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Moving home - council help!?

74 replies

Feelinglost10 · 03/04/2025 17:51

Hi

basically I just need some advice as I am so stressed at the moment. So I am currently private rental but my IDVA and the council have given me priority to move as I am currently under a DV priority so have band A I’m extremely grateful as iv never even been on council housing before and I know this is a lot more secure than private renting, however in the mean time my landlord has decided to sell next month! So I am really struggling as I’m bidding every week and getting nowhere, however I need to be out by the end of next month! I have a dog so temporary housing isn’t a option as I would be most likely be given a hostel and have to give up my dog who is my entire world, however if I try and find a temporary house myself I would be removed from the council list back stuck renting private and unsecure incase the new landlord decided to sell again. I just don’t really know what to do at the moment?? Any advice will be welcome?

YABU would you wait it out and see if I’m offered something by next month and risk the temporary housing

YANBU find another private rental in the mean time and lose my place on the list?

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gamerchick · 03/04/2025 19:23

HoskinsChoice · 03/04/2025 19:16

But that's not what council properties are for. They're there to catch people when they fall when there is no alternative. If you're able to pay for a private rental then you don't need a council house. If you take one, despite being able to rent privately, you are depriving someone who really needs it. They're not there to provide an easy route to long term stability, they're there for people who are desperate.

It's not up to you to decide what council houses are for. That's absolutely not what they're for at all.

OP listen to the posts. There are options for the dog and you can't leave when this thing comes inm has the landlord even sold it yet? Update the housing team and get their advice.

PoundlandColumbo · 03/04/2025 19:23

Never mind that’s not what theyr for when the majority of people living in them have never contributed a penny to the system

Ok, that's my sympathy disappearing out the window.

LillylollyAndy · 03/04/2025 19:23

It took me 9 months even with top priority to get a council house

Feelinglost10 · 03/04/2025 19:24

Jellycatspyjamas · 03/04/2025 19:20

I think being evicted following domestic abuse is pretty big fall. The reality is council housing does provide a good degree of stability which I imagine @Feelinglost10 needs right now.

Exactly this. I have just left my partner and will be losing my home of 11 years. Yes I can probably afford another private rental at a push but why make myself broke and move into another unstable tenancy if I don’t have to when I am not exactly asking for a free home I will be paying for it myself. If the council and my IDVA have prioritised me then I think I’m gonna go with that over the opinion of a stranger on the internet telling me to private rent because other people need it more😂

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Feelinglost10 · 03/04/2025 19:25

gamerchick · 03/04/2025 19:23

It's not up to you to decide what council houses are for. That's absolutely not what they're for at all.

OP listen to the posts. There are options for the dog and you can't leave when this thing comes inm has the landlord even sold it yet? Update the housing team and get their advice.

Thankyou. I’m just panicking over the section 21 really as iv never had anything like this before happen to me and no idea the process or time scale it can take

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Ghostspirit00 · 03/04/2025 19:26

LillylollyAndy · 03/04/2025 19:23

It took me 9 months even with top priority to get a council house

It depends on the council and the situation. Even in top priority somone whi joint that list afer you could still get housed before you depending on the situation. Both me and my dd both got a property on our first bid

Feelinglost10 · 03/04/2025 19:27

PoundlandColumbo · 03/04/2025 19:23

Never mind that’s not what theyr for when the majority of people living in them have never contributed a penny to the system

Ok, that's my sympathy disappearing out the window.

Edited

I stand by it. Getting told I don’t deserve one because I have mentioned a private rental so I don’t end up in a hostel? Everyone’s situation is completely different and just because I work it doesn’t mean I shouldn’t be entitled to a secure home? That’s crazy. There is a reason my IDVA has deemed me top priority so i think I shall stick with that opinion if it’s all the same to you. My eligibility is not the question.

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Feelinglost10 · 03/04/2025 19:29

Ghostspirit00 · 03/04/2025 19:22

@Feelinglost10 your landlord can't sell next month . They have to give you at least 2 months notice

How have they How have they given notice? Is it a section 21?

As someone else said it can take months and months. After the 2 months has run out you can still legally start there . A section 21 is a request for you to leave you don't have to . Your landlord epukd have to get a possession order . And that an take a while.

It’s just a section 21 I was given with 8 weeks notice on. But I literally don’t have a clue about this stuff or what happens and whether they could come and put me on the street if I don’t leave? That’s my main fear.

