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I think about the Roman Empire a lot

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Riversof0tter5 · 19/04/2025 17:40

Why is thinking about the Roman Empire supposed to be something that men do?

I think about it a lot. I like baths.

YABU: the Roman Empire is a toxically masculine preoccupation
YANBU: baths

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IHeartHalloumi · 19/04/2025 17:42

The first question is do you actually think of the Roman Empire or the Roman Republic. The Empire was quite short relatively speaking. You're probably thinking about the Republic.

Riversof0tter5 · 19/04/2025 17:43

IHeartHalloumi · 19/04/2025 17:42

The first question is do you actually think of the Roman Empire or the Roman Republic. The Empire was quite short relatively speaking. You're probably thinking about the Republic.

Tell me more. As much as you want to.

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Riversof0tter5 · 19/04/2025 17:44

IHeartHalloumi · 19/04/2025 17:42

The first question is do you actually think of the Roman Empire or the Roman Republic. The Empire was quite short relatively speaking. You're probably thinking about the Republic.

I regularly think "what would Tiberius do" when looking at the news.

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Monvelo · 19/04/2025 17:45

Both kids have recently covered the Romans in school so I think we're peak Roman right now. Saw the longest intact Roman mosaic in the country yesterday! Ds wants a Roman hot tub for his 8th birthday...

ForSunnyLemonBeaker · 19/04/2025 17:47

Dh thinks about it a lot but he's from Colchester and I think it might come literally with the territory.

I haven't got strong opinions on it. I spend more time worrying if we're all real and how did they build the pyramids.

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Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 19/04/2025 17:49

Perfectly sane preoccupation, but then I had the excellent luck to study Latin at school for six years and then to do a Classics degree. If you like the Romans, you'll love the Ancient Greeks.

ForSunnyLemonBeaker · 19/04/2025 17:49

Actually dd (autistic) went through a long Rome phase. We had to play Tabula regularly

Riversof0tter5 · 19/04/2025 17:49

I want to do a deep dive into Rosemary Sutcliff's books over summer...

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ghostyslovesheets · 19/04/2025 17:49

I think about it daily and am not a man! I’m fascinated by the military and democratic history and the architecture

see also James Purefoy in Rome - I think about that a lot as well 😃

Riversof0tter5 · 19/04/2025 17:50

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 19/04/2025 17:49

Perfectly sane preoccupation, but then I had the excellent luck to study Latin at school for six years and then to do a Classics degree. If you like the Romans, you'll love the Ancient Greeks.

Do you know I often ask myself this and it may be a lack of taste but personally I would have been happier in Rome...higher chance of literacy as a woman...

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outerspacepotato · 19/04/2025 17:51

My current listen is SPQR, A History of Ancient Rome by Mary Beard so daily.

ForSunnyLemonBeaker · 19/04/2025 17:53

Dh often thinks of what might still be left behind if Boudicca hadn't burnt it to a crisp and thinks it's a terrible shame. Personally, I think she's far more interesting and it's the greatest tale of "fuck about and find out" I've ever heard.

LadeOde · 19/04/2025 17:57

I've never come across this mindset before, but I do think about the ancient roman empire often because you can see traces of it all around us. Numerals, Latin in our daily speech, buildings, sport (Olympics), the size of the empire, religion, politics. If you're interested in any of those things, the Roman empire must come to mind more than once in a while and I'm female. I find its history fascinating.

Thesquaregiraffe · 19/04/2025 17:59

Riversof0tter5 · 19/04/2025 17:49

I want to do a deep dive into Rosemary Sutcliff's books over summer...

i like a good read of Mary Beard (or audio book). My son (now aged 13 but was 4 at the time) obsessively listened to her book on “Life of a Roman Town”. As a result we took him to Pompeii aged 6. And I took him back last year - we recreated a then and now picture 🤣

Our conversation is often filled with ancient history and the Romans 😁.

HoskinsChoice · 19/04/2025 17:59

I haven't thought about the Roman Empire since the last time the subject of men thinking about it was scraped off Reddit. I probably won't think about it again until someone else posts the exact same Internet meme in the future.

NeverDropYourMooncup · 19/04/2025 18:00

Riversof0tter5 · 19/04/2025 17:44

I regularly think "what would Tiberius do" when looking at the news.

I tend to think what James Tiberius would do. There wasn't a no win situation he couldn't get out of, after all.

Does this Roman thinking also include the Byzantine era?

Screamingabdabz · 19/04/2025 18:00

ForSunnyLemonBeaker · 19/04/2025 17:53

Dh often thinks of what might still be left behind if Boudicca hadn't burnt it to a crisp and thinks it's a terrible shame. Personally, I think she's far more interesting and it's the greatest tale of "fuck about and find out" I've ever heard.

Boudicca had better reasons than any of the destruction that men have made. Why has he singled her out?

TooManyRabbitsAndNotEnoughChickens · 19/04/2025 18:01

My ex thinks about the Romans and he is a vicious bastard.

StandFirm · 19/04/2025 18:02

Considering that the reincarnation of Emperor Nero is sitting in the White House, you are not unreasonable at all.

Riversof0tter5 · 19/04/2025 18:03

NeverDropYourMooncup · 19/04/2025 18:00

I tend to think what James Tiberius would do. There wasn't a no win situation he couldn't get out of, after all.

Does this Roman thinking also include the Byzantine era?

Sometimes it does, yes! Fabulous empress names.

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StandFirm · 19/04/2025 18:04

Btw I love The Rest Is History - there's a bunch of great episodes on the Romans. Also recommend Tom Holland's books on the subject.

StandFirm · 19/04/2025 18:06

StandFirm · 19/04/2025 18:02

Considering that the reincarnation of Emperor Nero is sitting in the White House, you are not unreasonable at all.

I can't take credit for this btw, if you want to hear a truly great speech, head here:

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heathspeedwell · 19/04/2025 18:06

I have a massive crush on Atia of the Julii. I think about her a lot.

if you haven't seen the HBO series Rome yet then I highly recommend it.

theDudesmummy · 19/04/2025 18:06

I think about it a lot more than I used to thanks to TRIH podcast!

Riversof0tter5 · 19/04/2025 18:07

I would love to make this nut tart
https://press.uchicago.edu/Misc/Chicago/233472.htm
Posting in case anyone hasn't planned Sunday meals yet...see also the super easy but tasty tuna recipe!

Eight ancient Roman recipes from Around the Roman Table: Food and Feasting in Ancient Rome

https://press.uchicago.edu/Misc/Chicago/233472.htm

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