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To think horror films are horrible

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Somethingthecatdraggedin7 · 16/03/2025 15:46

I have never understood why people enjoy horror films.
By that I mean the genuine films of that genre not crime/action whatever which have violence in them.
I watched part of a horror film at a freind's place when I was much younger (late teens) and was completely freaked out and left my friend’s house. The film was so shockingly nasty that it took me years to block out the images.
If you enjoy horror, why do you like them? Is it a thrill akin to a rollercoaster for you?
I honestly don’t understand why people like watching torture etc.
YABU = Horror films are great fun and I can’t get enough
YANBU = Horror films are horrible and I avoid them

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AlmostAJillSandwich · 16/03/2025 17:16

stresssd · 16/03/2025 17:09

Stbxh watches them every night now he tells me. He is currently obsessed with art the clown and tries to tell me the worst bits. I hate it how he gets kicks out of seeing people tortured then murdered. I think it's the lack of empathy in him that is unsettling

I love the terrifier films with art the clown in, i assure you i don't lack empathy.

MyUmberSeal · 16/03/2025 17:16

I absolutely love the ‘Saw’ films. The music, the story, the games. I do work in a funeral home so the blood and gore is not a problem, and I enjoy the suspense also. I did go to the cinema back in 2015 to watch ‘The Exorcist’ on halloween night. When we went to Washington, we made sure we visited the steps from the film.

Snorlaxo · 16/03/2025 17:17

My young adult kids love a horror movie which is a genre I avoid if it’s an 18 (prefer to stick to a 12 in scariness ) . I happily watch true crime and fictional crime stuff which they find horrible compared to their fictional horror. They say that true crime stuff has their brains lingering on the details long after watching where as horror is just on the moment.

blackbird77 · 16/03/2025 17:19

AlmostAJillSandwich · 16/03/2025 17:14

The only horror fils that have ever actually scared me are the grudge films, its how she moves and the noise she makes. I love horror and gore, like the terrifier and saw movies. It never ceases to amaze me the things human minds can make up to do to one another. It's kind of fascinating.

I thought the Grudge was terrifying too (only seen the Hollywood remake and not the original). That bit in the corridor in her workplace when looking though the CCTV cameras and also the elevator bit TERRIFIED me. But I loved it!

REC is probably my favourite horror movie. I love The Exorcist and Rosemary’s Baby too. And Alien, Predator, The Thing, the original Halloween and Fright Night. So many good ones out there!

LucyMonth · 16/03/2025 17:23

The psychology behind horror films and rollercoasters is that you get to experience fear/adrenaline rush in a safe environment. You can freak yourself out but ultimately know you aren’t in danger.

I find it a little odd that you are focusing on horror and specifically mention that you aren’t meaning crime etc. Horror is exaggerated, unrealistic fantasy. Crime, whether true crime or dramatised focuses on the worst things that happen to humans. Actually happen to real humans.

I think it makes sense to enjoy horror in the same way people might “enjoy” a documentary about Jim Jones or the holocaust. Even cotton candy family Saturday night TVcontains perl of some sort. Britain’s Got Talent has the needless sob stories etc.

No one really only ever watches sunshine and rainbows TV. So whether you enjoy the Saw movies or 24 hours in A&E it’s really all the same.

Vodkamartini3olives · 16/03/2025 17:26

I like horror but scary not gory. Have you re watched jaws as an adult?. We had a jaws marathon recently
I wouldn't class it as a horror. Very entertaining and funny but definitely not scary.

OldGothsFadeToGrey · 16/03/2025 17:26

HappiestSleeping · 16/03/2025 15:59

Very much so. The main issue is special effects. Pre-special effects films were excellent, more about what you didn't see that your mind filled in.

Then, in the early days of FX, there was 30 minutes of story to 5 minutes of FX. Now it's 60 minutes of FX and 5 minutes of story.

I recall one with Oliver Reed (I think) that I saw when quite young. Black and white. It was along the lines of the thing under the stairs and was brilliant. I wish I knew what it was called.

Could be The Shuttered Room. Depends how old you are

dottydodah · 16/03/2025 17:27

Happiestsleeping was the film you were thinking of called the "Shuttered Room"? " About an old mill where a nasty thing lived ? (1967 Oliver Reed) DH is a horror buff Im the opposite!

