To ask the worst thing you've ever done in anger?

[Dishwater123]

Getting this off my chest and asking what the worst thing you've ever done in the faint hope of feeling better even if I don't deserve it.

When I had just left for uni, many years ago, I was devastated to receive several insulting text messages suggesting my then boyfriend was cheating on me and they also layed into my appearence and personality. I was so very hurt that when I found out who it was I "hacked" (read as guessed) the password of the culprits email, found several VERY explicit sexting emails from not only my boyfriend but a few others...in my (admittedly misplaced) rage, forwarded all of the emails to her family and friends, including her dad and gran. I still feel super awful about it to this day and can see EVERYTHING that was toxic and wrong with it.

What's the worst thing you've done in anger? For the record I KNOW I was unreasonable posting in the hope of hearing about your misguided rage.

A few things with my horrible cheating, violent ex. I put his phone in a bucket of water after discovering yet another set of messages from a woman he was shagging, I also sent a video of him receiving a BJ from a girl I found out he had been cheating with.

Not me, but a friend of mine had an affair and his wife found out and put every one of his electronics in a bath full of water.

I'm quite proud of mine..

Ex husband had, it turned out, more than 50 affairs. Most of them came out after we split.

Anyway.. found out about the last affair and kicked him out. Ended up paying for his rental house for a year up front to be rid of him and by coincidence the house was a few doors down from my close friend, mainly because she too was divorcing and it was a new build all rental estate.

Anyway he swore blind he wasn't still seeing this woman and he wanted to make it work. There was no chance of that but I was so sick of the lies.

One night about 7 weeks after he moved out when he "definitely wasnt" having anything to do with this affair partner woman, I had been on a night out to the theatre and dropped friend home around midnight (kids at grandparents). As we drove past his house, other woman's car is on the drive. So clearly he's still lying.

At this time, mostly for financial reasons, we still retained one amazon prime account so all his amazon echos and mine were on the same account we both had access to.

We were also due to take the kids to the panto together that afternoon.

So I set reminders on his amazon echos to go off at 6am at top volume.

Bing bong "I'm reminding you.. don't forget to send your whore home in time to go to the panto with your kids".

100 percent do not regret.

What?! Don’t be so judgemental.

Most children are in foster care because they have been neglected and abused. They are traumatised and struggled to trust in adults. They often test relationships because they don’t trust in them. They are often left from their early experiences as feeling not good enough and have often learned problematic behaviour from the adults that should have loved, protected and cared for them.

What the foster carer did here was wrong. Utterly wrong. it was probably re traumatising and made things far worse.

To be honest, I’m glad the OP did that.

Put toilet water in someone’s water bottle… after months and months of bullying… they were fine …

A BF I was utterly besotted with shagged my friend. Said it was a one-off, he was pissed, yada yada... then did it again, same old excuses, but like a naive, lovesick twat I believed him.

One morning I had to go to work stupidly early, and took a detour to avoid a massive traffic jam. Went past her flat and saw his car outside, a bit before 6am, which was far too early for it to be a social call.

I felt sick, and pulled over, all tearful but also angry. I got angrier and angrier. Then I remembered that I had a bottle of brake fluid in the boot of my car ...... and that I'd picked up some paintbrushes on the way home from work, but not taken them indoors.

I painted the word "CUNT", in brake fluid, on the boot of his beloved Audi 100S coupe in letters approx 9" high.

It didn't achieve anything. They eventually married and are still together now, some 47 years later, but it made me feel better at the time.

I feel bad about the car though. The early 70s Audi coupe is now a classic car, and a thing of beauty.

I once ran through a field of wheat.

I put a brick through a cheaters van window. Felt great actually haha

She deserved it.

I threw a glass at my ex which luckily missed but it did smash and became embedded in the kitchen unit door!! Divorce soon followed and have never felt that level of anger in the subsequent 30 years 👍👍

Would you say that if someone posted your photo and number. Revenge porn is horrible and this is the same thing

When divorcing my first husband who was being an arse as was his then bunny boiler girlfriend i had need to use the loo when collecting my son one day. Unfortunately the temptation to dip both of their toothbrushes into the loo was too much to resist. I still feel bad about it now especially as he has since apologised for his behaviour whilst with said bunny boiler.

Love it, hope you scrubbed under the rim. I wiped myself on an ex’s facecloth after peeing haha

SH not long ago😢

Onto the couch! Under a bus!? Out of bed? Off a cliff? Cmon, context is everything. What happened?

When we'd first moved into our house we had an old oven with a glass door. During an argument I slammed it too hard and it shattered all over the kitchen.

some of these are hilarious 😂

I lived with a boyfriend at uni and my grandfather who I was very close with got sick and died during my mid year exams (very intense and competitive course and most important year grades wise). I just packed up and drove back to my dads in a hurry to see my grandfather in hospital and stay until he passed away and then help my dad with funeral arrangements. I then drove back home to re pack and collect books (I still had to study because the uni wouldn’t reschedule some of my exams) and when I got back he was at work and I found our wet stinking washing still sitting in the washing machine since a week ago that he hadn’t bothered to hang out or do anything around the house. I absolutely lost it, threw the washing on to his side of the bed, took the game out of his PlayStation, snapped it, chucked it on top of the washing and left until after he’d come home from work.

We broke up not long after that.

I think you were incredibly restrained! I would have been distraught. That’s such a self centred thing for her to do.

I think I got all my anger out in my teens as I can't think of anything I've done in anger as an adult, aside from swearing and slamming doors etc.

When I was 17 I had a friend come visit and I had a huge crush on her. She was 18 and living with her boyfriend at the time. She'd brought alcohol with her and after drinking pretty much all of it, we ended up sharing a kiss and then going to bed together.

The next day she was very indifferent about it all, told me it meant nothing and that it was silly drunkeness.
I was hurt, angry, and heartbroken - and ripped up her return train ticket back home.

Obviously she found out, we ended up getting into a massive argument and didn't speak after that day.
I did contact her a few weeks later to apologise but she didn't want to hear it. Not surprisingly!

Revenge against cheating ex - left me for OW; he had left his precious record collection in the loft which I sold at a car boot sale and denied all knowledge of when he came back to get his stuff..............

When my Dad pissed me off/screamed at me as an older child/teen, I’d spit in his coffee or clean under the rim of the loo with his toothbrush! We have a great relationship now and he never got unwell so that’s a relief!

my BFF/frenemy/boynextdoor deliberately broke my brand new Evel Knevel ( we were 8) that I got for Xmas by stomping on it because he couldn’t work it properly then tried to escape on his bike .As he rode off I threw a pogo stick through his back wheel and he crashed and busted his nose and his new bike.
40 years later there’s still a family debate about whether it was too much…

Obvs I say no, but Incan still remember the seething anger - he’s lucky I didn’t kill him!
I’m godparent to his kid now…

Haha. Under a bus - what a drip feed! No, I have no idea what we were arguing about. We were in the bathroom. I think he was cleaning the bath and sitting on the edge of it. And during the argument I shoved his shoulders. He was incredibly upset with me!

Lol, yea, that's sort of the point of the thread.