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To think too many people are happy to live off benefits forever?

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BritishQueue · 03/04/2025 17:51

Okay, I know this is a touchy subject here on MN, but I need to ask, AIBU to think that too many people are just choosing to stay on universal credit rather than work?

Obviously, I’m not talking about people who genuinely can’t work - disabilities, carers, etc (even though a lot of those who claim to be unfit for work are perfectly capable, and I’ve seen “carers” for people who don’t actually need any care…). But I know multiple people who are completely able-bodied and yet have no intention of ever getting a job. They say things like “it’s not worth it” or “I’d be worse off working,” and honestly, I don’t get it. I work full-time, pay tax, and yet I see people getting rent paid, extra handouts, and still managing holidays and luxuries I can’t afford. Not to mention that a lot of women think the government should subsidise their SAHM lifestyle.

I just don’t understand how it’s fair? Surely benefits should be a safety net, not a lifestyle choice? AIBU?

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RaininSummer · 03/04/2025 20:15

Enigma53 · 03/04/2025 20:08

Don’t you know that many people on UC, do actually work real jobs??

If course they do but many do not.and if they aren't doing voluntary work or studying either, they become increasingly unemployable.

Wakemeupbe4yougogo · 03/04/2025 20:19

We all have that relative/friend who is playing the system like a fiddle. That's what pisses people off, not those who genuinely need them.

Enigma53 · 03/04/2025 20:21

RaininSummer · 03/04/2025 20:15

If course they do but many do not.and if they aren't doing voluntary work or studying either, they become increasingly unemployable.

Fair comment.
Maybe some kind of mandatory voluntary work, until a a job is secured
( for those who can work but are not ) ?

BloodandGlitter · 03/04/2025 20:23

Wakemeupbe4yougogo · 03/04/2025 20:19

We all have that relative/friend who is playing the system like a fiddle. That's what pisses people off, not those who genuinely need them.

You could easily be a member of my family saying that about me, they know so little of me and tbh it's quite humiliating to talk about my disability and the reasons I get benefits.
You don't know everything about these people.

Happyher · 03/04/2025 20:24

BritishQueue · 03/04/2025 17:55

I’ve seen it with my own eyes.

Seen what exactly??

Frequency · 03/04/2025 20:27

SnoozingFox · 03/04/2025 19:55

These threads always go the same way. Lots of people telling stories about things they have experience in their own family or circle of friends, and loads of other posters piling in to tell them they are making it up, and that everyone on benefits is as honest as the day is long and wouldn't dream of playing the system. 🙄

Of course, some people claim fraudulently or attempt to game the system, but it is a shockingly small number. We spend more on fraud investigation (staff, software, phone lines, etc) than is actually lost through fraud.

Not only that, but the amount of unclaimed benefits each year is much, much higher than what is lost to fraud.

Finally, the welfare bill is crippling us because of pensions, not benefits. Even if we stopped all other benefits, the change would be negligible once pensions are taken into account.

The current crisis with the welfare bill has fuck all to do with people on UC or PIP.

We have too many pensioners and not enough young working people, and that is not because young people are workshy, it is because they are not being born and they are not migrating here. All the nasty foreigners people whine about are desperately needed because we are not reproducing at replacement rates and cannot support our aging population.

arcticpandas · 03/04/2025 20:28

Wakemeupbe4yougogo · 03/04/2025 20:19

We all have that relative/friend who is playing the system like a fiddle. That's what pisses people off, not those who genuinely need them.

Exactly. I have a mum friend, sahm mostly just like me but with the difference that my kid is disabled and my husband is working to support us. She's not working because she has calculated that it will be financially worth it with her having some cleaning hours not declared and picking up the children every day after school. Her partner works undeclared and lives with her but not on the contract because she's in a council house and pays only 200£ per month in rent. I am not jealous but she does have more money than I do to spend thanks to the tax payer. So when she proposes restaurants/outings/shopping I always decline because we can't afford it on one salary.

EilonwyWithRedGoldHair · 03/04/2025 20:30

drasticdonkey · 03/04/2025 20:02

It’s very tricky isn’t it. Are there actually enough jobs for everyone?

I wonder if the government should create a few more jobs where people can contribute to society and earn money but it be more suitable for those that are not able to get a full time job. Perhaps part time or flexible or working at home. Reduced hours and greater flexibility to allow people to maintain caring responsibilities or work around illness/disability.

I’ve seen it with my eyes too. There are many people that have made more money by milking the system.

my relative refused extra hours at work for many many years, as it would have set her over the earning threshold to get as many benefits. Nothing wrong with her, just enjoyed the money for doing nothing. And working more hours would have made her worse off.

There aren't enough jobs. I looked at this because of the changes to disability benefits. Less than a million jobs, over a million people on benefits with job search obligations - obviously that doesn't include anyone else looking for a job, so the number is likely to be higher.

latetothefisting · 03/04/2025 20:32

Well if it wasn't possible to be better off (or even as well of) not working than working then people wouldn't do it, would they? So that's where the fault lies!

Would you wipe bums or serve arsehole customers essentially for free?

