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NEIGHBOUR CROSSED THE BOUNDARY BEFORE EXCHANGE

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MummyToBeAgain1 · 26/03/2025 09:29

Hi

I need some advice please.

We're buying a semi detached property and due to exchange and complete in a week or 2.

Over the weekend we drove past the property to find a fence being built between our garden and the property on the right. I suspected they had come in to our garden at a glance so drove past again yesterday.

The fence had fully been up and clearly it crossed in to our garden (to be). I've attached a quick drawing which shows what I mean. The red line is the fence the neighbour has put up.

Just for some context this is a auction property as the owner has died and the children wanted a quick sale. This means that we have a deadline for completition which makes things more stressful.

What do we do now?

Tia

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NEIGHBOUR CROSSED THE BOUNDARY BEFORE EXCHANGE
OP posts:
B1anche · 07/05/2025 09:19

This is a very strange resolution. Not what I expected at all.

MummyToBeAgain1 · 07/05/2025 10:29

Antonania · 07/05/2025 07:57

OP's had a hell of a 6 weeks or so. Land grabs are an absolute nightmare to resolve and very difficult to win as the injured party. She kindly updated with the pragmatic resolution and she's had pages of people telling her to ignore all the legal stuff she has been sweating over for weeks, pocket the money and kick off the whole dispute again. This could easily cost her many thousands, and make her house more difficult to sell to boot, potentially without a very high prospect of winning, and return her to high levels of stress about her own home for many months.

Yes it's shitty, no it's not fair, and no I don't think I'd want to live next to these people either. But the vendors have still realised a lot of money from the sale and OP has still bought her dream house with a still large garden. They have picked pragmatism, and I imagine they now know a lot more about the legal process and what is practically, economically enforceable than most of us on this thread now.

Congratulations OP. Enjoy the dream house.

This!

You're 100% spot on.

Now's the time enjoy the new house.

I will still keep an eye on the neighbours for a few months, to get a gist of what they like and act accordingly.

However, right now isn't the time for that.

OP posts:
custardcreme77 · 07/05/2025 10:48

MummyToBeAgain1

I suppose on the bright side, there is now a sturdy, hopefully nice looking fence, paid for by your neighbours, albeit on a bit of your land…and you have your dream house to live in. xx

FlowerUser · 07/05/2025 10:59

redphonecase · 07/05/2025 06:21

The boundary had changed. She likely wouldn't have lost it.

I would never take that kind of risk. Good for you that you can afford to.

snotathing · 07/05/2025 11:56

I do not understand giving up actual property that you rightfully own.

Well, the OP doesn't own it yet. Possibly the current owner sold it to the neighbour, or allowed them to take it as they had been neighbours to their parents. They might have assumed the OP wouldn't notice.

It sounds like such a small strip that there might be no need to update the deeds. The boundaries aren't usually that precise on the maps.

Hopefully you got a nice big discount OP.

MelOfTheRoses · 07/05/2025 12:46

I would ask the neighbour for costs to register the new boundary.

Thebloodynine · 07/05/2025 12:48

MelOfTheRoses · 07/05/2025 12:46

I would ask the neighbour for costs to register the new boundary.

The OP has already been fully compensated for that. That argument is between the current owners and the neighbour. It seems that they have chosen to let it go.

Puzzledandpissedoff · 07/05/2025 13:36

Helen1625 · 06/05/2025 19:06

Thanks for the update.

The sellers have given you a reduction in the price to get the sale through, and the land dispute now becomes yours and not there's. I don't think they've sold you a property with less land - they've sold you a property with a boundary dispute which is now yours to deal with. Its the lesser of two evils, for them, and whilst they've lost out on some money, it's probably a lot less than what it would have cost them in legal fees to put it right.

Personally, as others have said, I would be letting the CFers know that you are aware of the land dispute and ask how they plan to resolve it as the borders do not match with the land registry documents. Let them know its not as simple as moving a fence and taking some land - the land is owned and registered.

Give them the option of reinstating the correct borders or buying the land from you and getting the necessary amendments done. Explain that you witnessed the change that they made to the property on one of several visits - in case they try and lie their way out of it - and that you have checked with all parties and no agreement was in place for them to do so.

Either that or wait until they're out and get the fence taken down and repositioned to the correct place. I'd do it whilst they were at home witness it, but that's just me 😆.

