To think her comment was just unnecessary?

[CasaNOvayuck]

I met one of my partner’s female friends today for the first time and one of the first things she said was:

”oh this one (him) as ALWAYS been such a Casanova. I hope he’s going to pay me not to tell you some of the stories, because you won’t like them!”

Needless to say, everyone else at the table went very quiet and one of the other people even told her it was inappropriate.

We laughed it off. He’s in his 40s and we all have a past. But what an odd and unnecessary thing to say to someone’s new partner!

(I know partner is an unpopular phrase here for newer relationships. I’m too old for “boyfriend” so you’ll have to forgive me).

Oooh she definitely sounds threatened. Be wary of that one

I think she was showing off and attention-seeking. She wanted to come off as the alpha female.

She's jealous and fancies the pants off him. She's also trying to humiliate you. I'd stamp on this if I was you.