair man.

The high streets always had repair shops too, for lawn mowers, portable heaters and even your hair dryer if it went kaput.

Now we all tend to just bin and replace.

That's because repair has become impossible. Many manufacturers use special screw which no standard torque-sets cover or the devices are sealed and either can´t be opened or closed after opening. Spare parts are difficult to get and aftermarket parts often cause the device to stop working, because, again, the manufacturer does not want anyone but themselves to replace the parts, if they even offer that service in the first place.

It's called planned obsolescence. It's done deliberately to make us buy more stuff. There are very "right-to-repair" laws in the works in various countries, but the traction they gain is limited so far.

Todayupstairs · 26/04/2025 07:25

BabyBoyBeautiful · 26/04/2025 05:58

I am just about old enough to remember my parents buying their sofa and chairs for the living room. They are around 30 years old now and still look brand new!
Most people I know are replacing their sofas every 4 years, they go to scs or dfs and buy them on credit. As soon as they finish paying for them they sell them on fb market place for a few hundred pounds and enter into another credit agreement for 4 years.
I do wonder about the antiques of the future, I can't imagine anyone wanting to buy B&M wall art or IKEA furniture but I'm sure our great grandparents felt the same about their belongings 🤔

I think the antiques of the future will be the expensive, quality made brands of today.
Some already hold their price as vintage.

Ercol springs to mind. British made and designed. Currently with a British grown range. Similarly, some Scanadnavian designers.

Not everyone spends on quality though. Sadly, the cheap imports but British trade at risk.

TammyJones · 26/04/2025 07:39

heffalumpwoozle · 26/04/2025 07:01

There is more cheap tat around, for sure, with the likes of Amazon, Shein and Temu.

But if you are more discerning and do your research you can still get decent quality stuff.

It costs a bit more so you have to save up for longer but that was always the case.

Agree.
I found Bosch to be excellent

TammyJones · 26/04/2025 07:42

XxSideshowAuntSallyx · 26/04/2025 07:02

I agree about toilet seats. My one is crap, and it's only about 2 years old. It's loose and no matter what I do it always bloody moves. My parents ones are about 30 years old and are solid and don't bloody move.

I found this
30 years ago no problem
moved house 12 years ago had no end of lose seats
at the moment seemed have sorted it

Loooop · 26/04/2025 07:42

If you’ve a wobbly toilet seat that’s surely about how it’s attached. Take it off and re screw it tight. Loads of videos on YouTube will show you how

TammyJones · 26/04/2025 07:46

Loooop · 26/04/2025 07:42

If you’ve a wobbly toilet seat that’s surely about how it’s attached. Take it off and re screw it tight. Loads of videos on YouTube will show you how

Agree to a certain point, but this only started happening about 12 years ago

HeySugarSugar · 26/04/2025 08:01

Ohthatsabitshit · 26/04/2025 06:25

You can still get things repaired. It is harder to find places that do it but it’s possible. The sofa thing really annoys me though. How is it possible that a shop that sells sofas can’t make one that lasts?

Sofas do last! Our first DFS sofa lasted 17 years - the guy at the showroom was stunned when we told him while ordering our new one. He said most people replace them out of choice long before they need to.

Ohthatsabitshit · 26/04/2025 08:06

HeySugarSugar · 26/04/2025 08:01

Sofas do last! Our first DFS sofa lasted 17 years - the guy at the showroom was stunned when we told him while ordering our new one. He said most people replace them out of choice long before they need to.

Thats not my experience at all. Ours are 9 years old and on their last legs. To my mind a sofa should last forever with maybe a reupholster at around 25 years.

Sesma · 26/04/2025 08:06

A lot of people replace things because they don't match their current decor, rather than it being worn out. I cant imagine that the person that changes a kitchen after about 10 years is keeping a sofa for 15.

TheNightingalesStarling · 26/04/2025 08:07

Our old sofas were fine for 12 years... replaced as they didn't fit into our new house.

The replacement ones ate crap in comparison... and we thought we went upmarket! Wish we stuck with IKEA...

meevee · 26/04/2025 08:10

To my mind a sofa should last forever with maybe a reupholster at around 25 years.

I was looking at reupholstering my sofa, it's the price of a new sofa!

