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NEIGHBOUR CROSSED THE BOUNDARY BEFORE EXCHANGE

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MummyToBeAgain1 · 26/03/2025 09:29

Hi

I need some advice please.

We're buying a semi detached property and due to exchange and complete in a week or 2.

Over the weekend we drove past the property to find a fence being built between our garden and the property on the right. I suspected they had come in to our garden at a glance so drove past again yesterday.

The fence had fully been up and clearly it crossed in to our garden (to be). I've attached a quick drawing which shows what I mean. The red line is the fence the neighbour has put up.

Just for some context this is a auction property as the owner has died and the children wanted a quick sale. This means that we have a deadline for completition which makes things more stressful.

What do we do now?

Tia

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NEIGHBOUR CROSSED THE BOUNDARY BEFORE EXCHANGE
OP posts:
MummyToBeAgain1 · 28/03/2025 10:03

stayathomegardener · 28/03/2025 09:04

I think I am extra invested in this as my mother’s neighbours managed a land grab and stole her gate when she had to go into care in 2021 after 65 years in her home. .
The sale fortunately went through as the buyers accepted the new boundary situation.
The injustice however really bothered me even a few years later I used to regularly dream of retribution, the final straw was receiving a photograph from a friend showing my Mums gate carefully erected in the neighbours field.

It might seem petty but we drove 7 hours and stole that gate right back, electric chainsaw to the gatepost in the middle of the night.
I did report it stolen first so had a crime number and fortunately it was positioned on a footpath so we didn’t need to trespass.
He will absolutely know it was me who took it.

I'm so sorry! What an evil world we live in - no compassion or care for anyone apart from themselves. I can imagine how you must have felt - watching injustice happen in front of you but unable to do anything about it. I'm glad you took it back because that's exactly what these CF's deserve.

I will be updating this journey to the end. No way am i letting it go. I can imagine what the deceased sellers children will feel when they find out! Neighbours who probably were 'friendly' from the outside played them in such a sneaky way.

The worst thing is absolutely everything has gone smoothly - we knew they wanted a quick sale so had all our documents ready and within a week our part was done - we were just waiting for the sellers solicitor to respond to some simple enquiries made by our solicitor.

OP posts:
MummyToBeAgain1 · 28/03/2025 10:06

MinnieMountain · 28/03/2025 06:04

@Nextdoor55 why? OP isn’t aiming to complete before the SDLT change. I’m sure it will be a priority for her solicitor come Tuesday. I work in conveyancing (no longer a fee earner)- it’s stupidly busy at the moment.

This! Although, my situation is a priority for me, the reality is the solicitor needs to work priority cases first - which right now are the SDLT ones.

OP posts:
TheHerboriste · 28/03/2025 10:11

HappiestSleeping · 28/03/2025 09:22

Plus one for this 👆

Why does everyone keep reiterating this? I’m sure OP is aware that she doesn’t yet own the property.

HappiestSleeping · 28/03/2025 10:14

TheHerboriste · 28/03/2025 10:11

Why does everyone keep reiterating this? I’m sure OP is aware that she doesn’t yet own the property.

Because it was one of the most sensible comments, and rather than saying the same thing again, it's easier to agree. Personally, I find it helpful when someone says something and the majority of contributors agree as it adds weight to the comment.

Puzzledandpissedoff · 28/03/2025 10:14

beenwhereyouare · 27/03/2025 16:14

I didn't mention it before, but you know "loads of people who would take the opportunity of an empty property and having a new fence to steal a few inches? "
Really? Because I might be wrong, but I don't know of any.

Ask any solicitor, beenwhereyouare
As ours said over my late , exMIL's case, and as reflected on here, it happens all the time - especially when the homeowner was an elderly person living alone and the family may not have been around all the time to see what happened

godmum56 · 28/03/2025 10:46

Puzzledandpissedoff · 28/03/2025 10:14

Ask any solicitor, beenwhereyouare
As ours said over my late , exMIL's case, and as reflected on here, it happens all the time - especially when the homeowner was an elderly person living alone and the family may not have been around all the time to see what happened

not the same thing. As an ex rehab clinician, I treated loads of people who had problems with joint replacements because they needed me. Same with people who have problems with land grabs, they NEED a solicitor. The average person who is not a rehab clinician may well know folk who have had joint replacements but are hugely unlikely to know "loads of people" who have had a problem. Same with the land grab. The average person will know plenty of people who live next to a house that has been bought/sold but again are hugely unlikely to know loads of people who have or who would do a land grab in those circs. its the same with MN threads, they are likely to be self selecting for people who have experience of the subject.

SoMuchBadAdvice · 28/03/2025 11:05

MummyToBeAgain1 · 26/03/2025 10:02

I'm not sure how to @ everyone at once but thankyou everyone for your replies.

I feel like it's come as a shock as everything was going so smoothly until now.

I've booked a viewing for tomorrow afternoon just to clarify the position before I ring my solicitor.
Although, I'm stressing so much, I might actually end up ringing her today.

I'm aware that as of yet it's not legally my property therefore I can't knock on the neighbours door however the seller can. Thing is though I think I'm stressing because the sneaky behaviour shows what the neighbours are like which also means they may hold this against us and could become a nightmare to live with.

I'm certain they have crossed the boundary as there was a wall that went all the way to the end. They've broken that down and cut some of the bushes of to build they fence. On the title plan the garden boundary is straight from the start to the end.

