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My boyfriend gets mad when we don’t have sex

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BeTicklishOtter · 24/03/2025 07:42

my boyfriend has been saying that all I do is sit in my phone and never speak to him or spend time with him. I work 40 hours a week - the only time I really go on my phone is when I finally get into bed & he as well is just on his phone

so last night we decided to watch a movie together, 2 in fact because I never make time.

movie finished and he tries to have sex, I told him no that I’m tired & I couldn’t be bothered.

he then proceeds to call me a fat bitch that he doesn’t love me anymore that I’m boring and he will go and find someone better to watch this then took him self to sleep down stairs after shouting up that im horrible and he’s leaving me.

we literally had sex 2 days ago - we have sex like 2-3 times a week but all he ever does is say we don’t even have sex when we clearly do.

OP posts:
zoemum2006 · 24/03/2025 11:09

You are absolutely wasting your time with this abusive man. There are so many red flags it's pointless to even try to sort anything out.

Do yourself a favour and tell him to f**k off and then avoid getting into a new relationship until you know that you are worth more than being treated like that.

RobinEllacotStrike · 24/03/2025 11:22

He's clearly horrible.
Dump him.

You deserve much better OP.

outerspacepotato · 24/03/2025 11:30

Your "boyfriend" is verbally and emotionally abusive and sexually coercive.

What is he thinking that calling you abusive names would get you in the mood for sex. He sounds aggressive and mean.

Dump him. He's a turd in human form.

TertiaryAdjunctofUnimatrix01 · 24/03/2025 11:34

This is not love or respect for you, OP. Please leave him.

Thepeopleversuswork · 24/03/2025 11:48

goodforher · 24/03/2025 07:44

This is not about your boyfriend.

It is about why you feel you are not worth better than this man who treats you with open contempt. I suggest you leave him and work on placing value on yourself and how you expect others to treat you.

This. You know you deserve better than this.

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