If I won the lottery i wouldn't continue working if I no longer had to - i think most people wouldn't. I wouldn't have "done" anything to "deserve" not to work, it would be other people's money paying for me not to (and just my luck to be the winner) so why is living off benefits any different?

It's the fault of several successive governments for making it a viable option in the first place (albeit not as viable as many people seem to think), once they did so I can't really blame people for taking it up.

Frequency · 03/04/2025 20:33

EilonwyWithRedGoldHair · 03/04/2025 20:30

There aren't enough jobs. I looked at this because of the changes to disability benefits. Less than a million jobs, over a million people on benefits with job search obligations - obviously that doesn't include anyone else looking for a job, so the number is likely to be higher.

I'm currently looking for work. Every job I apply to has 100-plus applicants. Remote jobs have 1000-plus, and I'm looking at mid-level, not entry-level roles.

The chance of someone getting a job with a disability and limited work history due to that disability is somewhere between never happening and no fucking chance and that won't be because they're not trying hard enough.

burningmountain · 03/04/2025 20:34

For goodness sake, the views on these threads! The middle class Mumsnetters falling over themselves to insist those on benefits are all salt of the earth people!

Aif course there are decent people honestly claiming what they are due. And of course there are a sizable number of piss takers gaming the system to get what they can. The benefits system is a vast, complex system. Of course there are considerable numbers of people who know how to take advantage of it. That’s not just in terms of direct government welfare benefits. But all the extra bits too. I’ve spoken with stafff who work in deprived communities who will tell you about families who get food from food banks to save up money for expensive fashion trainers for their kids. Who claim electricity credits to power their hot tubs. I worked in housing and I’d visit tenants in rent arrears whose homes were furnished immaculately and expensively with all the latest tech. Stuff I could not afford to get. And they were on benefits.

All my life since childhood I have known people deliberately ripping of the benefits system. I know them now in my 50s. Most of those people are ‘alternative’ types who simply don’t want to work. They are smart and they know how to work the system.

As for ‘benefits are so low no one wants to live on them’. Well latte swilling middle classes may not want that life but plenty of people are prepared to live a more basic life if it means they don’t have to work. My brother is one. He is self funding so he’s doing nothing wrong, but for about a decade he has lived off savings, very frugally ( about 4- 5k a year, he has no rent or mortgage) so that he doesn’t have to work. He’s not ill or anything. He just happy living a really basic life if he doesn’t have to work. So yes, there will be those on benefits happy to do the same.

You don’t have to hate poor people to recognize there are both people legitimately claiming benefits and piss takers.

Those of us with personal and professional experience of it ( and just plain common sense) know it to be true. I can’t be dissuaded from it by people with ideological commitments to think all the poor are good salt of the earth people ( except those who voted for Brexit of course, Y’all were happy to call them thicksters who shouldn’t be allowed to vote when that happened).

AngelicKaty · 03/04/2025 20:38

SnoozingFox · 03/04/2025 19:55

These threads always go the same way. Lots of people telling stories about things they have experience in their own family or circle of friends, and loads of other posters piling in to tell them they are making it up, and that everyone on benefits is as honest as the day is long and wouldn't dream of playing the system. 🙄

No, not telling them "they are making it up" but pointing out that "one anecdote doesn't make evidence". It's particularly galling that ignorant people rely on their personal anecdotes as evidence, when genuine evidence is so easily available from, amongst others, the Government itself. For example, Hansard reported that, in the 2023-24 financial year, 2.8% of total benefit expenditure was overpaid due to fraud, with a further 0.6% overpayments due to claimant error and 0.3% due to "official error" (i.e. the DWP screwed up). For those ignorant people who can't do the maths, this means that 96.3% of payments were legitimate, so the idea that we have so many "scroungers" is sheer nonsense and it would be good if the ignoramuses could do some diligent research and gain a sense of proportion. 🙄

Frequency · 03/04/2025 20:39

@burningmountain I am not middle-class. I come from a small ex-mining town in the arse end of the NE that is frequently featured on things like Benefits Street etc and is well known for having the highest unemployment rates in the UK.

I do not know a single person who has never had a job. If you do I would suggest you stop hanging about with the local crackheads. Though, in fairness, a few of my old mates ended up with addiction issues, and even they've managed a job or two at some point in their lives.

BlessedBeTheGroot · 03/04/2025 20:39

indigovapour · 03/04/2025 19:58

Yanbu. We need to drive a LOT more people to be net contributors. That’ll need some carrot but also a whole other of stick.

Net contributors are people on £40k. No one is coming off benefits and walking into a job that pays that much. A lot of people will never be capable of earning that much.

Icanthinkformyselfthanks · 03/04/2025 20:44

Maitri108 · 03/04/2025 17:56

Benefits are a pittance. Less than £100 a week to live on. To qualify for Job Seekers you need to prove you're looking for work and are sanctioned if you're not.

@Maitri108 , the real money is in sickness benefits especially those which have people never required to work again. You know this I’m sure.
Surprisingly this Labour government clearly recognises that significant numbers of people game the system and are attempting to address that issue. It’s a hats off from me!
And yes I personally know of someone currently living the easy life at my and other tax payers expense and I also know well a GP who is sick to death of the amount of time taken up by the constant stream of wasteralls who beat a path to their surgery searching for the golden ticket to an easy life.

