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Friends Boyfriend Is Lazy And A Womaniser

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CheekyPombear · 12/04/2025 01:55

A close friend of mine met a man last November.
He is about 13 years her senior and she is having doubts about him.
He lives on his own in a one bed HA flat.
He doesnt drive he hasnt been in employment since 2002 he doesnt seem to have and skills or formal qualifications.
He has epilepsy but its managed by meds.
He has asked if he can live with her she owns her own home outright a nice 2 bed new build semi.
Im thinking he wants to move in with her then after so long claim he has rights to some of her capital etc.
Also he thinks he is gods gift his best friend said he always had many girlfriends and flings but none owned property or had a career like my friend.
He is 58 in October.
Is it bad to think he is a loser?.
He goes to bars nearly every night too.

OP posts:
CheekyPombear · 14/04/2025 18:38

The reason my friend dumped him quick was because he came round to her house last week with his daughter quell surprise.
She went in the kitchen to make drinks and overheard him tell his daughter dont worry one day this house and her money will be yours.
When she came out of the kitchen his daughter asked her if her Dad was going to be moving into his new home soon and if my friend had any kids.
My friend said no but i have a much younger brother and this will be his not yours.
She started shouting at my friend who told her to get out.

OP posts:
Springhassprungthesunisout · 14/04/2025 21:16

Sounds like she's dodged a bullet! He's the biggest CF wannabe cocklodger on MN! And his DD sounds like a chip off the old block!

Bananalanacake · 14/04/2025 21:35

Eh, so this waster man's daughter who he hasn't seen for 18 years, came to her house and started shouting when told the house wouldn't be hers.

70isaLimitNotaTarget · 14/04/2025 21:36

Well looks like he's back on the market again OP , don't hang about he'll be snapped up 🙀

TwistedWonder · 14/04/2025 21:36

Bananalanacake · 14/04/2025 21:35

Eh, so this waster man's daughter who he hasn't seen for 18 years, came to her house and started shouting when told the house wouldn't be hers.

Hmm starting to think the shark been jumped on this tale now

meganorks · 14/04/2025 21:40

Honestly, if she can't figure out for herself that this guy is a lover, I think she is beyond help! What exactly is he bringing to the table?!

ItGhoul · 14/04/2025 21:44

CheekyPombear · 14/04/2025 18:38

The reason my friend dumped him quick was because he came round to her house last week with his daughter quell surprise.
She went in the kitchen to make drinks and overheard him tell his daughter dont worry one day this house and her money will be yours.
When she came out of the kitchen his daughter asked her if her Dad was going to be moving into his new home soon and if my friend had any kids.
My friend said no but i have a much younger brother and this will be his not yours.
She started shouting at my friend who told her to get out.

Yeah, this didn’t happen though did it?

TeaAndTattoos · 15/04/2025 01:17

CheekyPombear · 14/04/2025 18:38

The reason my friend dumped him quick was because he came round to her house last week with his daughter quell surprise.
She went in the kitchen to make drinks and overheard him tell his daughter dont worry one day this house and her money will be yours.
When she came out of the kitchen his daughter asked her if her Dad was going to be moving into his new home soon and if my friend had any kids.
My friend said no but i have a much younger brother and this will be his not yours.
She started shouting at my friend who told her to get out.

Erm are you forgetting what your posting on here because you said that he had never met his daughter so how was she suddenly in your friends house. Don’t start trying to embellish your story now because it makes people question your whole post. You don’t need to have a good memory if you tell the truth.

Spandaupants · 17/04/2025 01:24

CheekyPombear · 14/04/2025 18:38

The reason my friend dumped him quick was because he came round to her house last week with his daughter quell surprise.
She went in the kitchen to make drinks and overheard him tell his daughter dont worry one day this house and her money will be yours.
When she came out of the kitchen his daughter asked her if her Dad was going to be moving into his new home soon and if my friend had any kids.
My friend said no but i have a much younger brother and this will be his not yours.
She started shouting at my friend who told her to get out.

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