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Why have HR asked me this and can I say no?

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Hrrrrhr · 03/03/2025 07:35

I started some medication recently. A side effect is drowsiness and on those occasions not driving. It’s supposed to settle over 8 weeks. I’ve therefore asked my employer whether I can work from home during this time. My job can completely be done from home and often is. I’ve been there a long time. They’re asking me if they can contact my gp and ask my gp a number of questions instead of going through occupational health as occupational health can take much longer (ie beyond the time I’m asking for to have the adjustment anyway). I’m not comfortable having direct questions sent to my gp as I’ve never heard of this before. I would prefer occupational health. Can anyone explain my rights? Thank you

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IzzyHandsIsMySpiritAnimal · 05/03/2025 20:41

Doggymummar · 03/03/2025 07:53

It's perfectly normal and reasonable for them to check, for all re the reasons mentioned. It seems overkill for you to want to work from home when you might feel drowsy, you won't know until you wake up so it will be short notice, which may be disruptive to the work place.

OP has already said she frequently works from home.

I don't see the problem. If the job can be done from home it doesn't matter where it's being done, as long as it's being done. If there are meetings they can be done via chat/zoom/phone.

oblada · 05/03/2025 20:46

IDontHateRainbows · 03/03/2025 07:49

HR bod here. Perfectly normal! Occupational health where I last work took months to turn a referral round. Something relatively simple, we'd go to the GP.
Yes you can say no, but that's the same as refusing to go to Occupational health. You'll look obstinate, if you want them to accommodate your request you're better to go along with the process.

You need better OH🤣 the provider we use for most of our clients turns it around in 24 hours. Much quicker than a GP referral. And much more useful in practice.
As for the costs - some on the posters on this thread need to look around. Ours is barely more expensive than a basic GP report...

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