NoSoapJustUseShowerGel · 26/04/2025 08:14

Yanbu, things used to be made to last but consequently they cost more to buy. Now we have planned obsolescence for tech and cheap imports that are of poor quality.

WhySoManySocks · 26/04/2025 08:17

Ohthatsabitshit · 26/04/2025 06:25

You can still get things repaired. It is harder to find places that do it but it’s possible. The sofa thing really annoys me though. How is it possible that a shop that sells sofas can’t make one that lasts?

They can, but it’s more profitable to sell sofas that don’t.

dudsville · 26/04/2025 08:23

I'm worried about replacing my roof. The roof on my house is the original 1938 roof. I hope to live here for at least another 30 years, and if I had to replace the roof now I would expect it to need to be replaced again before I die or leave for a home.

dudsville · 26/04/2025 08:27

And re the concept of needing to pay more to get better quality, I think the price point is outside of most people's reach. But that most people are in the price point cohort with those who replace kitchens and bathrooms a few times in a home. That drives quality down.

EveryDayisFriday · 26/04/2025 08:30

I do also think that because things can easily replaced that we do become complacent and rough/ cack handed with things. I used to take very good care of things that I couldn't afford to replace.

Atarin · 26/04/2025 08:38

My family’s ikea chairs have made the rounds of all our siblings and are 35yrs old and still look amazing!!

I’ve never had an issue with a toilet seat! Ours are wood, nothing fancy, have lasted years, definitely not expensive.

GnomeDePlume · 26/04/2025 08:44

Don't forget, the item which has survived 30 years will be an outlier. The vast majority will have failed.

KimberleyClark · 26/04/2025 08:48

OoooopsUpsideYourHead · 26/04/2025 00:41

Then again, when I was growing up in the 70s, we had a TV repair man who would come round and replace all sorts of parts and a washing machine repair man.

The high streets always had repair shops too, for lawn mowers, portable heaters and even your hair dryer if it went kaput.

Now we all tend to just bin and replace.

People used to rent TVs and the repairs were free.

Chiseltip · 26/04/2025 09:19

Coffee machines. Mine is 15 years old, used a dozen times a day, cost £35. Way over engineered, it's ridiculous. At this point I'm willing the flipping thing to break so I have an excuse to buy a new one, but no, it just keeps on going.

Also, my old phone, it's a Samsung S21, bought way back in 2021. I used it everyday for all my emails and internet stuff, and at it would play white noise all night, every night, to help me sleep. I also used it to watch Netflix (even though there is a fuck off huge TV on the wall). So it was in almost constant use, 24 hours a day, for four years straight. It's now been retired and living a far more sedate life as the Sonos controller. That's only because I feel bad about locking it away in a drawer somewhere, so I've given it a job to do, even though I could just use my new phone to control the speakers. But I'd never tell it that.

Sesma · 26/04/2025 09:31

KimberleyClark · 26/04/2025 08:48

People used to rent TVs and the repairs were free.

We rented our tv and video player, video players were notorious for breaking down

lljkk · 26/04/2025 09:51

I think cheap versions are widely available is why items may not last as long... widely available because we consumers want that, we want a cheaper version and then maybe we'll completely change the entire bathroom sooner so why pay to have something that lasts 20 years if we only need something to last 1-4 yrs.

So if things last shorter periods... it's because consumers are satisfied with the trade off of cheap = don't expect to use it so long.

Big exception is iphones, lol. The hardware lasts well but the Operating systems have planned obsolescence.

K8Davidson · 26/04/2025 10:05

Sesma · 26/04/2025 06:44

My toilet seat from Next has lasted years so has my Croydex one from Amazon

Thank you! I’ll look into those brands! My broken one is AngelShield, it looked so sturdy!

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K8Davidson · 26/04/2025 10:09

Loooop · 26/04/2025 07:42

If you’ve a wobbly toilet seat that’s surely about how it’s attached. Take it off and re screw it tight. Loads of videos on YouTube will show you how

No, it has completely broken on one side. Snapped off completely. I asked my Dad to have a look at it (he’s a plumber), he said it can’t be fixed at all.

I asked if I needed to replace the attachments and he said it’s not possible because the part that’s broke is the part of the toilet seat itself.

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