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AIBU to think there should be organised work experience placement schemes for school students

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DuaNinja · 10/04/2025 22:55

Starting to feel very frustrated trying to help DD to find a year 12 work experience placement. She completed a week in year 10 but this year the school want them to find something relevant to future studies and not just to go to work with your parents or similar. It sounds so easy in theory but in practice why would a random company want the hassle of dealing with a work experience kid? It would be great if there was a proper system in place for this. I believe in Ireland students undertake work experience in year 11 and have a vocational / transition year between lower exams and senior exams (apologies if this is not correct, I only have a very vague understanding of this). In my day the school had links with local businesses and we signed up tor a placement and the company we went to had a plan in place for us. DD's school offers no practical help, just links to websites about how to write a CV. So far she has sent her CV and a targeted email to 9 companies and has not had a single response. Also, if she does get a response, we know nothing about the potential companies offering the place. I would feel happier if I knew she was going somewhere that had been vetted in some way. Not that she is going to get a placement at this rate.

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DuaNinja · 14/04/2025 21:12

She is interested in the companies she is contacting. She is sending a CV and a tailored email. We proof read everything before she sends it out.

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Gogogo12345 · 15/04/2025 07:26

Puzzledandpissedoff · 14/04/2025 20:16

It can be a box ticking exercise for the school too, but I agree that students being encouraged to do it for themselves is where the real value lies - especially if they come from a background of everything being "someone else's job"

You could even argue it's more valuable then the work experience itself, in that the placement will pass but the skills leaarned in getting it can last a lifetime

So how's that different from getting their own PAID part time jobs?

Puzzledandpissedoff · 15/04/2025 08:04

Gogogo12345 · 15/04/2025 07:26

So how's that different from getting their own PAID part time jobs?

If you mean the effort/experience involved there's no difference at all, Gogogo12345, and many do get paid part time jobs - sometimes in things which reflect what they want to do later, but often just to make a bit of money of their own

Admittedly it's only my personal experience, but I honestly don't know any who've found it impossible to get something, at least among those who genuinely want to work
I know plenty who'd rather sit around all day on their devices and thhen claim it'ss "impossible" though ...

thelondona2z · 15/04/2025 08:12

I don't know anyone who has managed to get a successful work placement without help. The idea of calling people or even sending an unsolicited CV and email is, on the whole, a really antiquated and inefficient way of approaching companies, and that's what they're advised to do at my daughter's school.

My daughter went onto LinkedIn and tried contacting people in the field she wanted to work in and got zero response. She ended up getting her experience via a friend of mine who has her own company. DH has also done this for our friend's children where he works.

I am not saying it's a fair way for these things to happen but a lot of it is down to a very unlevel playing field and a real case of who you know (or rather who your parents know in most cases) and the schools / government are aware of that and if they want to continue with work experience they need to do something to address this.

MidnightPatrol · 15/04/2025 08:34

Thriwit · 10/04/2025 23:33

Tbh the organisation I work for have stopped taking Y10-12 work experience students altogether now. Over the last few years the students became increasingly rude and uninterested, so it just seemed like a complete waste of everyone’s time. We’ll take A-Level students (although that’s always been rare anyway) if they’re doing relevant A-Levels and applying for relevant degrees though.

Same here. I don’t mind taking them, but we kept being sent people with zero interest in the industry we work in, who then sat on their phones all day.

And for this privilege I had to spend time filling out forms and creating health and safety policies to meet their guidelines.

DuaNinja · 15/04/2025 08:40

I can understand why employers would like to take apprentices and students on industrial placement years as there is something in it for them. Why would they want a 16 year old for a week? Not any week either, a random week set by the school. Also, generally even part time jobs for teenagers are advertised in some way and there is a position available. Trying to get work experience is not the same as applying for an actual job.

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thelondona2z · 15/04/2025 08:48

WRT to part time jobs for 16 year olds, where I am (London) they are rare as hen's teeth. All of DD's friends are after them and apart from babysitting and a bit of pet sitting there is nothing.

1SillySossij · 15/04/2025 09:13

Catsbreakfast · 14/04/2025 00:59

The whole point is to teach the students to find a placement themselves…

No that is not the point of work experience. It is to get an insight into a career they may be interested in pursuing.

Mary46 · 15/04/2025 09:29

Hard out there. My daughter is 19. Nobody gets back her. Her dad asked in his office so she do something there. My friends son same he drop loads cvs around. Its who you know. Some transition year pupils had nothing as places wouldnt take them. Hard.

Gogogo12345 · 15/04/2025 10:28

thelondona2z · 15/04/2025 08:48

WRT to part time jobs for 16 year olds, where I am (London) they are rare as hen's teeth. All of DD's friends are after them and apart from babysitting and a bit of pet sitting there is nothing.

Oh it must be very different from Essex then and my kids and the majority of their friends all had part time jobs

LadeOde · 15/04/2025 10:30

thelondona2z · 15/04/2025 08:48

WRT to part time jobs for 16 year olds, where I am (London) they are rare as hen's teeth. All of DD's friends are after them and apart from babysitting and a bit of pet sitting there is nothing.

Are any of these young people looking for remote work experience at all?

thelondona2z · 15/04/2025 10:31

Gogogo12345 · 15/04/2025 10:28

Oh it must be very different from Essex then and my kids and the majority of their friends all had part time jobs

In Cornwall, where my family live, there are loads of jobs for teens too. I'd always assumed London would have loads but I think until they turn 18 there it's super hard for them to find a job.

reluctantbrit · 15/04/2025 12:53

thelondona2z · 15/04/2025 08:48

WRT to part time jobs for 16 year olds, where I am (London) they are rare as hen's teeth. All of DD's friends are after them and apart from babysitting and a bit of pet sitting there is nothing.

