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To think the NHS should not be cutting funding for Anorexia and EDs if they are going to be spending ££££ on weight loss jabs

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B00kThi3f · 10/03/2025 07:12

Anorexia and ED numbers are soaring. My daughter has battled the disease for 6 years. It kills far quicker than obesity and the sooner it is treated the better the outcome. During the last few years I have witnessed so many parents fighting for treatment and now in some severe cases patients are just being given palliative care.

Most areas are now planning cuts to specialist eating disorder services.

The fact we apparantly have ££££ to spend on weight loss jabs when children and young people are essentially being left to die is not ok and highlights a quick fix medicated approach by the NHS as opposed to longer term MH provision.

OP posts:
B00kThi3f · 10/03/2025 12:35

Fargo79 · 10/03/2025 12:30

This was a well considered and thoughtful response from someone who has been closer to anorexia than even you are. And you met her with rudeness, completely failing to engage with what she was saying and the kindness she extended to you.

I'm not sure what your aim is in starting this thread OP but lashing out at other people, whether that's spreading misinformation and harmful narratives about other medical patients or being directly rude to people on this forum, is not the way to deal with it. You are under a lot of stress and your family is being badly let down by the sounds of things. Starting fights outside of that is not going to help you. Quite the opposite.

MN can be a great source of comfort and support, and has been for many people facing serious illness and worse. If you start a thread in good faith on the right board then I'm certain you will find that same comfort and support if you want it.

I found it to be a patronising and incorrect post actually. I’m extremely well informed about Anorexia having supported a young person with it for many years and having had it myself. She also had treatment, many people aren’t so lucky.

OP posts:
cardibach · 10/03/2025 12:42

B00kThi3f · 10/03/2025 10:33

Your link doesn’t say that, quite the reverse.

It’s not my link. I was referring simply to the figures the PP gave showing an above inflation rise.

MummytoE · 10/03/2025 12:46

I'm getting the impression op thinks that obesity is a choice and therefore not deserving of treatment, funding, sympathy

SwingTheMonkey · 10/03/2025 12:49

I’m not sure what you’re expecting people to say, op. It’s a scandal that mental health is so woefully underfunded. But money isn’t being taken from treating mental health problems and being used for weight loss injections instead. It’s just not.
I think a pp asked if you’d have the same opinion of a new cancer drug being rolled out as you do the WLI. You didn’t answer but we all know what your answer would be.

UnbeatenMum · 10/03/2025 12:50

I agree with you about funding for ED treatment and for CAMHS, which essentially isn't providing a service at all for the vast majority. It's not always possible to go private either, even if you have the means to pay.

I'm not sure about the link to weight loss medication though, which should save the NHS money in the medium and long term. Why not just fund everything adequately?

ChungkingExpress · 10/03/2025 12:53

UnbeatenMum · 10/03/2025 12:50

I agree with you about funding for ED treatment and for CAMHS, which essentially isn't providing a service at all for the vast majority. It's not always possible to go private either, even if you have the means to pay.

I'm not sure about the link to weight loss medication though, which should save the NHS money in the medium and long term. Why not just fund everything adequately?

That's the thing OP seems to be missing, if the NHS does fund weight loss jabs, they'll save a ton of money on various co-morboties, and hopefully they can funnel some more of that cash to EDs (although I won't hold my breath on that one.

Locutus2000 · 10/03/2025 12:54

B00kThi3f · 10/03/2025 08:27

So why can’t they be forced to contribute towards the cost?

They do. Tax and NI like the rest of us.

FortyElephants · 10/03/2025 12:56

Locutus2000 · 10/03/2025 12:54

They do. Tax and NI like the rest of us.

And £9.60 for each prescription.

TY78910 · 10/03/2025 12:58

Can I ask where the cuts to ED services has come from? Can't find anything online specifically talking about this but 600m has been allocated to social care and 26m to mental health centres?

www.gov.uk/government/news/new-funding-to-fix-the-nhs-heres-how-it-will-be-spent#:~:text=As%20part%20of%20the%20Autumn,%2C%20excluding%20COVID%2D19%20years.

raininginlanzarote · 10/03/2025 13:00

Nameychangington · 10/03/2025 07:30

highlights a quick fix medicated approach by the NHS as opposed to longer term MH provision.

Well yes that's exactly what it is. Obese people cost the NHS more because of their co-morbidities, so it's in the government's financial interests to deal with those people's obesity. It's not that obese people are valued more than mentally ill people, it's that they cost more overall so treating them saves money overall.

This.

And was I the only one to be confused about the connection between anorexia and erectile dysfunction ?

