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To think there’s dignity in work, no matter the job?

57 replies

TheWildMintBear · 14/04/2025 21:21

It seems like some people look down on certain types of work but isn’t there value and dignity in any job if you’re earning an honest living?

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Ladamesansmerci · 14/04/2025 21:23

Ofc. It's classism to look down on the jobs people seem to judge, e.g. cleaning, maccies etc

PatChaunceysFruitCake · 14/04/2025 21:24

YANBU.

HoskinsChoice · 14/04/2025 21:25

Absolutely. Every single job in the world is doing something that someone either wants or needs otherwise the job wouldn't exist.

OneTC · 14/04/2025 21:26

Yeah and IME the UK is particularly bad for looking down on certain roles.

I think companies and corporations have played their part in actually devaluing many jobs as well

MaggieBsBoat · 14/04/2025 21:27

Absolutely.
Though I also don’t consider sex work, work. I need to put that out there. It’s abuse and rape. just in case someone comes along and mentions it.

Cerialkiller · 14/04/2025 21:28

Agreed. I have nothing but respect for the supermarket staff, the cleaners, the receptionists...in fact any customer facing role especially...I would struggle with the stamina.

Imo your salary has very little relation to how difficult it how valuable your job is.

LivingLaVidaBabyShower · 14/04/2025 21:28

Cleaners and bin men which brits can be snobbish and dickheady about yes....100%

But I dont know where the dignity is on camgirl/guy work or only fans tbh.

Frowningprovidence · 14/04/2025 21:31

I believe in the innate dignity of the human soul, which is a slightly different idea I guess.

But I agree, I wouldn't be looking down on anyone earning an honest living.

QueefQueen80s · 14/04/2025 21:33

LivingLaVidaBabyShower · 14/04/2025 21:28

Cleaners and bin men which brits can be snobbish and dickheady about yes....100%

But I dont know where the dignity is on camgirl/guy work or only fans tbh.

Edited

Yes I respect any job as long as it harms no-one/society

ReplacementBusService · 14/04/2025 21:35

The key is "earning a good living" and given outrageous numbers of jobs on poverty level wages, the dignity in work idea has limited foothold.

Yes, work is about more than getting paid but if getting paid doesn't make ends meet, it's all bullshoot.

anniegun · 14/04/2025 21:38

I can think of a few jobs I struggle to support. Sex work, pornographer, immigrant deportation, debt enforcer for parking companies, tobacco marketing, gambling marketing.

Flytrap01 · 14/04/2025 21:48

people seem to hate bankers and the investment side of banking etc and those investments help keep the economy turning

Octopus45 · 14/04/2025 21:51

On the whole I would agree, as long as a job isn't immoral in the sense that it harms somebody. Lets face it Binmen and Cleaners are needed just as much as Doctors and Solicitors.

Flytrap01 · 14/04/2025 21:52

society does not need footballers

crackofdoom · 14/04/2025 21:58

I don't look down on anyone who does any kind of work, but some jobs will take every scrap of your energy and self esteem and leave you an exhausted husk. There's no "dignity" in doing anything that's repetitive and soul destroying where you have no agency and you are mistreated- that's the language of Tory MPs who just want the peasants to know their place.

(Spoken as someone who has done a lot of minimum wage jobs).

Bigfish51 · 14/04/2025 22:23

Look at Birmingham. We all rely on each other it’s not just about how much money you have.

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 14/04/2025 22:27

Only if you have a dignified manager.

If you have a bullly who treats you like shit, then there’s no dignity.

Dappy777 · 14/04/2025 22:30

The people I really respect are the ones who contributes something to society. Nurses, binmen, teachers, engineers, supermarket shelf stackers, etc, all do vital, useful work (assuming they do their job well, of course). A skilled craftsman who builds, say, air-conditioning units, or water purifiers, Iphones, and then exports them, is contributing to the economy. I especially admire those who take pride in their work and produce something beautiful. Someone who makes really elegant suits for Saville Row, for example, or beautiful handmade shoes. Academics are often impressive people. They have a passion for their subject and a vast knowledge. I often listen to Melvyn Bragg’s In Our Time on Radio 4, and it’s amazing to hear these academics talking on everything from solar eclipses to Greek philosophy. In particular, I admire those who conduct scientific research. The people who work in the labs and study cancer or nuclear fusion or carbon emissions or whatever it may be are pushing the boundaries of knowledge and advancing our civilisation. So yeah, people who do useful work, who build and produce beautiful things, or who extend the limits of human knowledge - those are the people I most respect.

I have far less respect for estate agents and solicitors. I suppose they are necessary, but they are overpaid in comparison to a farm labourer or a lorry driver. And I often wonder just how necessary they really are. I also have a very low opinion of many self-made businessmen. I know a guy who made his money selling bathroom fittings. He made a profit because the stuff he sold was cheap and nasty and fell apart after six months or so (by which time he’d folded up the business). I know another man who made money selling hearing aids. Again, cheap, nasty rubbish. Both made a small fortune. Both have very high opinions of themselves, and consider themselves ‘winners’. To me they are grubby little cheats who’ve contributed nothing to society.

PrimitivePerson · 14/04/2025 22:32

HoskinsChoice · 14/04/2025 21:25

Absolutely. Every single job in the world is doing something that someone either wants or needs otherwise the job wouldn't exist.

You're so clueless. Loads of jobs are a complete waste of time.

HoskinsChoice · 14/04/2025 22:35

PrimitivePerson · 14/04/2025 22:32

You're so clueless. Loads of jobs are a complete waste of time.

Name one...

Foolsgold74 · 14/04/2025 22:36

OneTC · 14/04/2025 21:26

Yeah and IME the UK is particularly bad for looking down on certain roles.

I think companies and corporations have played their part in actually devaluing many jobs as well

Whereas countries in the Midfle East, China, the Far East etc reeaallly value manual, unskilled labour...All that H&S, fair wages and fair working conditions.

Thirteenblackcat · 14/04/2025 22:38

All of the jobs that couldn’t be furloughed during covid as they were essential workers.

low to mid range salaries for most

Smartiepants79 · 14/04/2025 22:39

A damn sight more dignity in it than being an ‘influencer’ or you tuber.

NoviceVillager · 14/04/2025 22:40

It was pretty disappointing that Covid didn’t change things permanently especially around the importance of care work and food supply work. But it’s a classist hell scape here tbh.

OakElmAsh · 14/04/2025 22:41

There's a saying in French 'Il y a pas de sot métier'... there's no such thing as a silly job. Basically means all work has value, I like that sentiment

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