Excellnt post, Helen1625, and espoecially the first paragraph

Basically the sellers have accepted a reduction in order to pass the problems onto someone else, and depending how long the place had been for sale they may have had little choice

It also occurs to me to wonder if this was partly the purpose of auctioning it, so that the buyer would be quickly "locked in" before any dispute came to light

The main thing that would bother me though - having got away with this - is what else the folk next door might try. Clearly they're not honest and decent people, and frankly I'd want better neighbours

Tessasanderson · 07/05/2025 13:59

There is more too this than we currently know. I would bet my life on it. I wonder how bad these neighbours are. Have they got a huge history of being CF and the sellers, having delved into this realised it was better to give some money off the price than to go through any legal process.

I stand by what i said earlier. Whatever discount they gave, double it and you still got a poor deal. I hope i am wrong but no one selling a property walks away from it by giving money off unless they really have no choice.

SpidersAreShitheads · 07/05/2025 14:08

I understand why you felt you had no option OP.

It sounds as if no one dared to ask CF neighbours to take down their fence? Obviously you couldn’t do that as you don’t legally own it yet - I mean any of the other parties.

It’s a huge shame that the CF neighbours have essentially screwed the family out of money. A price reduction for you is right and fair, but it’s the sellers who lose out not the guilty party.

I would really struggle to have any kind of amicable relationship with them, knowing they’ve deliberately taken advantage of a grieving family.

You say you just want to get the new boundaries registered, post-completion, and draw a line under this. I’d probably approach the CF neighbours once you’re in and tell them that you’re aware they moved the boundary while the property was empty, and that you’re in the process of getting land registry updated to show it’s legally theirs. I might also tell them that the sellers had to reduce their price to reflect what they’d done.

The reason I’d tell them is that it shows you are full aware of their shenanigans and that you aren’t a pushover. Just in case they ever think of trying anything else when you aren’t looking - if you’re away on holiday for example.

You be polite and friendly about it - after all, you’re just letting them know as a favour, right? It just sends an unspoken signal to them that you don’t let CFery slip past unnoticed.

Blue444 · 07/05/2025 14:27

Boundary surveyor
Discussion with neighbour
Serious letter #1
Serious warning letter #2
Move fence if they havent

Spend the 10k that way = bonus of no more CF from neighbours

Had friends who did same. Fence had been moved several years. All good now

littlemissprosseco · 07/05/2025 15:04

MelOfTheRoses · 07/05/2025 12:46

I would ask the neighbour for costs to register the new boundary.

But that would just inflame the situation. @MummyToBeAgain1 has got a good price reduction and just wants to live in peace.
The neighbours know what they did, as does OP.

CantStopMoving · 07/05/2025 16:50

littlemissprosseco · 07/05/2025 15:04

But that would just inflame the situation. @MummyToBeAgain1 has got a good price reduction and just wants to live in peace.
The neighbours know what they did, as does OP.

I wouldn’t register the new boundary at all. Just leave as is. The OP is happy with the fence moved, they just give a licence to the neighbours to use it. It doesn’t need to be any more complicated than that.

confusedaboutetiquette · 07/05/2025 17:15

Blue444 · 07/05/2025 14:27

Boundary surveyor
Discussion with neighbour
Serious letter #1
Serious warning letter #2
Move fence if they havent

Spend the 10k that way = bonus of no more CF from neighbours

Had friends who did same. Fence had been moved several years. All good now

This is potentially good advice (and marries with what happened to us in a similar situation). If the second solicitors letter (which should also mention that the CF will need to enter into a boundary agreement to confirm the boundary is where it ought to be) yields no joy then a third letter will warn that barristers are about to be instructed and costs will amount to circa £50k each, with the losing party liable for both sets.
long story short but our CF opted for a boundary agreement over the risk of monumental costs (because he knew he was wrong)
Only problem with this is costs of legal tooing and froing. And of course you need a strong mental constitution.
The big advantage for OP is that it signals you’ll take no future sh£t.

RawBloomers · 07/05/2025 17:42

CantStopMoving · 07/05/2025 16:50

I wouldn’t register the new boundary at all. Just leave as is. The OP is happy with the fence moved, they just give a licence to the neighbours to use it. It doesn’t need to be any more complicated than that.

That just kicks the can down the road, though. Sorting things out when OP comes to sell could be trickier and take time that she can’t really afford.

CantStopMoving · 07/05/2025 18:04

RawBloomers · 07/05/2025 17:42

That just kicks the can down the road, though. Sorting things out when OP comes to sell could be trickier and take time that she can’t really afford.

why? She owns the land. The issue will be for the neighbour when they come to sell. I would simply insist that when they sell they move the fence back.

