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I think about the Roman Empire a lot

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Riversof0tter5 · 19/04/2025 17:40

Why is thinking about the Roman Empire supposed to be something that men do?

I think about it a lot. I like baths.

YABU: the Roman Empire is a toxically masculine preoccupation
YANBU: baths

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thisfilmisboring123 · 19/04/2025 18:07

HoskinsChoice · 19/04/2025 17:59

I haven't thought about the Roman Empire since the last time the subject of men thinking about it was scraped off Reddit. I probably won't think about it again until someone else posts the exact same Internet meme in the future.

Same… and the time before that was probably at school.

I asked my DH about this when it was popping up everywhere (he doesn’t really do social media), he looked at me like I was mental.

Riversof0tter5 · 19/04/2025 18:08

heathspeedwell · 19/04/2025 18:06

I have a massive crush on Atia of the Julii. I think about her a lot.

if you haven't seen the HBO series Rome yet then I highly recommend it.

I regularly imagine settling down with a hairy, ashamed, homebody Roman soldier who decided to stay in Britannia.

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Madcatdudette · 19/04/2025 18:09

I only think of Boudicca and how awesome she was.

ForSunnyLemonBeaker · 19/04/2025 18:09

Screamingabdabz · 19/04/2025 18:00

Boudicca had better reasons than any of the destruction that men have made. Why has he singled her out?

Only because of the connection to his hometown (Colchester).

Miaowzabella · 19/04/2025 18:09

Riversof0tter5 · 19/04/2025 17:44

I regularly think "what would Tiberius do" when looking at the news.

I think he would be very impressed by 21st century levels of political corruption, tyranny and sexual depravity.

StandFirm · 19/04/2025 18:10

Riversof0tter5 · 19/04/2025 18:08

I regularly imagine settling down with a hairy, ashamed, homebody Roman soldier who decided to stay in Britannia.

Sounds like a Roman version of Outlander :)

Riversof0tter5 · 19/04/2025 18:10

Miaowzabella · 19/04/2025 18:09

I think he would be very impressed by 21st century levels of political corruption, tyranny and sexual depravity.

I don't think he'd have liked Scandi design though

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ghostyslovesheets · 19/04/2025 18:12

heathspeedwell · 19/04/2025 18:06

I have a massive crush on Atia of the Julii. I think about her a lot.

if you haven't seen the HBO series Rome yet then I highly recommend it.

Oh Atia!

‘Atia of the Julii I demand justice’ ruining her dinner party!

Riversof0tter5 · 19/04/2025 18:13

ghostyslovesheets · 19/04/2025 18:12

Oh Atia!

‘Atia of the Julii I demand justice’ ruining her dinner party!

I have a friend who looks just like her! Happily married though

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ghostyslovesheets · 19/04/2025 18:14

Riversof0tter5 · 19/04/2025 18:13

I have a friend who looks just like her! Happily married though

You can have Atia if I can have Mark Antony

MarkingBad · 19/04/2025 18:16

I think about the Romans a lot, like a PP I did Latin at school as well but much to the annoyance of my Latin teacher I didn't go onto FE Classics.

I do find myself thinking about Romans a fair bit, we still live with a great deal of their legacy, including their attitudes. I'm not their biggest fan, like every people there were good and bad elements to their culture and what we all lost to their expansion.

I wouldn't have wanted to live in Roman society at any stage, ordinary women did not have much freedom, they just had a lot more freedom than Athenian woman that's hardly something to celebrate.

I do find that period of history fascinating and will watch documentaries on them but I always take the biggest fan of the Romans presenters with a bit of a pinch of salt, this was not anywhere near a perfect society and much of what we know is about the higher classes. This is why Pompeii is so fascianting, it opened up an entireky new perspective with how not just how one or another class lived but how they interacted too, that's important.

Riversof0tter5 · 19/04/2025 18:16

ghostyslovesheets · 19/04/2025 18:14

You can have Atia if I can have Mark Antony

You can have both if I have an extra share of territory

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Thesquaregiraffe · 19/04/2025 18:16

StandFirm · 19/04/2025 18:02

Considering that the reincarnation of Emperor Nero is sitting in the White House, you are not unreasonable at all.

I had a similar thought 😉🤣

Allthegoodnamesarechosen · 19/04/2025 18:21

Trump murdered his mother? And married a male slave, and was married by another male slave?

Gosh, I’ve missed all that, and I would have expected it to be all over the MSM.

ghostyslovesheets · 19/04/2025 18:24

Riversof0tter5 · 19/04/2025 18:16

You can have both if I have an extra share of territory

You can have any territory as long as it’s not valuable

Riversof0tter5 · 19/04/2025 18:25

ghostyslovesheets · 19/04/2025 18:24

You can have any territory as long as it’s not valuable

Ha wait and see

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MarkingBad · 19/04/2025 18:29

StandFirm · 19/04/2025 18:02

Considering that the reincarnation of Emperor Nero is sitting in the White House, you are not unreasonable at all.

But it is now considered that a lot that was said about Nero and similarly betempered rulers of Rome is that suffered terrible PR after the successors got rid of them.

Notquitegrownup2 · 19/04/2025 18:30

OP Have you found I Claudius on BBC iPlayer yet? I binge watched it last year. . .

the80sweregreat · 19/04/2025 18:38

I do if I see a documentary about it on tele or something like that.

TheBewleySisters · 19/04/2025 18:51

Funnily enough, I've been thinking about Roman Britain a lot recently. I did Latin for 5 years at High School, but didn't pursue it. Anyway, something I read which put me on this current find-out-everything-about-Roman-Britain obsession was this :- I had always assumed when the empire was falling and the Roman soldiers in Britain were recalled, that EVERYONE left. But of course after 400 years here, they had married British women, had children, took up trades when they retired from the army, so in fact TONS of Romans never left. This blew my tiny mind.

TonTonMacoute · 19/04/2025 18:57

I always loved Roman history. There are so many different aspects to Roman history there's something for everyone.

The fact that always blows my mind was about how difficult it was to manage and keep a city safe. After the fall of Rome in the first century it wasn't until the 19th century that there was a city as big as Ancient Rome.

ladymalfoy45 · 19/04/2025 19:03

Marcus Didius Falco. As voiced by Anton Lesser.

KettleOn919 · 19/04/2025 19:21

I would love to be a Flavian woman purely because of the extraordinary hairstyles I could wear.

Newrumpus · 15/11/2025 08:09

LadeOde · 19/04/2025 17:57

I've never come across this mindset before, but I do think about the ancient roman empire often because you can see traces of it all around us. Numerals, Latin in our daily speech, buildings, sport (Olympics), the size of the empire, religion, politics. If you're interested in any of those things, the Roman empire must come to mind more than once in a while and I'm female. I find its history fascinating.

Olympics? 🤔

CuboidRectangle · 15/11/2025 08:14

According to modern classicists, there’s a very good chance Boudicca the legendary leader didn’t exist and her great deeds didn’t happen. 🤷‍♀️

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