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To be confused by benefits cuts to the disabled and ill?

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AllyHayHay · 06/03/2025 20:27

As luck would have it, I have not been in this position, but I do know of one disabled lady who has struggled. She was incredibly fortunate to already own her own home prior to her accident.

I am not what you'd call politically astute, but I have been reading about the proposed spring benefits cuts and wonder why people always discuss this ONLY affecting the sick and disabled.
I am also aware that there are many, many rough areas with families who have never worked, people who are struggling with addiction, prison sentences (their kids, spouse, etc) and these people never seem to be included in the Guardian articles and opinion pieces online.

Why would a system wish to make the life of a disabled person worse, yet ignore the growing issues of illiteracy, generational poverty and other issues which are going on in most urban areas just out of sight of the comfortably off?
Why not address the reasons that great swathes of people are living on benefits across the UK who are NOT disabled? I imagine this would drag up questions of why those issues persist - and no one in government wants to address that.

Since benefits claimants who are not in work of on the pension are a minority, are these cuts more of a populist tendency?

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ChilliLips · 14/03/2025 14:45

XenoBitch · 14/03/2025 14:34

The rental market is brutal out there.
It took my DP months to find somewhere.... about 25-30 people interested in each property. He works. Landlords can't say no UC claimants, but they can price them out with sky high rents and 6 month deposits needed up front.

Would it make sense to move in together? Save on housing costs?

twistyizzy · 14/03/2025 14:45

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"doing bugger all with delusions of grandeur" well apart from the years of study, numerous degrees + qualifications + sacrificing time with their children/families in order to climb the career ladder?
FFS you think the people in these roles haven't worked very hard to get where they are?

ChilliLips · 14/03/2025 14:46

SugarandSpiceandAllThingsNaice · 14/03/2025 14:31

So what! You haven’t addressed the issue that there are nowhere near enough jobs for the abled and well unemployed actively looking for work much less the sick and disabled who have been judged not fit to work by medical experts.

Anyone could be judged not fit to work if they followed procedure. It’s far from watertight.

ChilliLips · 14/03/2025 14:47

twistyizzy · 14/03/2025 14:45

"doing bugger all with delusions of grandeur" well apart from the years of study, numerous degrees + qualifications + sacrificing time with their children/families in order to climb the career ladder?
FFS you think the people in these roles haven't worked very hard to get where they are?

It’s part of the snotty, ‘I’m worth it’ attitude toward those who work. They think they can out-moral you with some very fancy footwork. They cannot.

ChilliLips · 14/03/2025 15:00

Enigma53 · 14/03/2025 11:52

The issue there @ChilliLips is that many people today, simply can’t afford to contribute to a pension. They are living hand to mouth as it is. Unaffordable rent, increasing food prices, stagnant wages, rising mortgage costs. Pension doesn’t come into the radar.

Yes I agree many people can’t make more than basic contributions due to this.

Badbadbunny · 14/03/2025 15:06

Enigma53 · 14/03/2025 12:22

@Badbadbunny Yes, people living into their 80’s with dementia, cancer and in pain! The human body isn’t designed to just keep going. Women living with horrific menopause symptoms; senior women, earning the 6 figure salary, dragging themselves to work each day on little to no sleep. If you have paid into the system, worked your arse off since 16/18/20, whatever, then by god, you deserve a break by the time you hit the fifties ( IF that is what you want and need to do). There are no prizes for struggling on, in ill health.

No one "deserves" to give up work in their 50s unless they've worked long and hard enough in relatively high paid jobs to save and invest enough to support themselves and don't need state handouts. Not sure why you start your post mentioning 80 year olds - they're long past state retirement age so irrelevant. Someone "in their 50s" will have worked (maybe) 30 or so years (maybe less if taken time off to have children) and that's simply not enough to finance 50+ years of not working (i;e; childhood and old age), even more so if some of those years were part time.

iwentjasonwaterfalls · 14/03/2025 15:20

ChilliLips · 14/03/2025 14:45

Would it make sense to move in together? Save on housing costs?

You haven't answered how you'd afford the moving costs, first month's rent and deposit with no job.

XenoBitch · 14/03/2025 15:21

I would lose my UC, so we would actually be worse off if he moved in.

ChilliLips · 14/03/2025 15:23

XenoBitch · 14/03/2025 15:21

I would lose my UC, so we would actually be worse off if he moved in.

If he’s working he can support you both, and I saw on another thread I was on you have no housing costs as your property is owned outright, so he would have more disposable cash from saving on housing. Seems like a win win to me?

bestcatlife · 14/03/2025 15:35

. I would move for work if I had to.

Sorry don't know how to quote. Almost spat my tea out.. good luck getting accepted by a landlord, especially if you haven't actually started the job yet. Some of these responses are hilarious, people clearly don't live in the real world.

XenoBitch · 14/03/2025 15:38

I would be a "cocklodger" in my own home. No thanks.

LadyKenya · 14/03/2025 15:40

bestcatlife · 14/03/2025 15:35

. I would move for work if I had to.

Sorry don't know how to quote. Almost spat my tea out.. good luck getting accepted by a landlord, especially if you haven't actually started the job yet. Some of these responses are hilarious, people clearly don't live in the real world.

Yes, many ridiculous suggestions, that quite frankly should be ignored!

ChilliLips · 14/03/2025 15:44

XenoBitch · 14/03/2025 15:38

I would be a "cocklodger" in my own home. No thanks.

