am quite tearfull over this, as previously I have juggled four children , running a home, and a couple of part time jobs for years.
Had to stop three years ago as I fell ill, and have only recently got over two fairly major medical problems.
I still work as a MSA at my primary school, but its so little money, I need to add at least £100+ to my income.
I am soo upset that I have to go through all that stress again, I do believe that four kids are a full time job.
I have no back up if they are ill, or earn enough to pay for childcare.
So the job has to fit in with school times and term dates.
Even now I find myself struggling with housework and washing at weekends, along with ferrying kids around, adding up a whole mon - fri with no chance to clean house, do the shopping , sort out school paperwork etc etc etc, its going to be a non life again.
To cap it all off, hubby brought his football season ticket, this month,(£900+) then worked out that we really need more monthly income , and then pointed out that I need to go back to work.
I want to stay with my kids out of school term time, but feel that working full time would be less or the same workload than part time.
little difference, because i would still be required to do it all.
hubby leaves home early , comes home late, would be of little help. and certainly, the weekend footy, and cricket stuff, means I am on my own fairly frequently.
However my income from full time work would be going back to management levels , which would mean before school hours and evenings.
I did tell hubby I would settle for cleaning jobs, as I could scrub peoples floors for less stress in between school hours than anything else.
He was horrified, and doenst think I should do something like this.
any other job will interfere with the kids after school clubs etc, and lead to many complications.
but the nasty bottom line is money.
we need it, food bills alone have jumped up, let alone heating , petrol, so have to find something.
am cross , frustarated, and tearfull.....it all seems so shitty.
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williamsmummy · 15/05/2008 12:35
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