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to think this is not nice of Richard E Grant

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StripesZigZags · 06/04/2025 16:14

and can't be swept aside as "just a joke".

Interview with him in the Times Style magazine today. He tells the interviewer (Vassi Chamberlain) that he writes a diary every night as if he is writing to his wife. She asks him what the entry about today and their interview would say and this is the end of the article. For context earlier in the article she says that after she asked him a question when he'd finished answering he'd "fire the same" quesiton back at her which is probably how he had the additional information.

Here is the quote:

"What will tonight’s account say, I ask. He bursts out laughing.

He sits up and clears his throat as if he’s about to perform at the Old Vic.

“Astonishingly,” he begins, “the journalist was 4ft 11in.” I stop him right there. I’m 5ft 1in. “She’s 5ft 1in. Her face looks like a roadmap because she had head and neck cancer 14 years ago, which she luckily survived, but because of it she’s not allowed to have plastic surgery. All her girlfriends now look 40 years old but her jawline is hanging around her knees and in ten years she will tie a bow with her dyed hair around her chin in a tight knot and she’ll look like the Queen at Balmoral.”

Ouch."

I read that and thought "what a bitch of a man". I've never really liked him - his Instagram videos where he's constantly smiling with a fake smile that never reaches his eyes always seem ultra insincere as he pontificates about how wonderful the day or the tree or the park is. This really exposes the heart of a person.

I guess everyone him included will try to justify it as a joke but it's very nasty - making the point that her short height is 'astonishing' like some circus freak, her face looking like a road map. I think her finishing 'ouch' was really very understated and kind.

Vassi Chamberlain | The Times & The Sunday Times

Vassi Chamberlain is a writer for The Times and The Sunday Times. She has interviewed everyone from Henry Kissinger and Pamela Anderson, to Alexander McQueen. Vassi has also written about the downfall

https://www.thetimes.com/profile/vassi-chamberlain

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TeaAndTattoos · 22/04/2025 06:57

I don’t know who she is but that is incredibly rude of him to say about her I hate the way horrible things that men say get brushed off as a joke when it’s clearly not it’s just bullying dressed up as a joke when it backfires on them.

HelenWheels · 22/04/2025 07:02

he sounds difficult

Slothy22 · 23/04/2025 06:19

Wow! What an arsehole.
Hes no oil painting.

Maartje2023 · 14/08/2025 15:17

Coming very late to this, but have to say it’s just awful what he said about the journalist. As a young teenager in the early nineties I accidentally came across and loved Withnail and I and (based solely on that) Richard E. Grant.

I went completely off him after reading A Pocketful of Happiness. It purports to be a love letter to his late wife, but is so self-absorbed and self-aggrandising that it left a really nasty taste in my mouth. In it he endlessly quotes letters in which his late wife tells him how great he is and how much she loves him and praise other actors have given him. No famous name is left undropped and there are whole chunks about him being away on set or at awards where she isn’t even mentioned.

i also felt very uncomfortable about him hardly mentioning Joan’s son — who is as much her child as her daughter with him is. It feels a bit like how he entirely excised his brother from his life in the autobiographical film he made years ago. Just all seems rather narcissistic.

tommyhoundmum · 14/08/2025 20:42

He looks as though there's a bad smell under his nose. Not keen on those aesthetic types

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