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to think marathons in cities cause too much mayhem?

254 replies

Bottlew · 25/04/2025 13:18

There is a full marathon in my city on Sunday. They will start to close the roads 5pm on Saturday and it is impossible to drive anywhere.

My neighbour is immobile and relies on carers. All his visits are severely delayed and it means he ends up sitting in his faeces and urine for hours and hours. He won't get his meals till a lot later. There is access given for carers, emergency services but this still ends up in a lot of delays.

I know it brings in a huge amount of income for the city but the disruption is terrible particularly for those who are vulnerable. It means I don't get to visit people in need because I can't drive anywhere. Public transport doesn't work as I often have a lot of shopping etc.

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Clearinguptheclutter · 25/04/2025 13:56

I’m a runner. It’s massively unreasonable to be annoyed by it because
a. It’s one day and there is literally loads of info out there about which roads are closed and how to avoid. Yes you need to spend a bit of time planning.
b. Running as a general rule (specifically the increase in its popularity) benefit the health of wider society enormously. I’m confident I will live a longer, healthier life, and therefore be less of a drain on the nhs, because it’s made me the healthiest I’ve ever been

Bottlew · 25/04/2025 13:57

SallyD00lally · 25/04/2025 13:33

I really hope that elderly man has someone to advocate for him.

Have you reported his carers OP?

I've recently been through hell with my uncle's 'care' company and they're now in special measures.

But as he has no wife or children, if I hadn't fought his corner no-one else would have.

It is not the carers fault. They have to follow convoluted routes to get to everybody with so many road closures. They usually get round to everyone quickly.

When there is a major event, they put him to bed at 5pm to try and catch up.

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FOJN · 25/04/2025 13:57

Ponderingwindow · 25/04/2025 13:52

people really don’t grasp that even with access granted carers and essential services will be delayed by the process? No amount of planning can take away time held at checkpoints getting permission to pass.

Exactly. If you only have one client to see in a shift you can set off earlier to account for the delays with the intention of arriving on time. If you are delivering care to say 6 or so people then a 20 or 30 minute delay in each journey between them will soon add up to a few hours delay.

Backbag · 25/04/2025 13:58

Brefugee · 25/04/2025 13:32

so the part of the OP that explains exactly how her neighbour's carers can't get through was invisible to you?

It's not true though. People living in the cities aren't cut off. If the careers are blaming the marathon they're using it as an excuse for their own failings.

Bottlew · 25/04/2025 13:58

Ablondiebutagoody · 25/04/2025 13:48

Rather than driving to people in need, can't you help your neighbour?

2 people are needed to move him and change his incontinence pads. Are you suggesting I do this?

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JHound · 25/04/2025 13:59

I am in London and cannot wait till Sunday’s marathon. The disruption is one day a year. It will be fine.

I actually miss living on the marathon route.

Bottlew · 25/04/2025 14:00

Backbag · 25/04/2025 13:58

It's not true though. People living in the cities aren't cut off. If the careers are blaming the marathon they're using it as an excuse for their own failings.

Do you understand how many people the carers have to see? No planning in advance can help to make sure everyone gets meals on times and have their incontinence pads changed. Sometimes vomit needs clearing up.

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Bottlew · 25/04/2025 14:01

JHound · 25/04/2025 13:59

I am in London and cannot wait till Sunday’s marathon. The disruption is one day a year. It will be fine.

I actually miss living on the marathon route.

Fine for the able bodied, yes.

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JHound · 25/04/2025 14:01

Bottlew · 25/04/2025 14:01

Fine for the able bodied, yes.

For everybody.

JHound · 25/04/2025 14:02

It’s not like the London Marathon is a new thing. The carers can easily make arrangements as those who lived on the marathon route learned to do.

They just want something to blame their incompetence on.

nahthatsnotforme · 25/04/2025 14:03

OP I completely agree. There is a half marathon every year in my town. The route loops so there is a small patch that is effectively ‘cut off’ until about 5pm and I’m in that patch. We cannot drive out or it and MASSIVELY pisses me off. Just bugger off somewhere else and run. Several laps of a park perhaps.

nahthatsnotforme · 25/04/2025 14:05

And as a retired community nurse yes it impacts hugely on visits to those in need of visits by carers, meals on wheels, family support etc.

SallyD00lally · 25/04/2025 14:06

Bottlew · 25/04/2025 13:57

It is not the carers fault. They have to follow convoluted routes to get to everybody with so many road closures. They usually get round to everyone quickly.

When there is a major event, they put him to bed at 5pm to try and catch up.

This is absolutely disgusting and I'm shocked you haven't reported them.

The London Marathon has been going since 1981 I believe.

Are you honestly saying that every care company in the area has put elderly people to bed at 5pm, and allowed them to sit for hours and hours in their own shit due to this, for over 40 years?

I'm surprised Panorama hasn't picked up on it.

Hapagirl48 · 25/04/2025 14:08

I don't mind a marathon so much, it's only one day and I plan accordingly. I used to live in a city that hosted the F1 and the disruption there majorly pissed me off though!

4pmwinetimebebeh · 25/04/2025 14:08

YABU we live on the path of one of the marathons and get ‘shut in’ to our close from midnight until 3pm ish when the roads start to reopen. We love marathon days the atmosphere is amazing and it’s great for the kids to see a positive healthy activity. This Sunday we have plans so will be staying elsewhere sat night so we have the car to get there and plan to get home when the roads reopen.

