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To think most people don’t actually pay off their credit cards in full each month?

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PoliteCyanViewer · 29/03/2025 11:48

I always hear advice about clearing your balance each month to avoid interest but how many people actually do it? With the cost of living, unexpected expenses, and temptations everywhere, is it realistic? Do you pay yours off in full or do you carry a balance?

OP posts:
Scarlettpixie · 29/03/2025 16:47

I always do.

Pigeonqueen · 29/03/2025 16:49

SecretSoul · 29/03/2025 16:38

Hmm, I think there’s a judgemental tone with at least some of the posts. Not all, but some.

For sure some are just stating how they use it, but there are also comments like “anyone who doesn’t clear their balance is just bad with money” and lots of “we just refuse to get into debt, we don’t have things we can’t afford”….

I mean, that’s great. But sometimes if you can’t put food on the table, you might need to use a credit card. And you might not have the money to clear it all at the end of the month.

Likewise for Christmas. My teen DC don’t ask for anything expensive, ever, but there’s no way I’d let them wake up to no presents at all. I agree that’s a decision I’ve made, but I doubt anyone who insists they’d never buy things they can’t instantly pay for has ever been in a situation where they can’t feed their kids or buy them a couple of small Christmas gifts without using a credit card.

For context, we haven’t been on any kind of holiday for 11 years. We’re not spending money like water, as some of these posts suggest.

I agree credit cards aren’t the best way to borrow money but sometimes needs must. I resent the implication from some of the posts that anyone who uses credit cards without being able to instantly repay the balance is some kind of frivolous spendthrift.

I applaud anyone who uses credit cards astutely, they’re a great way to accumulate points, get consumer protection, and boost a credit score.

Completely agree with you.

I have been in situations where my dh has been made redundant, we’ve had a roof that needed work done (wasn’t covered by insurance) and no savings and no way to pay for it otherwise. We used a 0% cc to do a money transfer as it was the cheapest way of borrowing money. We then had a toilet crack (£250 to fix / replace / repair) and then our boiler needed £450 of work done. It was easy to end up with quite a hefty cc debt. So what else could we have done in that situation? No one would buy a house with the problems it had if we tried to sell it, and we’d make a loss on it unless we fixed them first, we could afford to pay the debt back monthly, but not in full. It made sense to do it that way.

Thankfully dh got another job and we’ve been hacking away at it all since.

If you’re a fairly high income family and have been able to squirrel away rainy day money or live in rented accommodation where a landlord will step in to fix broken stuff it’s easier to stay out of debt (although yes obviously renting has less security than owning etc) but I really hate it when people are judgy about people using cc or being in debt. If you haven’t had to be in that situation you are lucky.

EverythingElseIsTaken · 29/03/2025 16:49

Cynic17 · 29/03/2025 14:48

All this "we" stuff fascinates me. My husband (of 35 years) has credit cards, as do I. But I have no idea whether or not he clears his monthly, and vice versa. I can't imagine having to constantly tell the other half what I am spending, repaying etc. Keeping things totally separate means that we manage our own finances and hardly ever have to discuss money. It's just very straightforward.

My husband and I have always worked as “we”. I was 18 when he got his first credit card and I was an additional cardholder. I’ve been an additional cardholder on every card he’s ever had since then. “We” as a team don’t spend more than we have. I do have my own card now as I realised I’ve never had credit in my own name (apart from mortgage which was paid off years ago). Bank account is joint and either one of us can pay off any of the cards as all the details are saved in the payments part of the app. We don’t have to actively tell each other anything. It’s all there on the app, no secrets, no issues, totally straightforward.

Lovelynames123 · 29/03/2025 16:53

I do now, although didn't when I was younger, cost myself loads with the 'free' money! I mainly use it for holidays, or other big purchases, for the protection. If I've not got to go on it I put maybe £50 on just to keep my credit rating up. After racking up debt in my 20s I absolutely hate the thought of owing money now!

Tiswa · 29/03/2025 16:53

I have had a credit card for nearly 30 years and have always paid it off.
I use it for various reasons - one the added insurance, the rewards (we have 3 now one cashback one nectar and one that doesn’t have foreign transaction fees. Finally the get paid 4 days after salary come in so it is a form of spending management.

the only thing that has changed as we get older is how much we can spend on it!

Boomer55 · 29/03/2025 16:55

I do because I would hate paying interest to the thieving ratbags of banking. They get nothing from me, 👍🥂

Doitrightnow · 29/03/2025 16:55

I do, for the Tesco clubcard points and buyer protection. I also have a Halifax one which I use abroad as it has a great exchange rate.

Most people I know do.

spicemaiden · 29/03/2025 16:56

Doitrightnow · 29/03/2025 16:55

I do, for the Tesco clubcard points and buyer protection. I also have a Halifax one which I use abroad as it has a great exchange rate.

Most people I know do.

Which credit card do you have for Clubcard points? Is there any advantage over having a Tesco Clubcard?

