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Trans women are still women

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Lostcat · 19/04/2025 06:29

AIBU to share what the Supreme Court judgement on the meaning of women in the Equalities Act does and does not do/say/mean.

Although there are now moves to take the ruling and embed discrimination against trans women into uk law, this was not the intention of the Supreme Court judgement. In fact, the judges made it very explicit that politicians, media and activists shouldn’t seek to weaponise the judgement for political gain. Unfortunately that is exactly what people (including a whole host of mumsnetters) are doing.

So what does the judgement do?

Myth: the UK Supreme Court says trans women are not women

Myth: the ruling means trans women can’t claim legal protection as women

Myth: the ruling says you can ban trans women from women’s loos or other women only spaces

What the ruling actually says:
“It is not the role of the court to adjudicate on the arguments in the public domain on the meaning of gender or sex, nor is it to define the meaning of the word ‘woman’ other than when it is used in the provisions of the [Equality Act] 2010.”

The ruling says that in sex-based provisions under the Equalities Act 2010, sex means “biological sex” and refers to one of two biological sexes.

The ruling reiterates that trans women are protected from sex discrimination as women - because they experience the same sexism as women do.

The ruling affirms also that trans people are protected under the law from discrimination on the basis of gender reassignment.

As before (and as the law has stated since 2004) trans women, with or without a Gender Recognition Certificate, should be treated as women and given access to the relevant women’s services - as before, an exception may be made under limited circumstances where the need to exclude trans women may be proportionate (the law gives women’s refuges as an example of a space where this may be necessary, sometimes).

The ruling merely states that in legal references to “sex” the words “man” and “woman” in the sex discrimination clauses of the equalities act refer to “biological” women and men - it is merely about the use of language in legal cases of discrimination.

The very real impact of this on trans and non-binary people’s lives comes from misinterpretations of what is meant or intended by the ruling.
The trans community is fearful because of the inevitable spin manufactured by biased news media and the powerful gender critical lobby (including wealthy and high profile people such as JK Rowling who claim they are “silenced” by trans advocates).

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DrudgeJedd · 19/04/2025 14:18

Bogginsthe3rd · 19/04/2025 14:11

What if you had missed 3 transwomen in the last 2 weeks despite your gaydar turned up to 11 and you getting v close to their faces, as is your methodology? How would you know you had missed them?

Aaanndd there's the homophobia. Took long enough

Kardamyli2 · 19/04/2025 14:18

Bogginsthe3rd · 19/04/2025 14:16

Excuse me? PP literally gave her methods for knowing she had never missed a transwoman, which I repeated to show how ridiculous her argument was.

I gave no methods Boggins. It's female instinct, not method.

Lostcat · 19/04/2025 14:18

Pluvia · 19/04/2025 14:17

Why should anyone male be permitted to participate in any women's sport, even chess? Why should any woman playing in a women's chess tournament be expected to play against a man with all his male entitlement and higher levels of testosterone?

Why should any female chess player lose out on her place in the team/ tournament because a man has decided he's a woman? This is about fairness and. reasonableness. It's not reasonable to allow a man to compete in any female category because of his feelings.

Why should any woman playing in a women's chess tournament be expected to play against a man with all his male entitlement and higher levels of testosterone?

what?

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Bogginsthe3rd · 19/04/2025 14:19

DrudgeJedd · 19/04/2025 14:18

Aaanndd there's the homophobia. Took long enough

Perhaps you should direct that to PP who I was quoting.

DrPrunesqualer · 19/04/2025 14:21

Kardamyli2 · 19/04/2025 14:18

I gave no methods Boggins. It's female instinct, not method.

I agree and interestingly it’s something my husband doesn’t have.
I wonder if it’s something women are born with, a natural protection thing.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 19/04/2025 14:21

Lostcat · 19/04/2025 13:45

So in your mind a woman with CAIS has a body “organised around the reproductive role of producing small gametes” so is definitionally male and should be forced to use men’s facilities according to your understanding of law? And all of this you believe is not only obvious, but mandated by science and justice?

Edited

What does this have to do with unambiguously XY men who believe they are entitled to be in women's spaces because gender?

SorryAuntLydia · 19/04/2025 14:21

Lostcat · 19/04/2025 14:08

And herein lies the problem- that people believe this based on how the judgement has already been misinterpreted and weaponised

@Lostcat No problem here. I understand the judgement. I know what the law is and has always been. And you are wrong.

I’m not going to debate you because

  1. I’m not doing the work for you - I’m not your mum
  2. there are other clever pps telling you facts that you aren’t reading - no point in adding to it
  3. it’s a sunny day - I’m going out to enjoy it

Have a good day, everyone.