We can't back of from buying the property because we'll lose the nearly £10k auction fee we've paid.

"We can't back of from buying the property because we'll lose the nearly £10k auction fee we've paid."

Your solicitor will advise but if the Vendor cannot complete (provide vacant possession because of the fence) then the Stakeholder (Auction House) will return your money.

FWIW, I was once in this position—the Vendor refused to complete (due to an unrelated row with his lender), but incredibly, the Auction House released the deposit to the Vendor's Solicitor without checking that Completion had occurred. Big fan, a lot of shit, expensive solicitor's letters, eventually I got my money back.

stitchy · 28/03/2025 11:33

My disabled MIL had a heart attack and was taken into hospital by ambulance as her carers realised what was happening (the neighbours saw the ambulance) and she sadly died a few days later. We went into her house a couple of days after she died and the neighbours whose garden backed onto hers had seized the opportunity to have the fence replaced and put the bill through my MILs door as according to them 'she had agreed to pay for it entirely just before becoming ill'.

My dh went to his Mum's every day and had looked after her finances for years and knew it was bullshit. Filled with rage and grief he went round and offered to pull the fence out with his bare hands there and then. It's amazing how some people will capitalise on another's death, self serving bastards.

TheHerboriste · 28/03/2025 11:39

Wow, @stitchy, that’s mind-boggling! I assumed that they backed off?

stitchy · 28/03/2025 11:46

TheHerboriste · 28/03/2025 11:39

Wow, @stitchy, that’s mind-boggling! I assumed that they backed off?

There was an almighty row but in the end we went halves on the cost of the fence as we didn't want a dispute as we had to sell the house. It all left a horrible taste in the mouth.

TheOrphanTree · 28/03/2025 12:03

Very good news you spotted it in time to fix it and reassuring to hear stories where it was put right.

Getupat8amnow · 28/03/2025 12:04

I am very keen to see how this situation pans out OP, I am right behingpd you.

cordeliavorkosigan · 28/03/2025 12:05

Definitely get this sorted. We found an issue with our house purchase where the deeds did not reflect the correct transfer of the land from the council, and were so glad we got it sorted before completion because we learned later that it never would have been sorted after, as the council would not have dealt with us (only the original council tenant when the property was privatised).
Fingers crossed for this getting resolved easily but ours was very slow. Totally different problem, mind..

ButterCrackers · 28/03/2025 12:28

stitchy · 28/03/2025 11:46

There was an almighty row but in the end we went halves on the cost of the fence as we didn't want a dispute as we had to sell the house. It all left a horrible taste in the mouth.

How disgraceful of the neighbours.

JustMeHello · 28/03/2025 12:29

Aww, I just remembered the thread where someone's neighbour stole their woodland. I can't remember how it was resolved, but that involved some cheeky fuckers taking advantage.

BeakyFlinders · 28/03/2025 12:57

SoonTheDaffodilsWillBeOver · 26/03/2025 09:45

To be clear OP - this is not your house. You haven’t even exchanged yet. So you can’t go to the neighbours and say the fence is on your land, because it’s not yet your land.

I would go through your solicitors and say there appears to be a boundary dispute, and you need the sellers to resolve this before exchange. Then it’s their problem.

This. Don’t exchange until it’s resolved otherwise it becomes your problem.

RideMeSidewaysWasAnother1 · 28/03/2025 13:29

MummyToBeAgain1 · 28/03/2025 10:06

This! Although, my situation is a priority for me, the reality is the solicitor needs to work priority cases first - which right now are the SDLT ones.

I wish every client was as considerate and patient as you ❤

MinnieMountain · 28/03/2025 13:30

How’s it going @RideMeSidewaysWasAnother1 ? As bonkers as the SDLT “holiday” after the pandemic?

RideMeSidewaysWasAnother1 · 28/03/2025 13:36

All done and dusted, thankfully not as hectic as it could have been. I don't just mean patience with the Stamp Duty craziness but just patience in general.

MinnieMountain · 28/03/2025 13:46

I know what you mean @RideMeSidewaysWasAnother1 . That’s why I audit conveyancing files now rather than fee earn.

beenwhereyouare · 28/03/2025 15:28

HappiestSleeping · 28/03/2025 10:14

Because it was one of the most sensible comments, and rather than saying the same thing again, it's easier to agree. Personally, I find it helpful when someone says something and the majority of contributors agree as it adds weight to the comment.

Then why not use the "agree" reaction?

There's more impact in seeing one post with seven agrees, than in 7 spread throughout the thread.

pencilcaseandcabbage · 28/03/2025 15:40

beenwhereyouare · 28/03/2025 15:28

Then why not use the "agree" reaction?

There's more impact in seeing one post with seven agrees, than in 7 spread throughout the thread.

Only the poster can see reactions. They are invisible to all other users.

HappiestSleeping · 28/03/2025 17:04

pencilcaseandcabbage · 28/03/2025 15:40

Only the poster can see reactions. They are invisible to all other users.

This 👆

🤣🤣

MollyRover · 28/03/2025 17:24

JustMeHello · 28/03/2025 12:29

Aww, I just remembered the thread where someone's neighbour stole their woodland. I can't remember how it was resolved, but that involved some cheeky fuckers taking advantage.

Oh ya, there was a river involved, wasn’t there? That was entertaining.

tilypu · 28/03/2025 17:37

Oh ignore me, I'm being dumb!