Hufdl · 07/05/2025 18:09

CantStopMoving · 07/05/2025 18:04

why? She owns the land. The issue will be for the neighbour when they come to sell. I would simply insist that when they sell they move the fence back.

Edited

This is what happened with our friends years later. They sent a letter initially but had too much going on at the time. The neighbours put a garage on the 10ft deep they took and new fence.

When they were sale agreed my friends struck with a letter to their EA.

They got their land back, had to take down the garage, new wall and a hefty reduction in price to their buyers.

They were absolutely furious....which was such a lovely bonus.

Puzzledandpissedoff · 07/05/2025 18:10

Sorting things out when OP comes to sell could be trickier and take time that she can’t really afford

Very likely, yes, especially as there's now a clear boundary dispute which would have to be declared

And before anyone says that was with the previous owner, the question asked is whether the property itself has given rise to a dispute rather than who owned it at the time

SoMuchBadAdvice · 07/05/2025 20:00

OP - I think that you don't get what has happened and you need to get legal advice.

You are buying a plot of land which has had part of it fenced off from you. You have the choice of reclaiming it and enforcing your ownership rights by having the fencing removed, or you can give it to your CF neighbour and pay for the legal costs of registering your new reduced size plot. The vendor is passing these costs onto you as part of the purchase contract.

Personally, I think that either way, you are getting stiffed at £10k. Normal price reductions in this situation is 30% of market value.

SnakesAndArrows · 07/05/2025 20:12

SoMuchBadAdvice · 07/05/2025 20:00

OP - I think that you don't get what has happened and you need to get legal advice.

You are buying a plot of land which has had part of it fenced off from you. You have the choice of reclaiming it and enforcing your ownership rights by having the fencing removed, or you can give it to your CF neighbour and pay for the legal costs of registering your new reduced size plot. The vendor is passing these costs onto you as part of the purchase contract.

Personally, I think that either way, you are getting stiffed at £10k. Normal price reductions in this situation is 30% of market value.

Did OP tell us what the price reduction was? I don’t think she did. The £10k mentioned was the deposit originally paid.

Noodlehen · 07/05/2025 20:21

RawBloomers · 07/05/2025 17:42

That just kicks the can down the road, though. Sorting things out when OP comes to sell could be trickier and take time that she can’t really afford.

Agree with this completely, and the neighbours have shown what kind of people they are. There’s a high chance that more could happen and OP won’t be happy there and end up selling.

this needs to be iron clad whatever the outcome is, or there will be a lot of headache later down the line.

mathanxiety · 08/05/2025 01:31

CantStopMoving · 07/05/2025 18:04

why? She owns the land. The issue will be for the neighbour when they come to sell. I would simply insist that when they sell they move the fence back.

Edited

There is no guarantee the neighbours will ever sell.

I think OP needs to fight this regardless of the reduction in price. The neighbours have given no consideration whatsoever for the parcel they have annexed. The new state of affairs still hasn't been officially recognized.

SoMuchBadAdvice · 08/05/2025 06:00

SnakesAndArrows · 07/05/2025 20:12

Did OP tell us what the price reduction was? I don’t think she did. The £10k mentioned was the deposit originally paid.

OK fine, the main point is that the problem (& costs of sorting it out) become OP's and the typical expression on these types of sale is "30% BMV".

OP make sure that your purchase includes an affidavit from the vendor, as they are unlikely to provide any help afterwards (taking the reasonable view that they reduced the price in order to pass the problem on).

SummerDaysOnTheWay · 08/05/2025 06:07

TheWolfHouse · 26/03/2025 10:07

There no reason you can’t speak to the neighbour. You obviously can’t tell him what he can and can’t do with the fence but you can talk to him. It might give you a better idea if he is someone you could have as a neighbour or not.

This

Newlittlerescue · 08/05/2025 06:52

CantStopMoving · 07/05/2025 18:04

why? She owns the land. The issue will be for the neighbour when they come to sell. I would simply insist that when they sell they move the fence back.

Edited

What if she wants to sell before the neighbour does? Many buyers, including me, would not touch her house with a bargepole if (a) part of it is licensed to someone else or (b) part has been legally assigned to the neighbour following a land grab or (c) she has ticked the box "has there been a dispute/is there anything in relation to the property that could lead to a dispute"

I don't want neighbours like that.