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Feelinglost10 · 03/04/2025 19:31

Nonametonight · 03/04/2025 18:31

Have you updated your council about the s21? I'd do that first - it should hopefully bump you a bit higher up the list

That’s the stupid thing they won’t help until it’s 53 days before so I’m having to wait a bit longer and then I’m really edging near my leaving date. It’s so stressful. At this point I will take anything it’s just actually getting somewhere iv never been in this situation in my life and need to leave my home asap regardless anyway due to the DV stuff as it’s getting no easier

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Ghostspirit00 · 03/04/2025 19:32

HoskinsChoice · 03/04/2025 19:16

But that's not what council properties are for. They're there to catch people when they fall when there is no alternative. If you're able to pay for a private rental then you don't need a council house. If you take one, despite being able to rent privately, you are depriving someone who really needs it. They're not there to provide an easy route to long term stability, they're there for people who are desperate.

Op 100% deserve a stable home especially after what she has been through. She clearly makes the criteria. Which is set by the council

LillylollyAndy · 03/04/2025 19:32

Ghostspirit00 · 03/04/2025 19:26

It depends on the council and the situation. Even in top priority somone whi joint that list afer you could still get housed before you depending on the situation. Both me and my dd both got a property on our first bid

That must be why I waited so long, I was under the impression I was 1st in priority

titchy · 03/04/2025 19:34

Feelinglost10 · 03/04/2025 19:29

It’s just a section 21 I was given with 8 weeks notice on. But I literally don’t have a clue about this stuff or what happens and whether they could come and put me on the street if I don’t leave? That’s my main fear.

And everyone has told you nothing will happen at the end of May. No bailiffs, nothing. Keep paying your rent. Your landlord will have to apply to court for you to be evicted - that will take months and months and months. She cannot do anything until it has gone to court.

Letmecallyouback · 03/04/2025 19:34

You won't end up homeless. The landlord has only served a section 21. This is just a notice that he intends to end the tenancy. It doesn't mean you have to move out at the end. They still have to go to court to get an eviction notice and they can't do that until the notice expires and has been served correctly. Contact Shelter or citizens advice without any delay. Also join the forum on the money saving expert website, there are professional landlords in the housing/renting section who will advise you.

forums.moneysavingexpert.com/categories/house-buying-renting-selling

It can take months for a landlord to get you out. Firstly check that the dates are correct. Is your deposit protected? Do you have annual gas safety certificates issued?

Feelinglost10 · 03/04/2025 19:39

Ghostspirit00 · 03/04/2025 19:32

Op 100% deserve a stable home especially after what she has been through. She clearly makes the criteria. Which is set by the council

Thankyou! Honestly some people are so opinionated haha. Iv worked and paid taxes all my life, never asked for a single hand out and don’t even intend to be claiming housing benefit. Unfortunately through no fault of my own I have been through a horrific time and my IDVA is helping me to move, in that time of helping me move my landlord has decided to sell so I am basically in sh*t street with no time to waste now. I swear people would rather see you fall than ask for help😂. Who’s to say my private rental wouldn’t be an over crowded cheap flat as that’s all I can afford on my own?! Or I’d be forced into paying over the odds on my own just to keep a roof over my head and still have the threat of this happening again when I suffer with severe anxiety as it is which is ANOTHER criteria I meet due to the last 2years iv just been through? I swear people don’t actually know anything.

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Letmecallyouback · 03/04/2025 19:44

Feelinglost10 · 03/04/2025 19:39

Thankyou! Honestly some people are so opinionated haha. Iv worked and paid taxes all my life, never asked for a single hand out and don’t even intend to be claiming housing benefit. Unfortunately through no fault of my own I have been through a horrific time and my IDVA is helping me to move, in that time of helping me move my landlord has decided to sell so I am basically in sh*t street with no time to waste now. I swear people would rather see you fall than ask for help😂. Who’s to say my private rental wouldn’t be an over crowded cheap flat as that’s all I can afford on my own?! Or I’d be forced into paying over the odds on my own just to keep a roof over my head and still have the threat of this happening again when I suffer with severe anxiety as it is which is ANOTHER criteria I meet due to the last 2years iv just been through? I swear people don’t actually know anything.

Please use the link above. You will get the advice you need there.

Mamofteenager · 03/04/2025 19:47

Hi. I'm a housing officer for my local LA. Absolutely do not leave your home on the date of your Sec 21 notice. The landlord will need to apply to the court to obtain a possession order which will buy you time.

In the interim speak to your LA about the notice as there is further assistance they can provide. They can also liaise with your landlord to see if they can allow you to stay until you can secure a house through bidding

xanthomelana · 03/04/2025 19:48

HoskinsChoice · 03/04/2025 19:16

But that's not what council properties are for. They're there to catch people when they fall when there is no alternative. If you're able to pay for a private rental then you don't need a council house. If you take one, despite being able to rent privately, you are depriving someone who really needs it. They're not there to provide an easy route to long term stability, they're there for people who are desperate.