ItGhoul · 16/03/2025 17:27

Somethingthecatdraggedin7 · 16/03/2025 16:25

I will admit that after I saw Jaws I was too frightened to have a bath for weeks!
In my defence I was a just child at the time and looking back really shouldn’t have been exposed to such a film.
Does liking horror go hand in hand with being a risk taker in life? Or is it just the opposite and you feel safe watching awful things happen from the comfort of your sofa?
Those who like the gory stuff, do you cope well with real life injuries?

I do like ‘gory stuff’ and I cope extremely well with real life injuries - my own and other people’s. I’m not squeamish at all and I’m very calm and pragmatic.

I wouldn’t personally wouldn’t say I was a risk-taker. I have no interest in participating in extreme sports, I’ve never had any wish to do drugs or anything, always wear a seatbelt etc! However, I have been told by other people that they think I take risks - but in my opinion, those people are irrational about the actual level of risk involved. For instance, I happily walk home alone through lonely spots late at night, go running at dusk in deserted parks/woods etc - some people tell me that’s risk-taking but I personally don’t think it is, given how low the statistical likelihood is of being harmed by a stranger. I have also been known to step into violent situations.

OldGothsFadeToGrey · 16/03/2025 17:29

scorpiogirly · 16/03/2025 16:27

Definitely. What you don't see is the most scary. I don't know what movie that is but there was a black and white one with Robert Mitchum that absolutely terrified me. The old ones are the best.

The Night of the Hunter? Still scary!

stayathomer · 16/03/2025 17:29

Ds is a horror movie fan and I really feel for him because none of us who are in the age group to watch them like them. He’s always asking can we watch them with him as it’s more fun to watch with someone but within minutes my heart is thudding and I have to leave. If I do watch on I have nightmares and flashes of the bad parts for days at least!

ForestFox44 · 16/03/2025 17:32

My sister watched loads when I was a little kid and traumatised me too... I've never got over it and still am such a wuss... it's kind of ruined my adulthood a bit. I still can't watch them, even slightly jumpy and im mulling them over in my head for years 😅

claudiawinklemansfringetrimmer · 16/03/2025 17:33

I love the early Saw films. It’s a shame there’s been so many churned out and they all get a bit silly and mindless, I think people forget the first one was fairly groundbreaking and really clever! The music was fantastically done as well.

Anyway I do like horror films but I have an “ideal zone” of scary enough to be thrilling but not traumatisingly scary. Like Scream, Halloween, Final Destination, Saw, etc. Bizarrely one of the ones that scared me the most was The Others and I think that’s a 12!

GiddyRobin · 16/03/2025 17:34

I love horror films. I like spooky, scary things in general tbh - books, history, so on and so forth, though I don't believe in ghosts at all. I just enjoy being scared (which lots of horror films don't manage to do for me that often, but I still enjoy the ride), but I also find folklore and that kind of thing fascinating too. Old creepy tales and weird creatures, etc. As an author, I also enjoy writing horror!

Psychological horror is interesting, too. I like anything that has me wondering how I'd cope in specific scenarios. The human brain is a fascinating place! I think torture porn is boring as hell, but I don't mind a bit of gore as long as it's not gratuitous. I don't find that scary, just dull when it's excessive. I'm just not particularly squeamish. Spooky is my favourite though, I want to be freaked out by shadows and small things that are off kilter slowly building up into something horrific.

OldGothsFadeToGrey · 16/03/2025 17:34

I love horror. Saw films are great.

I don’t mind a gory horror. Quite enjoyed the Terrifier films.

I hit my limit at August Underground and Tater city. Didn’t make it through either. Think they miss stepped horror and were just horrible.

Abitlosttoday · 16/03/2025 17:35

A colleague once described (graphically) the plot of The Human Centipede to me. I was genuinely disturbed. I'm not a fragile type of person. I have never watched horror films. The closest I ever got was Sixth Sense (I realise this isn't really horror) and I spent weeks unable to be alone in my student house and sleeping on my friends' floors. Very inconvenient! I think I have a very willing imagination, and when I was young it was unrestrained so anything could trigger it. I am more sensible now but if an ad for a horror film comes on I switch channel.

LadyKenya · 16/03/2025 17:35

ItGhoul · 16/03/2025 17:09

That’ll be either Night Of The Hunter or the original Cape Fear. Both brilliant.

Robert Mitchum was an incredible actor.