PeloMom · 29/03/2025 16:59

We do. We put everything on credit cards for points but pay off right away - don’t even wait for statement etc

CatsorDogsrule · 29/03/2025 16:59

Cynic17 · 29/03/2025 14:48

All this "we" stuff fascinates me. My husband (of 35 years) has credit cards, as do I. But I have no idea whether or not he clears his monthly, and vice versa. I can't imagine having to constantly tell the other half what I am spending, repaying etc. Keeping things totally separate means that we manage our own finances and hardly ever have to discuss money. It's just very straightforward.

For what I assume is the majority of married couples, it's at least or more straightforward to share finances and know that there is no debt, or if there is, exactly what it is. We rarely discuss finances, certainly not "constantly", as there is no need because we both have access to it and the information.

We each have individual daily spending credit cards, although are authorised users on each others. DH has Amex, I have Mastercard, so they are used by both where they are accepted or will gain the best rewards. Both with a DD to pay in full each month.

If I spot an unusual transaction on my card , I will check with DH if it was his purchase, in case it is fraudulent, but don't question the specifics of what he bought. I might gently tease him if he bought a sneaky treat from a bakery on my card for example, as I get notifications of transactions, but he has the option of a different card or cash, so could make the purchase without my knowledge very easily. I think he does it on my card as he likes being "caught" though 😁.

We discuss large purchases like appliances, cars etc, but otherwise trust each to spend within our means. Large purchases that might use finance or the need to borrow on a 0% card is managed by me, as DH trusts me to do this, but I would update DH every so often (every 6-9 months perhaps), so he has a general idea.

One reads on here quite frequently that OP's partner has secret debt, which remains hidden and gets out of control, and that can cause the end of the relationship. I'm glad my DH and I have full transparency, and I appreciate it all the more after being in a previous relationship that did not.

Fictionreader100 · 29/03/2025 17:12

We buy everything on our credit card , food , fuel , cafe visits , treats , amazon deliveries , clothes etc , on average comes to 2k a month . It is paid off in full , we do it as it's convenient .

CheesePlantBoxes · 29/03/2025 17:15

Gogogo12345 · 29/03/2025 11:52

Always It's Amex and used to collect Avios points. Use it for everything I can and pay off monthly

Same but for Virgin.

Although we are looking to switch since they changed their bloody rewards scheme and massively increased the points for reward flights 🙄

Are you happy with your avios? BA seem to go to more of the places we want to go anyway.

Konstantine8364 · 29/03/2025 17:16

I have a 20 month 0% card and I put all my insurance on it (house, car, horse, horsebox!) And pay it all off monthly over the year. It costs me nothing and helps my credit rating. I also use it to book holiday stuff and sometimes pay off that month and sometimes over a couple. There are lots of ways to use credit, some sensible and some daft. I'm happy with mine, but others wouldn't be.

alwaysdeleteyourcookies · 29/03/2025 17:20

I absolutely do. Interest would fuck me up.

B1indEye · 29/03/2025 17:24

spicemaiden · 29/03/2025 16:56

Which credit card do you have for Clubcard points? Is there any advantage over having a Tesco Clubcard?

I assume the poster means the Tesco credit card, it used to be really generous with the points but they cut it back in recent years. I now prefer to use a cashback debit card for food shopping

Talkingfrog · 29/03/2025 17:25

If I can't afford to pay the bill at the end of the month, I wouldn't be making the purchase, unless it was essential.

Only time I don't pay in full is if i have made a purchase on interest free credit, anf it us paid off a month in advance

FoolishHips · 29/03/2025 17:25

You can generally keep a balance of 1k and never get charged any interest. But that of course depends on how much you're spending each month.

Humphrey8 · 29/03/2025 17:28

I do

viques · 29/03/2025 17:30

I do, I like the convenience of a credit/ debit card but am not going to fork out paying interest for that convenience.

handsdownthebest · 29/03/2025 17:32

We do

MuthaHubbard · 29/03/2025 17:36

I do - after bills my money is shifted to savings. Then pay for everything during the month on cc before paying off on payday

Pigeonqueen · 29/03/2025 17:39

FoolishHips · 29/03/2025 17:25

You can generally keep a balance of 1k and never get charged any interest. But that of course depends on how much you're spending each month.

That completely depends on the card. I get charged interest on whatever is on there. Even £5 or less (obviously wouldn’t have that on there but just hypothetically).

Gelatibon · 29/03/2025 17:47

Yes, I always have. Didn't have credit cards until I was in a position to know I can clear them monthly. Apart from a mortgage, I've never borrowed anything.

grannycake · 29/03/2025 17:50

Always pay in full. All our spending goes on the cards

Boohoo76 · 29/03/2025 17:51

CheesePlantBoxes · 29/03/2025 17:15

Same but for Virgin.

Although we are looking to switch since they changed their bloody rewards scheme and massively increased the points for reward flights 🙄

Are you happy with your avios? BA seem to go to more of the places we want to go anyway.

I’m generally happy but they have put up the annual spend to £15k per year (it was previously £10k) and increased the yearly fee. That said we have just got four return business class flights to the US in the summer hols for £3500. That was using a combination of Avios points and two companion vouchers.