What are council properties for? Interested to know as someone who lived on a council estate for a long time.

Ghostspirit00 · 03/04/2025 19:50

Feelinglost10 · 03/04/2025 19:39

Thankyou! Honestly some people are so opinionated haha. Iv worked and paid taxes all my life, never asked for a single hand out and don’t even intend to be claiming housing benefit. Unfortunately through no fault of my own I have been through a horrific time and my IDVA is helping me to move, in that time of helping me move my landlord has decided to sell so I am basically in sh*t street with no time to waste now. I swear people would rather see you fall than ask for help😂. Who’s to say my private rental wouldn’t be an over crowded cheap flat as that’s all I can afford on my own?! Or I’d be forced into paying over the odds on my own just to keep a roof over my head and still have the threat of this happening again when I suffer with severe anxiety as it is which is ANOTHER criteria I meet due to the last 2years iv just been through? I swear people don’t actually know anything.

Social housing is a mix of people who work and don't work . Everyone deserves a secure home . You have private rented for years. It just so happens that what you have been through has put you in the criteria to be eligible so 100%take it .

People are right about the landlord selling though. It takes much longer than you think. Do not leave at the end of the section 21. Stay there and keep bidding

Have a look on the shelter website and it will explain the eviction process.

Just to add incase your worried about court you don't have to physically go to court its all done through paper work .

Feelinglost10 · 03/04/2025 19:54

xanthomelana · 03/04/2025 19:48

What are council properties for? Interested to know as someone who lived on a council estate for a long time.

Isn’t it… a lot of council properties especially the new builds prioritise applications work working people! some want a mix of kids and no kid families etc. it’s a secure home that isn’t likely to increase ridiculously and as I say and fully stand by a LOT of the council homes that get given to those who have never contributed and some have only just moved over here I absolutely will be accepting one should I be offered something in time as why the hell not?! Everyone has a different story and for me to be deemed high priority I clearly am classed as eligible without giving too much of my private life away.

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Feelinglost10 · 03/04/2025 19:55

Mamofteenager · 03/04/2025 19:47

Hi. I'm a housing officer for my local LA. Absolutely do not leave your home on the date of your Sec 21 notice. The landlord will need to apply to the court to obtain a possession order which will buy you time.

In the interim speak to your LA about the notice as there is further assistance they can provide. They can also liaise with your landlord to see if they can allow you to stay until you can secure a house through bidding

Thankyou I will try this! My tenancy ended up just a rolling one as I have been here this long so no actual date on there as to when my tenancy would have been up.. would this make a difference to my rights?

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Brainstorm23 · 03/04/2025 19:56

OP needs to contact Shelter or Citizen's Advice for proper advice on what to do. I'm not sure the advice to wait to be evicted is valid though it is true that some councils will not accept you as homeless if they deem you to have made yourself intentionally homeless (a ridiculous concept in itself). This link has some good info -
england.shelter.org.uk/professional_resources/news_and_updates/when_a_tenant_is_legally_homeless_after_a_section_21_notice

xanthomelana · 03/04/2025 19:59

Feelinglost10 · 03/04/2025 19:54

Isn’t it… a lot of council properties especially the new builds prioritise applications work working people! some want a mix of kids and no kid families etc. it’s a secure home that isn’t likely to increase ridiculously and as I say and fully stand by a LOT of the council homes that get given to those who have never contributed and some have only just moved over here I absolutely will be accepting one should I be offered something in time as why the hell not?! Everyone has a different story and for me to be deemed high priority I clearly am classed as eligible without giving too much of my private life away.

Totally agree. We had loads of people who were working on my estate, like you said we pay into the system for a reason and it sounds like you’ve had a shit time of it lately and deserve a bit of help and luck. Don’t listen to the negativity on here, there’s lots of good advice you can follow instead of the few people that love to put people down.

ThinWomansBrain · 03/04/2025 20:02

"I would never allow for my dog to be separated from me"

Your options could well be you in temporary housing and your dog in a foster scheme for people escaping DV - or you with your dog living on the streets.
If you love the dog, the former is probably a better option.

CarrotVan · 03/04/2025 20:08

Also your landlord won’t be able to exchange contracts to sell the house you’re in until
you have vacated unless they are selling it as a tenanted property.

just been through this process selling my mum’s house which was rented out whilst she was in residential care

TheJollyMoose · 03/04/2025 20:10

This is ridiculous. Your housing situation needs to be your priority - not your animal.