No? Probably my age then... 😂

Locutus2000 · 10/03/2025 13:05

MummytoE · 10/03/2025 12:46

I'm getting the impression op thinks that obesity is a choice and therefore not deserving of treatment, funding, sympathy

Like the way we used to treat anorexics then.

I'm glad times have moved on.

MummytoE · 10/03/2025 13:07

Locutus2000 · 10/03/2025 13:05

Like the way we used to treat anorexics then.

I'm glad times have moved on.

What's your point

Audhdmum · 10/03/2025 13:18

I find it quite worrying that the mother of a young person with anorexia should be so hostile towards and prejudiced about people suffering with the disease of obesity. Overweight/obesity is not a moral failure any more than anorexia is. The OP’s disgust at fat people (I’m not overweight btw) is not a healthy example.

Ketzele · 10/03/2025 13:20

I have had ED my whole life. I was anorexic for many years, and am now obese. For many people (not all) they are deeply connected. I absolutely agree with you, OP, that anorexia services are vital, but deeply disagree with you seeing obesity services as the culprit for them being underfunded.

Adult obesity services are shockingly underdeveloped and the arrival of weight loss jabs hasn't changed that. It is highly convenient for so many people (including in the NHS) to pretend the answer is health education and self control. About as useful as telling an anorexic to 'just eat more'.

toomuchfaff · 10/03/2025 13:20

B00kThi3f · 10/03/2025 12:20

Well that’s a ridiculous suggestion . You’re lucky if you get treatment let alone therapy for families.

OP

You seem incredibly angry at everyone and everything.

Maybe an Internet forum isn't the best place for you.

Suggest you stop arguing with strangers in the Internet and go do something that won't aggravate you further. This is solving nothing for you, aside from increasing your anger and stress. à

tipsandtoes · 10/03/2025 13:21

Agix · 10/03/2025 07:22

Anorexia is cool again now. They're injecting people with medication that severely lowers their appetite to enable them to emulate the very low calorie consumption of anorexics... and it's perfectly acceptable.

I also have anorexia. I went through treatment, weight restoration, recovery and now feel entirely ripped off. I never wanted to eat more. I never wanted to regain weight. I thought I had to because it was apparently unhealthy to eat so little - even when I wasn't underweight, they'd make me eat more.

Turns out it's all lies and perfectly fine to eat so little in the pursuit of thin.

At least I can do what I want now. Of anyone asks about my weightloss, I'll just say it's ozempic and that will make it A-OK.

I'm older now so not losing weight as fast, is my only complaint. They should have just let me be before. I don't understand why they'd pretend low calorie consumption is harmful if it's not.

I'm not sure if you are being facetious

Badbadbunny · 10/03/2025 13:23

Teado · 10/03/2025 08:21

The costs and pressures of anorexia pale into insignificance compared to those associated with obesity. So, the latter is seen as more crucial for finding.

It is all about the money, the Exchequer. Not the “value” of the disease or the patient, I guess.

I am really sorry for what your daughter has been through OP.

Does it though? What about the costs of someone with anorexia not being able to work and earn money, pay taxes and contribute to society, instead we'd be paying someone unfit to work in terms of disability benefits.

Surely we have to look broader than simply the "cost" to the NHS. We need to also factor in costs in other areas too.

CompulsiveEaterSickandTired · 10/03/2025 13:23

@AlmostAJillSandwich I hear you. I've suffered from this disorder since a young child. I have a background of complex trauma which started in infancy. I'm 25 stone and I'm so tired of it all. I went back to Overeaters Anonmymous online meeting today for first time in ages (it helped before some years ago now) and I feel I need to get back in recovery. I have been having therapy for the trauma and other related diagnoses including BPD/EUPD and have made some progress but eating still remaining an issue. Today I felt some renewed hope that maybe I can do this . I've been in a freeze mode kind of slump for so long.

MummytoE · 10/03/2025 13:24

Audhdmum · 10/03/2025 13:18

I find it quite worrying that the mother of a young person with anorexia should be so hostile towards and prejudiced about people suffering with the disease of obesity. Overweight/obesity is not a moral failure any more than anorexia is. The OP’s disgust at fat people (I’m not overweight btw) is not a healthy example.

Yes agree . I think there is more going on here than anger at funding. Especially considering the Op has had anorexia herself.

RedHelenB · 10/03/2025 13:26

Agix · 10/03/2025 07:22

Anorexia is cool again now. They're injecting people with medication that severely lowers their appetite to enable them to emulate the very low calorie consumption of anorexics... and it's perfectly acceptable.