Same here. We also have a college where plenty of 18+ are looking for jobs.

most under 18s are either managed with personal connections or have a specific skill especially with sport clubs.

StillTryingToKeepGoing · 15/04/2025 17:44

1SillySossij · 15/04/2025 09:13

No that is not the point of work experience. It is to get an insight into a career they may be interested in pursuing.

It’s to develop employability skills I’d say. And to boost confidence and independence.

Given many students have no idea what they’re interested in. (Honestly, the numbers that don’t even have hobbies is really sad. or At least, the numbers that say they don’t have hobbies).

reluctantbrit · 15/04/2025 18:00

StillTryingToKeepGoing · 15/04/2025 17:44

It’s to develop employability skills I’d say. And to boost confidence and independence.

Given many students have no idea what they’re interested in. (Honestly, the numbers that don’t even have hobbies is really sad. or At least, the numbers that say they don’t have hobbies).

Not with just one week. A p/t job or volunteering brings a lot more.

The issue is often that work experience students aren't allowed to access computer systems and any confidential data they can't even email internally.

Puzzledandpissedoff · 15/04/2025 18:02

I don’t mind taking them, but we kept being sent people with zero interest in the industry we work in, who then sat on their phones all day

Interesting that you said "kept being sent ...", @MidnightPatrol, and if this means someone else sourced the placement and simply suggested they go I'm not surprised you got the ones who were only interested in their phones

Hopefully someone told them to put them away, and maybe even suggested that if they got their heads out of the things they might have been more successful in finding something for themselves?

EasterParadeHats · 15/04/2025 18:07

@Stoneyard I completely agree, I assume you've fed back re all the ridiculous forms

@MidnightPatrol for many students that will literally be their first ever experience in an office and be overwhelming daunting for them. Adults struggle in a new job first day this is 100 times worse.

Also edited to say: how can DC so young know what they are interested in, it's supposed to help them on that journey. They may love or hate the particular work environment and that's okay that's part of the experience.
What I would expect is polite behaviour even if they are bored but opening up that conversation will help

MidnightPatrol · 15/04/2025 18:16

Puzzledandpissedoff · 15/04/2025 18:02

I don’t mind taking them, but we kept being sent people with zero interest in the industry we work in, who then sat on their phones all day

Interesting that you said "kept being sent ...", @MidnightPatrol, and if this means someone else sourced the placement and simply suggested they go I'm not surprised you got the ones who were only interested in their phones

Hopefully someone told them to put them away, and maybe even suggested that if they got their heads out of the things they might have been more successful in finding something for themselves?

We have done through both and a charity - so I would expect them to be thoughtful about the placement and ensuring the student was doing something relevant. I’m in a popular but hard-to-access industry so I’d assume they’d have a pupil interested.

And to both you and @EasterParadeHats I get it may be their first office experience - but we really aren’t there to have to parent them and tell them off (which yes, we have done).

The moment it becomes a burden on employers, then they can’t be bothered. If the people arranging the placement can’t be bothered to place pupils with the right skills, why host them really. It was like they just pulled names out of a hat.

Most people are busy, if it’s not a positive experience they won’t do it again.

TonTonMacoute · 15/04/2025 18:22

MidnightPatrol · 15/04/2025 18:16

We have done through both and a charity - so I would expect them to be thoughtful about the placement and ensuring the student was doing something relevant. I’m in a popular but hard-to-access industry so I’d assume they’d have a pupil interested.

And to both you and @EasterParadeHats I get it may be their first office experience - but we really aren’t there to have to parent them and tell them off (which yes, we have done).

The moment it becomes a burden on employers, then they can’t be bothered. If the people arranging the placement can’t be bothered to place pupils with the right skills, why host them really. It was like they just pulled names out of a hat.

Most people are busy, if it’s not a positive experience they won’t do it again.

I think this illustrates the problem succinctly.

It's a good initiative but there needs to be a proper organisation liaising between the students and the people offering the experience,

There's no sort of quality control, people are just left to sort it out between themselves, and it frankly sounds like many experiences are a waste of time for everyone.

ConfusedAnxiousMum · 15/04/2025 20:20

At that age though it’s not really about getting experience in the career they want. Few will have a solid idea at that age. But more of a taster of the world of work and the soft skills involved.
I remember really enjoying it but realising how much longer the work day is than the school day. Learning about dealing with customers, communication skills, the importance of time management.

ConfusedAnxiousMum · 15/04/2025 20:21

Eg that it’s not the school being over the top about punctuality, it’s expected at work!

Catsbreakfast · 16/04/2025 03:13

1SillySossij · 15/04/2025 09:13

No that is not the point of work experience. It is to get an insight into a career they may be interested in pursuing.

Going out and securing your own experience place is absolutely part of it.

mids2019 · 16/04/2025 05:11

There are a lot of positives but it does show youngsters nepotism at a relatively young age and you could get a bit cynical about the way the world works. I think you have the situation where kids from day grammar schools get a completely different array of work experience options and career advice to those from other state sxhools.

Our local grammars though small in number get a continuous stream of students into medicine and law placements as well as other high profile professions. I think a lot of professionals do not want to waste time for instance investing time in a student who doesn't have a chance of getting the prerequisite qualifications for their role so use a blanket policy of only offering work experience to undergraduates or those students with obvious academic merit. In the NHS there are teams who desperately try to counter this behaviour by encouraging the medical profession to embrace wider participation but ime it doesn't work.

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