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Our children should not be able to get advice on DIY Transgender HRT from Reddit. Like this 13 year old.

60 replies

ThePeppyMoose · 06/03/2025 18:39

https://www.reddit.com/r/transgenderUK/comments/1j50v5p/should_i_stop_hrt/

This is just an example. How is this legal?

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MidnightPatrol · 06/03/2025 18:45

Just part of a very long list of reasons why children should not have unfettered access to the internet.

I have recently been wondering if Reddit will ever decide it needs to re-admit all the women it banned for wrongspeak, given most of that ‘wrongspeak’ is now deemed actually fine and probably fair (eg women’s sports).

Probably not.

ThePeppyMoose · 06/03/2025 20:00

One day /gendercritical will be back…

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TheSandgroper · 07/03/2025 09:57

Trump said on his first day that gender type surgeries were banned in hospitals receiving federal funding. The next day, the NYT reported that two U12’s had had their mastectomies cancelled. UNDER 12’s. And there were more going up the ages.

TheSandgroper · 07/03/2025 10:02

Yesterday or today, the Daily Mail has a long story on two Spanish endocrinologists who prescribe cross sex hormones for British people and they have no interest in the age of their buyers.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 07/03/2025 10:39

Reddit is awful.

TheSandgroper · 07/03/2025 10:46

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TheSandgroper · 07/03/2025 10:46

Sorry, wrong thread. I shall report myself.

Bigham · 07/03/2025 10:48

Ereshkigalangcleg · 07/03/2025 10:39

Reddit is awful.

That sub may be awful. You’re making a massive overgeneralisation.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 07/03/2025 10:55

I'm not, I'm well aware what Reddit is like.

ThePeppyMoose · 07/03/2025 11:49

Bigham · 07/03/2025 10:48

That sub may be awful. You’re making a massive overgeneralisation.

Reddit really is terrible.

Reddit presents itself as a free and open forum for discussion, but in reality, it operates like a digital echo chamber where dissent is actively punished. The upvote and downvote system, which is supposed to highlight valuable contributions and suppress irrelevant content, instead enforces rigid groupthink. If you express an opinion that goes against the prevailing sentiment of a subreddit, you won’t be engaged with thoughtfully—you’ll be downvoted into oblivion, your comment hidden, and your voice effectively erased from the conversation. Instead of fostering debate, Reddit encourages ideological conformity, where only the most popular opinions are seen and reinforced.

This mechanism creates an environment where people are incentivized to say what they think will be rewarded rather than what they actually believe. Nuance disappears, and unpopular but important perspectives are silenced. Even factual, well-argued points that challenge a subreddit’s dominant narrative can get buried simply because they don’t align with the hive mind. There’s no real discussion, only an endless cycle of validation for whatever opinion is most in vogue. This dynamic is particularly noticeable in political and social discussions, where any deviation from the accepted stance can lead to not just downvotes but outright hostility, bans, and ostracization.

Worse still, the site’s algorithm amplifies this effect by ensuring that the most upvoted content gets the most visibility, while anything downvoted is buried and effectively removed from view. This leads to a feedback loop where the same ideas are endlessly recycled, and users who challenge them are discouraged from participating at all. It’s a system that rewards conformity and punishes independent thought, making Reddit less of a discussion platform and more of an ideological enforcement tool where only approved opinions survive.

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Ereshkigalangcleg · 07/03/2025 11:56

What @ThePeppyMoose said.

DivorcedMumOfAdults · 07/03/2025 11:59

The post has now been removed.
I think the big question is should we require age verification for all social media platforms as has been proposed in Australia

INeedAPensieve · 07/03/2025 11:59

Excellent summary of what is wrong with Reddit @ThePeppyMoose . I'm going to forward this to my DH who will not listen to me when I say how bad it is and why it is bad.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 07/03/2025 12:03

The post has now been removed.

I've seen loads of them before. Reddit sometimes removes.

Jabtastic · 07/03/2025 12:06

I agree with you on the group think thing on Reddit. I find some subs very valuable but I hate the endless virtue signalling on it. Ironically disability subs are some of the worst!

Maray1967 · 07/03/2025 12:09

TheSandgroper · 07/03/2025 09:57

Trump said on his first day that gender type surgeries were banned in hospitals receiving federal funding. The next day, the NYT reported that two U12’s had had their mastectomies cancelled. UNDER 12’s. And there were more going up the ages.

This is the only issue on which I agree with Trump.

The Democrat party needs to understand how horrified many (most?) people are that children have been having healthy body parts removed.

TheSandgroper · 07/03/2025 12:24

I have two elections coming up - one tomorrow. I have had to decide that I am a single issue voter these days.

Go Sall Grover and all power to her pen.

Glitterknickerbockers · 07/03/2025 16:59

I'm surprised this thread is so quiet, is Mumsnet finally getting bored of posting the same thing over and over again in the gender wars?

ThePeppyMoose · 07/03/2025 17:09

Glitterknickerbockers · 07/03/2025 16:59

I'm surprised this thread is so quiet, is Mumsnet finally getting bored of posting the same thing over and over again in the gender wars?

More likely because the Reddit thread got deleted

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petermaddog · 07/03/2025 17:51

no one under 18 should be on reddit

ThePeppyMoose · 07/03/2025 20:21

petermaddog · 07/03/2025 17:51

no one under 18 should be on reddit

And yet…..

there are teenagers on that sub Reddit asking about hysterectomies and DIY hormone therapy. Under 16 let alone 18.

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Glitterknickerbockers · 07/03/2025 21:21

ThePeppyMoose · 07/03/2025 17:09

More likely because the Reddit thread got deleted

I don't think so. Any of these threads by page 2 are never about the original post anymore and just devolve into people shouting ADULT HUMAN FEMALE.

The Reddit post being deleted wouldn't stop the usuals turning up and having a 10 page rant about transgender children and puberty blockers, unless they have finally got bored of having the same conversation over and over again. I'm surprised it took this long for them to get bored tbh.

Mumoftwinsandasingleton · 07/03/2025 21:22

TheSandgroper · 07/03/2025 09:57

Trump said on his first day that gender type surgeries were banned in hospitals receiving federal funding. The next day, the NYT reported that two U12’s had had their mastectomies cancelled. UNDER 12’s. And there were more going up the ages.

That's insane!!!! So glad he's back in power

ThePeppyMoose · 07/03/2025 21:49

Glitterknickerbockers · 07/03/2025 21:21

I don't think so. Any of these threads by page 2 are never about the original post anymore and just devolve into people shouting ADULT HUMAN FEMALE.

The Reddit post being deleted wouldn't stop the usuals turning up and having a 10 page rant about transgender children and puberty blockers, unless they have finally got bored of having the same conversation over and over again. I'm surprised it took this long for them to get bored tbh.

I’m not bored of protecting women and children.

sore of surprised you are.

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WiddlinDiddlin · 07/03/2025 21:52

The internet is not a baby sitter, child minder or parent.

It is up to parents to raise their children and manage what they access, not the internet, not other adults.