Merida46 · 19/04/2025 14:21

Stonewall UK created this ridiculous situation with the introduction of the word "transwomen" to cover everyone from post op transsexuals to fetishistic transvestites.
Post op TS actually made the effort to blend in and NOT be discovered but the transvestites, emboldened by the ridiculous concept of "Self ID," started appearing in women's spaces due to Stonewall's stupid "Diversity Champions" scheme misrepresenting the law.
That is how we ended up with the utterly ridiculous and dangerous situation of men to being locked up in women's prisons just by saying "I am a woman."

beetr00 · 19/04/2025 14:21

Bogginsthe3rd · 19/04/2025 14:16

Excuse me? PP literally gave her methods for knowing she had never missed a transwoman, which I repeated to show how ridiculous her argument was.

only eyes needed @Bogginsthe3rd, it's not ridiculous tbf, it's so obvious.

Kardamyli2 · 19/04/2025 14:21

Bogginsthe3rd · 19/04/2025 14:19

Perhaps you should direct that to PP who I was quoting.

It's not homophobic for my female instinct to recognise without being told that a man is gay. And despite your comment Gaydar is not something I turn on or off or up or down. It just is.

MerlinsBeard1 · 19/04/2025 14:22

DrPrunesqualer · 19/04/2025 14:17

If trans women are as kind as they say they are they will stay out of women only spaces.
We have a right to question if we have concerns and others in law to stand with us in that right.

Well this is the issue isn't it. Transexuals don't care about making biological women feel unsafe or uncomfortable. They only care about being 'accepted' in women's spaces to reaffirm their own delusions.

Pluvia · 19/04/2025 14:22

MandySometimes · 19/04/2025 14:17

But the decision itself is attempting to answer a question about what the meaning of the words sex, man and woman mean in terms of the Equality Act (or whatever the correct terminology for the Act is). Are schools covered by this?

The Ruling said that any facility or service that identifies itself for women (women's toilet, women's changing room, women's refuge) is exclusively for use only by female XX people, now known as women. The ruling covers girls, too, so a girls school is now only permitted to admit girls. Otherwise it becomes a mixed-sex school.

I think we'd get into very muddy waters if the definition of the term woman for the Equality Act 2010 was deemed not to extend to other references to women in the rest of the law, but if that's how they want to play it we'll just deal with a load of court cases and defeat them all.

FOJN · 19/04/2025 14:23

Lostcat · 19/04/2025 14:18

Why should any woman playing in a women's chess tournament be expected to play against a man with all his male entitlement and higher levels of testosterone?

what?

What are you confused by?

The temerity of women to want anything for themselves that doesn't include men?

Bogginsthe3rd · 19/04/2025 14:23

Kardamyli2 · 19/04/2025 14:21

It's not homophobic for my female instinct to recognise without being told that a man is gay. And despite your comment Gaydar is not something I turn on or off or up or down. It just is.

Edited

It was @DrudgeJedd calling you that

MrsMappFlint · 19/04/2025 14:23

Transwomen (aka men) can still pretend to be women.

They can call themselves, Great Aunt Jane; have their genitals cut off; wave a certificate; wear a Playtex bra stuffed with chicken fillets; thread flowers in their hair; dress head to foot in Laura Ashley; have a collection of lipsticks or anything else that they think is the essence of womanhood.

Yes, they can still pretend to be a woman.

What they can't be is be a woman because , you know, they're a man.

Nice for them to dress up and pretend but that's your lot, mate.

DrPrunesqualer · 19/04/2025 14:23

SorryAuntLydia · 19/04/2025 14:21

@Lostcat No problem here. I understand the judgement. I know what the law is and has always been. And you are wrong.

I’m not going to debate you because

  1. I’m not doing the work for you - I’m not your mum
  2. there are other clever pps telling you facts that you aren’t reading - no point in adding to it
  3. it’s a sunny day - I’m going out to enjoy it

Have a good day, everyone.

You are so right @SorryAuntLydia

Clearly
OP isn’t listening

Ask a question
Get the answer…….multiple times

Honestly how confusing can such a simple thing be.
Enjoy the sun, wish we had some !

Kardamyli2 · 19/04/2025 14:24

DrPrunesqualer · 19/04/2025 14:21

I agree and interestingly it’s something my husband doesn’t have.
I wonder if it’s something women are born with, a natural protection thing.

I think it must be - probably a survival mechanism from cave-dwelling days. Interestingly I'm much worse at spotting lesbians.

