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To want some positive stories from women who were happily single at 32, met a great partner later, and had kids naturally?

90 replies

ShyGoldDreamer · 18/04/2025 23:24

I’ve just turned 32. I’m genuinely happy and content with my life - single but not stressed about it. I get a lot of attention but I’m not actively dating at the moment. I’m open to a relationship when the right opportunity comes along but I’m not in any rush.

That said, I know 32 is a bit of a milestone age and occasionally I wonder… should I be worried? Should I be doing more? There’s no pressure from family or friends - this is more of an internal check-in.
I’ve noticed that some women I know and meet around my age seem to be quite anxious about timelines, which has made me reflect a little - even though I’m not feeling that pressure myself.

I’d love to hear positive stories from women who were in a similar place at 32 - happily single, doing their thing - who later met a great partner, got married, and had children naturally without any issues. Did it all work out in the end?

Just looking for a bit of reassurance and inspiration really.

OP posts:
Mandylovescandy · 19/04/2025 15:17

Single for several years until 32, then met someone who I was with for a couple of years but it didn't work out and was single again (very happily) at 35 and was worried was a bit late for DC but met DP at 36, DC before 40

CakeBlanchett · 19/04/2025 15:18

A close friend of mine was with her boyfriend from 19-28, then had a sad breakup as he changed his mind about having children. Stayed single till she was 33, then met a lovely man, married him at 35, had kids at 36 and 38. A little later than she had planned but they are very compatible and happy as a family.

Mamma2025 · 19/04/2025 15:19

I met my future DH at 29, married at 35, kids at 37. It’s possible to meet someone and have it all later! But having done it I wish I had started earlier in my 20s.

Matilda1981 · 19/04/2025 15:20

Not quite the same but I was happily single (after going through an horrific divorce) at 35 with 2 children when I met my husband, had 2 more children at age 37 and 39

CaptainCavey · 20/04/2025 19:55

Would you consider looking into freezing your eggs?

ImaginaryLobster · 20/04/2025 20:00

Broke up long term relationship going nowhere at 33 then met my now partner later in the year, now 37 and currently 14 weeks pregnant with out first natural convinced child
Didn't think I'd have kids due to age i "started again" so happily shocked that it all worked out

ToxicRepair · 20/04/2025 20:55

Hadn't even met the father of my children when I was 32!

First conceived naturally after 7 months trying (I was 35), and second wasn't trying and fell pregnant but extremely happy aged 39.

14 years later we divorced but even though its obviously not what I would have wanted at the outset, my life is blissful now.

Pixiedust49 · 20/04/2025 21:16

Married at 26, widowed at 32 without children. Met my second husband aged 36 and had DD aged 39 naturally. You never know what is around the corner…

OhCrumbsWhereNow · 20/04/2025 21:21

Single at 32, met DH a few weeks after my birthday. I had completely different plans and changed them on the spot (not my normal way of doing things!)

Married at 35 and had DD 10 months later.

Getting pregnant was very easy, being pregnant was awful (HG, sueing my bastard employer and severe antenatal depression), very nearly died having her and decided we were one and done.

SemmaLina · 20/04/2025 21:21

Was single ( and not particularly happy ) at age 32
Met DH at age 33 ( and 3 months ) married 6 months later , and had DS 10 months later , with DD born just over 2 years later
Both babes conceived naturally second month of trying
It’s been over 30 years now …

scorpiogirly · 20/04/2025 21:22

I was single at 32. Unfortunately met a dickhead but did get pregnant at 36.

Devilsmommy · 20/04/2025 21:24

Single at 32, met DH at 35, married and had ds at 36. Definitely doable 😊

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MakeItRain · 20/04/2025 21:28

Met my (now ex)h at 34, had my children naturally in my late 30s/early 40s. Now I'm a happily single mum of teens.

TaranFollt · 20/04/2025 21:28

Single in my early 30s. Met DP when I was 34. Conceived quickly and naturally at 36 (second attempt) and we started living together when I was pregnant. Gave birth age 37.
That was a good few years ago and our DC is now in secondary school. We have one child through choice.

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