And that’s a good excuse to have the public fund you for decades? Because you don’t like the notion of somebody who loves and cares about you supporting you (with the benefit of free accommodation in return) rather than the state? If life on benefits was hell, I’m sure living with my partner and having the stability of their employment would be a much better option.

XenoBitch · 14/03/2025 15:48

ChilliLips · 14/03/2025 15:44

And that’s a good excuse to have the public fund you for decades? Because you don’t like the notion of somebody who loves and cares about you supporting you (with the benefit of free accommodation in return) rather than the state? If life on benefits was hell, I’m sure living with my partner and having the stability of their employment would be a much better option.

I'll bite.
It is FAR more complicated that just moving him in, and I am not going to go into here. But it is not an option, so please erase it from your head. Thanks.

ChilliLips · 14/03/2025 15:51

XenoBitch · 14/03/2025 15:48

I'll bite.
It is FAR more complicated that just moving him in, and I am not going to go into here. But it is not an option, so please erase it from your head. Thanks.

Ok!

Miley1967 · 14/03/2025 15:52

XenoBitch · 14/03/2025 13:56

It is not accurate to say that people on LCWRA do not work
The L in LCWRA means limited. Some people on LCWRA do work. It is encouraged, and there is a work allowance, the amount of which is based on if you claim the housing element or not. It is the UC version of permitted hours with ESA.
However, some people in this group fear that trying out work with a little PT job, would mean they are then reassessed and made to get a full time job, which will then make them more poorly and not working at all again.

I do think more people would test the waters with a bit of work if there was not a threat of their money being taken away.

There is not the threat of money being taken away , in fact it's very generous if people want to try to do some work. they don't re-assess people just because they try some work, and as you say there is the work allowance meaning they start earning and if only working a few hours a week there would be absolutely no deduction on their UC. I honestly can't understand why people think they will be worse off by trying a bit of work, unless the system is just not being expalined properly to them ?

iwentjasonwaterfalls · 14/03/2025 15:59

iwentjasonwaterfalls · 14/03/2025 15:20

You haven't answered how you'd afford the moving costs, first month's rent and deposit with no job.

Bump 🙂

Poppybob · 14/03/2025 16:07

The simple reason is that the UK can't afford to maintain the current spending on benefits.
It's set to rise too.... especially at current rate.
UK will literally turn into a country where nearly everyone is claiming benefits because the system allows them to.
People not working is bad for trillions of reasons for a country's economy...
Depending on your disability/ needs there are some jobs that disabled people can do
It doesn't set a good example for children/future adults to basically be on benefits majority of your life.
Plus the old trope of why should people busting their guts working/paying children ..... basically not entitled to much because they are working....fund this?!?

TheWorminLabyrinth · 14/03/2025 16:20

Miley1967 · 14/03/2025 15:52

There is not the threat of money being taken away , in fact it's very generous if people want to try to do some work. they don't re-assess people just because they try some work, and as you say there is the work allowance meaning they start earning and if only working a few hours a week there would be absolutely no deduction on their UC. I honestly can't understand why people think they will be worse off by trying a bit of work, unless the system is just not being expalined properly to them ?

There is absolutely a threat of money being taken away. You know this.

Many disabled people simply cannot "try a bit of work", and they stand to lose HUNDREDS of pounds.

XenoBitch · 14/03/2025 16:30

TheWorminLabyrinth · 14/03/2025 16:20

There is absolutely a threat of money being taken away. You know this.

Many disabled people simply cannot "try a bit of work", and they stand to lose HUNDREDS of pounds.

Exactly. Starting a job is a change of circumstances, and can trigger a re-assessment. I was told this by my own work coach.

Miley1967 · 14/03/2025 16:33

XenoBitch · 14/03/2025 16:30

Exactly. Starting a job is a change of circumstances, and can trigger a re-assessment. I was told this by my own work coach.

They do not re-assess straight away often not for ages as they are so far behind with re-assessments. And people on ESA can do permitted work also meaning they can keep their ESA and do some work earning up to a certain amount each week without being worse off or losing benefits. Permitted work has always been a thing. And you said yourself that LCWRA means being limited in what work you can do not completely unable to do any work so perfectly feasible that they allow people to work part time hours and not be penalized.

XenoBitch · 14/03/2025 16:35

Miley1967 · 14/03/2025 16:33

They do not re-assess straight away often not for ages as they are so far behind with re-assessments. And people on ESA can do permitted work also meaning they can keep their ESA and do some work earning up to a certain amount each week without being worse off or losing benefits. Permitted work has always been a thing. And you said yourself that LCWRA means being limited in what work you can do not completely unable to do any work so perfectly feasible that they allow people to work part time hours and not be penalized.

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That is ESA. There is no permitted work with UC. It is just based on earnings and the work allowance.
But I can't blame anyone for not trying because they stand to lose too much. I know people who are too scared to even volunteer as they think they will lose money.

ChilliLips · 14/03/2025 17:15

Being discussed on Tom Swarbrick

Nadiaelgato · 14/03/2025 17:31

MaggieThatcher134 · 14/03/2025 14:15

Makes me wonder how on earth so many people are disabled to the point that they cannot work.

I wonder that too. A brain malfunction during birth in my case. Totally unlucky and you couldn't have prevented it. Luckily, while it had a severe impact on my brain, I didn't have an empathy bypass like you.

ChilliLips · 14/03/2025 17:48

Nadiaelgato · 14/03/2025 17:31

I wonder that too. A brain malfunction during birth in my case. Totally unlucky and you couldn't have prevented it. Luckily, while it had a severe impact on my brain, I didn't have an empathy bypass like you.

Unfair comment.

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