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Nothing for Mother's Day

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Rina1971 · 30/03/2025 18:19

My 18 year old daughter excelled herself today. She stayed out to 4am, got up at 8am shouted Happy Mother's Day and that was it. I feel devastated and hurt. She knew when Mother's Day was, we reminded her and she confirmed to DP she had it sorted. Now she is acting all wounded as though me wanting some acknowledgement is a major inconvenience to her.

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LadyGaGasPokerFace · 30/03/2025 21:49

Oh does it really matter where this tradition came from? Typical hole picking at irrelevant points. Does it matter if you wipe your arse with your left or right hand? Scrunch the paper or fold? Sit or stand up? Have your roll folded over or under in the holder?
The fact of the matter is, it matters to op that it wasn’t acknowledged in a respectful manner.
@Rina1971 I’d be annoyed too. I certainly wouldn’t be sorting out her hangover. I’d be interested to know what you did for her 18th?

intrepidpanda · 30/03/2025 23:45

mydogfarts · 30/03/2025 19:09

Mothering Sunday has been a thing since long before hallmark existed

And is nothing to do with cards, presents and pampering

intrepidpanda · 30/03/2025 23:47

wearyourpinkglove · 30/03/2025 21:03

Your poor mum. I wonder if she finds your birthday is also a "silly" thing to celebrate maybe that's where all this negativity about Mother's Day is coming from...?

I find my birthday a silly thing to celebrate

Bumblebeestiltskin · 31/03/2025 10:11

Rina1971 · 30/03/2025 19:07

I agree I don't want hallmark or tat. Making a cake or lunch would have been nice. Instead I have been on-call for hangover remedies. It would just be nice to be acknowledged

Why did you martyr yourself by being 'on call'?

Rina1971 · 31/03/2025 11:53

Bitofanchange · 30/03/2025 21:01

I’ve raised an indulged child by running round them the they’ve got a hangover. I’m then going to complain that they are selfish and indulged…

No she was brought up.right hence the disappointment..

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Rina1971 · 31/03/2025 11:54

RedHelenB · 30/03/2025 19:25

Tell her straight, don't be a doormat.

I am not a doormat she has been told to be the better person and make amends

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Rina1971 · 31/03/2025 17:44

Bitofanchange · 30/03/2025 21:01

I’ve raised an indulged child by running round them the they’ve got a hangover. I’m then going to complain that they are selfish and indulged…

Suppose you are perfect.

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Rina1971 · 31/03/2025 17:46

Zov · 30/03/2025 20:59

No it's not!

No it has it's roots in mothering Sunday.

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