BlessedBeTheGroot · 03/04/2025 20:47

AngelicKaty · 03/04/2025 19:50

@HowDoYouSolveAProblemLikeMyRear "And others who could manage some work (albeit not a permanent full time job), but who couldn't afford to mess up their benefits by doing bits of work here and there. And that's a problem with the system, when it's effectively discouraging work." That's a problem which should be fixed to some extent by the Govt's latest benefit reform proposals with the "Right to try" work - so claimants can try doing a job, but if they can't manage it they won't have to go through the rigmarole of the DWP closing their existing claim, having to start a new claim and having to wait five weeks to be paid UC again (which, of course, immediately puts them in rent arrears unless they have some savings or can borrow their rent for a month).

The "Right to Try" thing is bollocks. If you are on UC, you already have a work allowance, even people in the limited capability groups. Declaring that they are starting a job and putting the earnings into their journal does not trigger a reassessment and wont clos their claim unless they are earing a certain amount. And lets be honest here - no one is going from not working for years into a high paid job. They will probably still get UC as top up.

indigovapour · 03/04/2025 20:49

@BlessedBeTheGroot you may well be right, in which case the amount those people take out will have to be reduced. That’s not about kindness or compassion - it’s just the mathematics of the managed decline approach our governments appear to have adopted.

Maitri108 · 03/04/2025 20:51

Icanthinkformyselfthanks · 03/04/2025 20:44

@Maitri108 , the real money is in sickness benefits especially those which have people never required to work again. You know this I’m sure.
Surprisingly this Labour government clearly recognises that significant numbers of people game the system and are attempting to address that issue. It’s a hats off from me!
And yes I personally know of someone currently living the easy life at my and other tax payers expense and I also know well a GP who is sick to death of the amount of time taken up by the constant stream of wasteralls who beat a path to their surgery searching for the golden ticket to an easy life.

The OP clearly states that she's not talking about disability benefits. JSA is £90 a week (less for younger people) and she's suggesting that people on less than a hundred a week are going on regular holidays.

MyZippyLemonBiscuit · 03/04/2025 20:52

whosaidtha · 03/04/2025 18:10

To be clear I do work. I also have young children. I love my job and the amount of hours I do. As well as the time I get to spend with my children. However as I said I’m not leaving my husband so won’t be claiming. I’m just showing an example of someone who would be better off on benefits.

I did the maths too and I’d get the same amount of money working 40 hours a week as I would being a stay at home mum. I have just got myself employment though and worked out I can earn upto £600 a month before it comes pointless doing any more hours in terms of UC deductions

BlessedBeTheGroot · 03/04/2025 20:52

Enigma53 · 03/04/2025 20:21

Fair comment.
Maybe some kind of mandatory voluntary work, until a a job is secured
( for those who can work but are not ) ?

Something that is mandatory can never be voluntary.

Frequency · 03/04/2025 20:53

@BlessedBeTheGroot one of our foster puppies shares your name. Here's a picture of him for some much-needed, lighthearted relief.

He is the most ridiculous thing you've ever seen when he tries to walk. He is just a waddling ball of floof.

To think too many people are happy to live off benefits forever?
indigovapour · 03/04/2025 20:53

AngelicKaty · 03/04/2025 20:14

Absolutely. When did it become so popular to punch down instead of up? According to the ONS, in the period April 2020 to March 2022, the wealthiest 1% of households held 10% of all household wealth in Great Britain, which was the same as the proportion held by the least wealthy 50% of households combined. And that top 1% employ all possible tax-avoidance schemes to minimise what they contribute to the pot, but people ignore them to go after the poorest in society. I guess cruelty has become fashionable. 😔

What’s to ignore or not ignore about tax avoidance? It’s literally just applying the law. If the law changes to close off methods of tax avoidance then those people will stop using those methods but until that happens no one is doing anything wrong in contributing to pensions, ISAs, etc. In fact we can infer from the incentives available that successive governments have found this kind of tax avoidance desirable, never mind being something they want to stop.

Mylovemine · 03/04/2025 20:56

Frequency · 03/04/2025 20:53

@BlessedBeTheGroot one of our foster puppies shares your name. Here's a picture of him for some much-needed, lighthearted relief.

He is the most ridiculous thing you've ever seen when he tries to walk. He is just a waddling ball of floof.

Where did you get them? They look a lot like my Chihuahua when they were a baby they might be related

BlessedBeTheGroot · 03/04/2025 20:59

Frequency · 03/04/2025 20:53

@BlessedBeTheGroot one of our foster puppies shares your name. Here's a picture of him for some much-needed, lighthearted relief.

He is the most ridiculous thing you've ever seen when he tries to walk. He is just a waddling ball of floof.

OMG, what a cutie! ❤

Frequency · 03/04/2025 21:00

I think they came from Darlington. We're fostering them from a rescue based in Gateshead.

We're considering keeping Groot because he has a neurological disorder, and we don't know if we can manage to trust anyone else to look after him properly.

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