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The poshest county in the UK?

435 replies

Eyes98 · 10/04/2025 22:57

Which one county would you say is the outright poshest in the UK? Let’s not use Greater London here, and I know there will be social diversity in all, but which would you say is the poshest overall?
I’m going with Berkshire, darling.😂

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Trumpsgoneloco · 11/04/2025 08:01

I think people who consider Surrey to just be suburban are only thinking of the bit within the M25 (Epsom, Ewell, Staines etc). Most of Surrey is rural or semi-rural.

Guildford, Leatherhead, Woking, Egham, Banstead, Ashstead, Caterham, Redhill, Warlingham, Whyteleafe, Woodmasterne, Chertsey, Dorking are all pretty suburban to me.

But I don't equate rural with posh.

Calliopespa · 11/04/2025 08:01

Sameoldsameoldsame · 11/04/2025 07:59

Celebrities aren't the first thing that come to mind on hearing the word 'posh'
🙄 far from it. That bubble 😂

But I think some people think of celebs as posh.

Trumpsgoneloco · 11/04/2025 08:02

It’s flashy not posh. But I think people are giving posh their own meaning on this thread - as ever on MN.

True dat

Calliopespa · 11/04/2025 08:02

Eyes98 · 11/04/2025 07:45

That’s a pointless poll! It hasn’t got sufficient options.

stanleypops66 · 11/04/2025 08:03

Even excluding Peterborough, Cambridgeshire have very rural and deprived areas (Wisbech, March etc). Cambridge city and parts of south cambs can be ‘posh’. But it’s quite diverse and whilst the people are well educated I wouldn’t call them posh.

Astrabees · 11/04/2025 08:03

Rutland, of course.

Calliopespa · 11/04/2025 08:05

Myblueclematis · 11/04/2025 07:45

Yes, I agree, I live in Hampshire and I consider it pretty posh but I don't live in a posh part of it.

There are some beautiful places in the county but also some that are considered really rough and not very nice.

I think the countryside and villages are posh, probably Winchester but not Southampton or Portsmouth.

Mielikki · 11/04/2025 08:05

Calliopespa · 11/04/2025 07:56

That’s what I think.

It’s flashy not posh. But I think people are giving posh their own meaning on this thread - as ever on MN.

The comments are correct that most counties have less posh bits, but to be Surrey doesn’t really have any posh bits. Expensive, yes.

Haslemere, Godalming, Farnham and the surrounding villages are pretty posh and old money. Not flashy at all.

Sameoldsameoldsame · 11/04/2025 08:05

Calliopespa · 11/04/2025 08:01

But I think some people think of celebs as posh.

Definitions from Oxford Languages · Learn more
adjective
elegant or stylishly luxurious.
"a posh hotel".

I know some think celebrities as 'posh'. It doesn't make it so.

Ryeman · 11/04/2025 08:06

WillimNot · 11/04/2025 07:20

Depends which bit of Berkshire.
Slough is awful now sadly, I think it was voted the saddest place to live in the UK recently

Parts of Reading are awful, crime ridden
Yes you Sonning and Henley but most of the rest is trying to stay posh and failing. I've lived across Berkshire for 20 years and it's definitely losing the posh undertones now.

Isn't Henley in Oxfordshire?

thelondona2z · 11/04/2025 08:09

Buckinghamshire - the bits I have been to, anyway.

Bits of Somerset are super posh, although I grew up there and this defintely is not applicable to the entire county.

thelondona2z · 11/04/2025 08:09

OMG - why has that come out so big!!

DevonCreamTeaPlease · 11/04/2025 08:10

Buckinghamshire and Berkshire are quite posh.

Surrey has posh parts 9(he northern bit) but some parts aren't

Gogogo12345 · 11/04/2025 08:11

Springhassprungxx · 11/04/2025 01:54

Oh but the Essex girl thing never went away and Towie gave it a terrible reputation

It's highly annoying that. Rural Essex has sweet sod all to do with Towie yet most of the country labelled like it. Add Basildon to that and Essex has no chance of being called posh lol.

But I think it's the same as most other places. Some nice bits and some dives.

Calliopespa · 11/04/2025 08:11

Sameoldsameoldsame · 11/04/2025 08:05

Definitions from Oxford Languages · Learn more
adjective
elegant or stylishly luxurious.
"a posh hotel".

I know some think celebrities as 'posh'. It doesn't make it so.

With a few exceptions, most celebrities I can think of are the antithesis of posh.

But clearly we all have our own criteria …

Calliopespa · 11/04/2025 08:12

thelondona2z · 11/04/2025 08:09

Buckinghamshire - the bits I have been to, anyway.

Bits of Somerset are super posh, although I grew up there and this defintely is not applicable to the entire county.

Yes there are bits that are quite posh.

Ryeman · 11/04/2025 08:13

I live in Bucks but being so close to London it’s very ‘new money’ now (see Beaconsfield). So I vote for Hampshire.

Delphigirl · 11/04/2025 08:14

Nobody smart lives in Buckinghamshire.

Blinkingbother · 11/04/2025 08:14

Are you talking actual posh or just moneyed?…. If actual posh then I reckon Oxfordshire.

Janie143 · 11/04/2025 08:15

It's definitely Cheshire. When characters on Coronation Street are going for a posh meal or thinking of buy a posh house it's always in CHESHIRE. That's the proof poshness right there.

Calliopespa · 11/04/2025 08:16

Ryeman · 11/04/2025 08:13

I live in Bucks but being so close to London it’s very ‘new money’ now (see Beaconsfield). So I vote for Hampshire.

I think Bucks is new money now too (though clearly to some new money is the height of posh).

Berks has also lost a certain polish, though a contender on some fronts.

Calliopespa · 11/04/2025 08:17

Blinkingbother · 11/04/2025 08:14

Are you talking actual posh or just moneyed?…. If actual posh then I reckon Oxfordshire.

Yeah I think I’d vote Norfolk, Hampshire snd Oxfordshire.

Only I can’t cos the poll is rigged …

Lilactimes · 11/04/2025 08:19

Eyes98 · 11/04/2025 00:42

Newmarket is Suffolk though isn’t it?

I think @SiobhanSharpe maybe meant Newbury which is in Berkshire and horsey x

pimplebum · 11/04/2025 08:19

Devon

Calliopespa · 11/04/2025 08:19

Janie143 · 11/04/2025 08:15

It's definitely Cheshire. When characters on Coronation Street are going for a posh meal or thinking of buy a posh house it's always in CHESHIRE. That's the proof poshness right there.

Well if you’re meaning the type of posh that says “ let’s do something posh” then you are probably right!