I also have anorexia. I went through treatment, weight restoration, recovery and now feel entirely ripped off. I never wanted to eat more. I never wanted to regain weight. I thought I had to because it was apparently unhealthy to eat so little - even when I wasn't underweight, they'd make me eat more.

Turns out it's all lies and perfectly fine to eat so little in the pursuit of thin.

At least I can do what I want now. Of anyone asks about my weightloss, I'll just say it's ozempic and that will make it A-OK.

I'm older now so not losing weight as fast, is my only complaint. They should have just let me be before. I don't understand why they'd pretend low calorie consumption is harmful if it's not.

You were too thin, dangerously so, couldn't see that and so had to be pushed into eating. And that probably saved your life. Be grateful that those that are overweight are also getting the help they need to live the longest, healthiest life they can.
If you truly can't see the difference in circumstances you need to go and ask for support again.

SwingTheMonkey · 10/03/2025 13:32

MummytoE · 10/03/2025 13:24

Yes agree . I think there is more going on here than anger at funding. Especially considering the Op has had anorexia herself.

I think we all know the agenda here. Op comes across as intelligent and articulate so I fail to see how she doesn’t understand that this one particular drug isn’t the cause of the underfunding. She knows full well it’s not. This is just an excuse to have a go at a group of people she clearly despises.

thecherryfox · 10/03/2025 13:51

Unfortunately with eating disorders, they only seem to use bmi and only help people when it’s too late. I went from being an overweight 19 year old at about 15 stone (I’m only short) to within 5 months being 6 stone because I refused to eat. I went to my gp and they saw the concern and referred me to an eating disorder clinic. The clinic wrote back within a week and said that I was in the average bmi and I wasn’t a candidate for help. They looked over the fact that I wasn’t eating and dropped 9 stone in 5 months because I wasnt eating, over exercising and using laxatives. I was fainting, I had stomach issues, I was severely malnourished and had to be hospitalised multiple times especially with dehydration as in my eyes even water made me ‘fat’. I unfortunately tried to end my own life a few months later because I wasn’t getting the help I deserved- and even then the mh help with the nhs during impatient care and post care is shocking.

its such a shame that so many people are getting help and support to lose weight and funding is put into the weight loss support but mental health disorders and Ed’s are not taken seriously or have the funding to take people seriously until it’s too late

Comedycook · 10/03/2025 13:55

its such a shame that so many people are getting help and support to lose weight and funding is put into the weight loss support but mental health disorders and Ed’s are not taken seriously or have the funding to take people seriously until it’s too late

This is an awful thing to say and really unnecessary. You can campaign and want those with eds to have more help without complaining about others getting weight loss support.

You do realise that many obese people also have mental health conditions?

MummytoE · 10/03/2025 13:55

thecherryfox · 10/03/2025 13:51

Unfortunately with eating disorders, they only seem to use bmi and only help people when it’s too late. I went from being an overweight 19 year old at about 15 stone (I’m only short) to within 5 months being 6 stone because I refused to eat. I went to my gp and they saw the concern and referred me to an eating disorder clinic. The clinic wrote back within a week and said that I was in the average bmi and I wasn’t a candidate for help. They looked over the fact that I wasn’t eating and dropped 9 stone in 5 months because I wasnt eating, over exercising and using laxatives. I was fainting, I had stomach issues, I was severely malnourished and had to be hospitalised multiple times especially with dehydration as in my eyes even water made me ‘fat’. I unfortunately tried to end my own life a few months later because I wasn’t getting the help I deserved- and even then the mh help with the nhs during impatient care and post care is shocking.

its such a shame that so many people are getting help and support to lose weight and funding is put into the weight loss support but mental health disorders and Ed’s are not taken seriously or have the funding to take people seriously until it’s too late

Have you read the thread???

Snorlaxo · 10/03/2025 13:57

It is a shame that there’s no Ozempic equivalent for AN that people can administer themselves online at low cost.
WLI are not the reasons why ED are overlooked. You must be old enough to know that services that affect children and women the most are always seriously underfunded and under researched. Gynaecology is another specialism with the same fate.

WLI are rightly not available on the NHS to anyone who wants them but they provide the opportunity for massive savings on procedures and treatment associated with obesity eg cancer, heart attacks. Hospitals have to balance the books and if investing £150pm on a patient saves hundreds of thousands, even million + then it’s the logical thing to do. It doesn’t mean that ED patients should be left to die - if it frees therapists and say physios and heart specialists then that’s a good thing for ED sufferers.

Your local ED services may be cut because of the increase in NI and minimum wage. It’s sad for the people who need the services but I don’t begrudge minimum wage staff getting paid more at an increasingly expensive time.

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