Would this comment offend you - DH about gym

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My DH is off work this week, so has been going to the gym in the morning rather than after work in the evening.

I asked him when he got back earlier if he is enjoying going at the start of the day when he has more energy, and he basically said - ‘all the MILF’s are there in their tight leggings after the school run which is the main benefit’.

I didn’t laugh - infact I found it really quite rude towards myself. Have I had a sense of humour failure or would this annoy you too?

Same 🤣. I wouldn’t be offended at all OP.

I grimaced reading your post, but that would be very unusual coming from my DH.

Gross and I feel sorry for the women working out there.

I reported a male gym user for saying ‘I love watching women squat’ in a leering manner. Member was banned as he was known for that behaviour.

It wouldn’t offend me so much as make me feel contemptuous and grossed out. I wouldn’t be worried that he was thinking lustful thoughts about other women, I’d be trying not to gag at the thought of sharing a bed with the shallow, puerile tosser.

Oh he’s answered you as if you were a bloke at work. Eek.

Just makes him sound like a creepy letch to be honest😷

That's not a joke: that's him telling you he spends his time perving on women.
I wonder what he is like with the women he works with?
I think he's very disrespectful of you.

Your husband is repulsive.

Yep, I used to work with a man who did spinning classes because he specifically wanted to sit behind a woman whilst she's was peddling to watch her arse move.

Plenty of grim men who only see women as objects to fuck. Looks like the OPs husband is one of them

How did you end up with him?

I’m not jealous at all, so him finding other women attractive wouldn’t be the issue. The issue for me would him using terms like milf and perving at women who stretti g to exercise. That would be a massive ick

Ew. He’s the reason lots of women don’t feel comfortable going to the gym.

Locker room talk with his wife indicates he sees you more as a mate than his wife.

If it was you going down the gym that coincided with a bunch of attractive men working out you might say something to your female friends but you wouldn't dream of saying it to your husband to belittle him.

Well that's what he's done to you. He saying the school mums are desirable.

Appreciate the majority of replies backing up that I’m not over reacting.

DH has some form for this as I’ve said above - I’ve spoken to him again after dinner tonight and he basically laughed and said ‘it’s not as if I told you I wanted to shag one of them’

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This!
I would joke, and say they won’t be looking at you!!

He doesn't want to shag them? Does he know what MILF stands for?

He's a creepy lech.

Does he not know what MILF stands for??

I mean, if my DH said it it would be a joke and it would be fine, but I don't know your DH so you can only judge that. I've made a joke to DH recently about averting my eyes from all the booty shorts glutes girls that appeared in the gym in January.

Was going to say that exact thing.

That's exactly what he said..

Does he know what MILF means as that's exactly what's he's told you!

Grim to you, I wouldn’t think of him the same. and grim for female gym goers.. we just wanna workout in peace and not look at anyone, but most of the men are leering.

My ex used to make creepy “jokes” like this all the time. One of the reasons he’s an ex.

You should’ve said when he says there’s nothing to worry about that damn disappointing as you were hoping one of the MILFs would take the sleazy pig off your hands then laughed like a drain the faux sympathetically patted his head and said there there if he keeps working out and focussing on his personality too he may get noticed by them one day soon. But not to leave it too long as he’s not getting any younger etc etc

Pretty sure you don't.
They probably wouldn't touch him with a barge pole. 🤨

So he’s calling you thick too.
I mean given what Milf stands for, this is literally what he said