We're going away at easter with our DC (so next week) just for a cheapish week in Spain. DH has a teen DS, who unfortunately isn't able to come due to GCSE revision.
We want to make sure DSS gets a holiday with us in the summer after his GCSEs, but would need to be in summer hols because of our own DC and school terms (so v expensive).
We both earn ok and split holidays where we can.
My AIBU is that DH is refusing to look at summer holidays now, as we're going away next week. My argument is that I am fed up of the last minute nature of all of DHs planning, and I've found a reasonable option for august and the prices might go up - I don't think I should be expected to pay more if we split the cost if the prices go up (if its even still available it might not be!) be DH refuses to look now.
I can't even just book something with a deposit as he just won't agree to pay it, and I don't/can't cover the entire cost myself.
WDYT?