AllProperTeaIsTheft · 19/04/2025 14:25

MandySometimes · 19/04/2025 14:17

But the decision itself is attempting to answer a question about what the meaning of the words sex, man and woman mean in terms of the Equality Act (or whatever the correct terminology for the Act is). Are schools covered by this?

Why wouldn't schools be covered by this? Children are of male sex or female sex. There aren't even any GRCs to muddy the waters, as kids can't have GRCs. Yes, the ruling has defined sex - it means biological sex, not gender. I don't see the issue.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 19/04/2025 14:25

MandySometimes · 19/04/2025 14:17

But the decision itself is attempting to answer a question about what the meaning of the words sex, man and woman mean in terms of the Equality Act (or whatever the correct terminology for the Act is). Are schools covered by this?

Yes they are. Schools are required to abide by the Public Sector Equality Duty and consider the impact of their policies and decisions on individuals with protected characteristics. They must aim to eliminate discrimination, promote equality and foster good relations between groups.
It's why transactivists being allowed to demonstrate coercive control tactics on children in order to bully girls out of their rights to safety, privacy & dignity has been catastrophic. Especially for the most emotionally / mentally vulnerable who are easy prey to social contagion.

It's been an unforgivable dereliction of responsibility by adults in schools where transactivism has been allowed to run amok.

Kardamyli2 · 19/04/2025 14:25

Bogginsthe3rd · 19/04/2025 14:23

It was @DrudgeJedd calling you that

Calling you Boggins. I think the dialled-up comment you made was very homophobic

Edited to say turned up, not dialled up

TrainedByCats · 19/04/2025 14:25

ManchesterLu · 19/04/2025 11:53

I'm the first to admit that I don't have any legal background and don't have a huge understanding of what's gone on.

However, I hope this helps to protect female spaces. I go to a swimming pool and there is a trans woman who swims there. She comes across as lovely, however she changes in the female changing room, and still has a penis. It is communal changing and makes me and others feel incredibly uncomfortable. I find myself not going in the morning because that's when she swims. There are children and school groups who use the changing rooms too.

I hope that this ruling doesn't prevent these people from having spaces to use - rather that that are DEDICATED spaces exactly for them, so they have somewhere safe without taking the safety of someone else.

If this is the world we now live in, it needs to adapt.

There would be no need to label them trans changing etc - just unisex. So anyone can use them with no worries whatsoever.

If the person concerned still has a penis so is demonstrably male why would they be in any danger using the male changing room?

withgraceinmyheart · 19/04/2025 14:26

Nameychangington · 19/04/2025 13:39

But there are other time when I want transwomen to be included without other men having rights to our space and now it feels like there’s no way to achieve that.

Including transwomen is including men. You can't include some men and not others because you'd be discriminating against the other men. Either something is fine for both sexes or it's single sex.

Plus in reality you can't include transwomen and not other men because any man becomes a transwoman just by saying he is one. That's the definition, blame Stonewall. So if you allow transwomen already, any man who wants can already come in.

Believe me I blame stonewall for a lot!

I agree that seems to be the situation, but I think it’s sad. I think there should be a way for ‘women and trans women’ to gather and build bridges. We do have some common ground even though pregnancy, childbirth, menopause etc obviously isn’t part of that and shouldn’t be. Hopefully now the issue of protecting single sex spaces has been clarified there can be space made for this again.

I’d feel safer allowing transwomen into my spaces socially knowing that if we ever went on a group trip single sex sleeping arrangements would be the norm for example and I think a lot of women would feel the same.

I think trans rights need their own law which addresses these issues.

Bogginsthe3rd · 19/04/2025 14:26

Kardamyli2 · 19/04/2025 14:25

Calling you Boggins. I think the dialled-up comment you made was very homophobic

Edited to say turned up, not dialled up

Edited

Your gaydar can't be adjusted. Got it.

DrPrunesqualer · 19/04/2025 14:27

MerlinsBeard1 · 19/04/2025 14:22

Well this is the issue isn't it. Transexuals don't care about making biological women feel unsafe or uncomfortable. They only care about being 'accepted' in women's spaces to reaffirm their own delusions.

Which is exactly why anyone using womens spaces will now definitely be a threat. Even if it’s just because they want to make a stand! ( ie: the nice ones wouldn’t be there )
They can’t be there by law So
We now have rights to protect ourselves from invading non women.

DrudgeJedd · 19/04/2025 14:27

Bogginsthe3rd · 19/04/2025 14:19

Perhaps you should direct that to PP who I was quoting.

Nope you're the one talking about "gaydar", being able to recognise someone's sex doesn't require the use of outdated stereotypes about homosexually

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