You do just need to be organised and plan ahead, as should carers etc. a friend in our close child had an asthma attack once and the ambulance were let through easily there and back and it barely delayed emergency care the organisers are really fantastic.

QuickPeachPoet · 25/04/2025 14:21

Bottlew · 25/04/2025 14:01

Fine for the able bodied, yes.

Life cannot stand still for the disabled - harsh as that sounds. As PP have said, these events are planned up to a year in advance and do not come as a shock. Plans can be made to ensure that such people still have their needs met, for a few hours once per year.
In the event of a true emergency, the police can clear the runners from the road to allow emergency vehicles through (did you see Boston?)

Backbag · 25/04/2025 14:23

SallyD00lally · 25/04/2025 14:06

This is absolutely disgusting and I'm shocked you haven't reported them.

The London Marathon has been going since 1981 I believe.

Are you honestly saying that every care company in the area has put elderly people to bed at 5pm, and allowed them to sit for hours and hours in their own shit due to this, for over 40 years?

I'm surprised Panorama hasn't picked up on it.

IME they often want to start putting people to bed at 6pm anyway. DH often didn't get any visits between 6pm and 10am

UrgentScurryfunge · 25/04/2025 14:31

There's enough notice and signposting of routes affected for services such as care companies to adjust their arrangements.

We have 3 races per year; a 10k which is done and dusted by 11am, a HM which affects a significant arterial route for about 2 hours as it's in the first half, and the second half is mainly off road to minimise the disruption. And another mid-distance event that is mainly off road and affects one village for about 4 hours.

Oh the whinging about all the disruption despite everything being back to normal by midday on a Sunday. Yet no comment about the traffic chaos and gridlock every other Saturday and some weekday evenings as thousands flock to watch 22 millionaires chase a ball.

The running events bring people in to accommodation, food and services- especially where it's big marathons that people travel significant distances. They inspire people to get fit and look after their long term health (it was a race in my home town that inspired me beyond C25k and made me realise that distance running was both possible and enjoyable). And they are massive charity events, especially London, but also any of the other big name distance races.

They are huge, multi-agency events with huge attention put into organising the logistics, and that wouldn't happen if the benefits didn't outweigh the costs and disruption.

I have lived directly on a race route with the longest road closure as it was the section where we looped the start and finish. I loved the sound of the cones plopping down the road and traffic dwindling down... then the only quiet of the year... then the sounds of people as the community come and sit outside their houses to spectate. It was the only time we saw "Fay Weldon" on the other side of the road as the rest of the time we were separated by a constant ribbon of heavy traffic.

Bottlew · 25/04/2025 14:39

JHound · 25/04/2025 14:01

For everybody.

How is it fine for a 90 year old man who is doubly incontinent and the carers are being delayed for hours because of the disruption on the roads?

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Bottlew · 25/04/2025 14:40

Backbag · 25/04/2025 14:23

IME they often want to start putting people to bed at 6pm anyway. DH often didn't get any visits between 6pm and 10am

The carers usually come around 9.30 - 10.00pm so 5pm is very early when he is doubly incontinent.

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SallyD00lally · 25/04/2025 14:41

Bottlew · 25/04/2025 14:39

How is it fine for a 90 year old man who is doubly incontinent and the carers are being delayed for hours because of the disruption on the roads?

It's not.

The care company needs to plan in advance, just like all the other care companies do.

Or are you saying 100s of elderly/vulnerable people are all sitting in their own shit for hours and hours?

You really seem to be missing this point.

BethDuttonYeHaw · 25/04/2025 14:42

SallyD00lally · 25/04/2025 13:22

If he has to sit in his own shit and piss for hours and hours, his carers need reporting.

Diversions are announced way in advance and as you say, there's special access for them anyway.

Truly awful for that poor man.

Absolutely this - its a massive failure by his carers.

They are using the marathon as an excuse to have a skive.

Bottlew · 25/04/2025 14:42

4pmwinetimebebeh · 25/04/2025 14:08

YABU we live on the path of one of the marathons and get ‘shut in’ to our close from midnight until 3pm ish when the roads start to reopen. We love marathon days the atmosphere is amazing and it’s great for the kids to see a positive healthy activity. This Sunday we have plans so will be staying elsewhere sat night so we have the car to get there and plan to get home when the roads reopen.

You do just need to be organised and plan ahead, as should carers etc. a friend in our close child had an asthma attack once and the ambulance were let through easily there and back and it barely delayed emergency care the organisers are really fantastic.

How exactly can the carers plan ahead? They have a lot of people to get out of bed, give breakfast then come back at lunch, dinner and bed. They will need to help people get to the toilet or change their pads. If someone has fallen then am ambulance has to be called. The carers have to stay there until the ambulance arrives.

With all the disruption on the roads, it takes so much longer.

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MemorableTrenchcoat · 25/04/2025 14:43

Bottlew · 25/04/2025 14:39

How is it fine for a 90 year old man who is doubly incontinent and the carers are being delayed for hours because of the disruption on the roads?

So this man’s needs should take precedence over something which will benefit many thousands of people? That’s not how society operates.

Bottlew · 25/04/2025 14:43

SallyD00lally · 25/04/2025 14:06

This is absolutely disgusting and I'm shocked you haven't reported them.

The London Marathon has been going since 1981 I believe.

Are you honestly saying that every care company in the area has put elderly people to bed at 5pm, and allowed them to sit for hours and hours in their own shit due to this, for over 40 years?

I'm surprised Panorama hasn't picked up on it.

Did I say every care company in the area? 🙄

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