It was Night Of The Hunter, which has a particularly stunning underwater shot. I really like the film Magic, starring Antony Hopkins. He was superb in it, and of course, the impressive Burgess Meredith.

Handyweatherstation · 16/03/2025 17:41

I hate them. Saw enough real life horror as a child and don't consider it entertainment.

Mummyoflittledragon · 16/03/2025 17:49

I love a good horror. I was weaned on Hammer House of Horror when I was 9/10. Can’t believe my parents let me watch that now as a treat a couple of times at least. A vivid memory of a couple, who got caught in their secluded house with death level electrocution booby traps so they couldn’t escape. The dog made it out. It was a bit scary and stayed with me, nothing major. My same aged friend also watched it.

HorrorFan81 · 16/03/2025 17:53

pinkdelight · 16/03/2025 16:58

I love horror films and have worked in the industry. It's a great community with very passionate fans who are often big cineastes. It's one of the purest genres of cinema, being primarily visual and sound FX, not so much about dialogue, and a great horror can work in all cultures across the world, tapping into deep primal human experiences. Many horrors deal better with social and personal issues much better than trad dramas which are more on the nose e.g. the first Night of the Living Dead is a seminal film about race - and other issues - that has lasted much better than many films of the time, and there's myriad erudite studies on everything from The Exorcist to J-horror you could delve into.

Horrors use metaphor and myth to help us explore our fears and face them in the same way children do through fairytales, and with extra power when watched together in a cinema. It's a valuable and healthy way to deal with things and oddly conservative in many ways, focusing on how to manage a disruption to the norm and then restore an equilibrium, even if it's then left open for sequels.

Of course there are plenty of horrors that don't aim so high and just go for gore and scares, but they have their purpose too, giving people a catharsis through an unreal experience so they can return to their real life with that adrenaline released. I like it when films push the envelope in whatever way and find originality exciting wherever I find it, even finding some political meaning in The Human Centipede. There's a whole chunk of people who will never like horror, just as there's a chunk who'll never like opera or golf or whatever, and that's fine, it's not for everyone, but that just means it's very much for some people with different tastes to you who don't find it horrible or at least don't find that a bad thing.

Edited

So well written! And agree with every word

HappiestSleeping · 16/03/2025 17:55

OldGothsFadeToGrey · 16/03/2025 17:26

Could be The Shuttered Room. Depends how old you are

Ooh, that could well be it. The synopsis sounds about right. Thank you, I'll see if I can find it somewhere.

oakleaffy · 16/03/2025 17:55

OldGothsFadeToGrey · 16/03/2025 17:29

The Night of the Hunter? Still scary!

'The Night of the Demon' is REALLY good!, based on M.R James ''Casting the Runes''

Possibly on Vimeo.

oakleaffy · 16/03/2025 17:57

OldGothsFadeToGrey · 16/03/2025 17:26

Could be The Shuttered Room. Depends how old you are

The Shuttered Room was really good.

{They burned down a real old mill building to make that..}

Middlechild3 · 16/03/2025 17:58

Somethingthecatdraggedin7 · 16/03/2025 15:46

I have never understood why people enjoy horror films.
By that I mean the genuine films of that genre not crime/action whatever which have violence in them.
I watched part of a horror film at a freind's place when I was much younger (late teens) and was completely freaked out and left my friend’s house. The film was so shockingly nasty that it took me years to block out the images.
If you enjoy horror, why do you like them? Is it a thrill akin to a rollercoaster for you?
I honestly don’t understand why people like watching torture etc.
YABU = Horror films are great fun and I can’t get enough
YANBU = Horror films are horrible and I avoid them

I love them, love being frightened, love the suspense, the frights, the jumpy bits, None of my friends like them so I go to the cinema on my own which makes it even scarier. There are some that are simply disturbing however. Not all horror films are the same.

steff13 · 16/03/2025 17:59

ItGhoul · 16/03/2025 17:09

That’ll be either Night Of The Hunter or the original Cape Fear. Both brilliant.

Robert Mitchum was an incredible actor.

Robert Mitchum was amazing. And that voice! ❤️

There's a movie that I think is technically technically considered horror but I don't think it's all that scary that's so underrated - Frailty. It doesn't have anything to do with Robert Mitchum, I just thought I'd it. It actually stars Matthew McConaughey and Bill Paxton. It's a supernatural thriller, and so good.

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