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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To give up working at 52?

573 replies

caniquitwork · 16/02/2025 19:53

I am a teacher, but I've had enough.
I have a small teacher's pension- small because only paid in 15 years and even then mostly only part time. Have some other private pensions which will eventually pay out about £1000 a month, but not till I'm 60. Would not touch teacher's pension until then either.
So here's the aibu part - I have a house I own outright so no mortgage, but to live on until 60 I have about £250000 I inherited. Would obviously invest but don't think interest would be enough to live on, so would also just withdraw from the pot iyswim.
Would that work? Would it be selfish- should I keep this money safe for my children?
No dh in the picture. Keep
going round in circles. Wouldn't mind working in another job to supplement but worried if I could even find anything.

OP posts:
tommyhoundmum · 17/02/2025 18:00

caniquitwork · 16/02/2025 19:58

I'm 52

I did it at 56 after 40 years of work. I've never looked back.

Just keep your outgoings to a minimum. You can always get a part time job if you think it's necessary or let a room.

rookiemere · 17/02/2025 18:03

Leedsfan247 · 17/02/2025 17:47

The inheritance alone gives you £31k pa until you are 60 - that’s without any interest, it’s a no brainier

Great for ages 52-60, but doesn't leave anything apart from some interest and a very small pension from age 60-67.

Weald56 · 17/02/2025 18:05

I retired at 56 (nearly 57) from being a teacher; I had 32 years service and took the pension at 57, obviously losing a fair bit....But it was the best thing I've ever done. (And I was also mostly a grammar school teacher, but getting more & more frustrated - at least I left whilst still enjoying my job - most days!) I thought I might need to find some part-time work, but nearly 12 years on I haven't found I needed to.

So go for it!!

Leedsfan247 · 17/02/2025 18:06

Of course it does there will be considerable interest plus the teachers pension from aged 60 as previously stated?

Fencehedge · 17/02/2025 18:12

You will easily be able to find work in local authority admissions, or as an examinations officer for a college, or even admin for adult education. You won't need to deplete your savings. Or ad-hoc invigilating as a top up (that's often zero hours) and could be a good gateway entry role to give you more confidence away from teaching

Single50something · 17/02/2025 18:23

I def would if I could. If you can make the numbers work do it:)

Emonade · 17/02/2025 18:27

caniquitwork · 16/02/2025 19:53

I am a teacher, but I've had enough.
I have a small teacher's pension- small because only paid in 15 years and even then mostly only part time. Have some other private pensions which will eventually pay out about £1000 a month, but not till I'm 60. Would not touch teacher's pension until then either.
So here's the aibu part - I have a house I own outright so no mortgage, but to live on until 60 I have about £250000 I inherited. Would obviously invest but don't think interest would be enough to live on, so would also just withdraw from the pot iyswim.
Would that work? Would it be selfish- should I keep this money safe for my children?
No dh in the picture. Keep
going round in circles. Wouldn't mind working in another job to supplement but worried if I could even find anything.

Do it!! Life’s too short

XVGN · 17/02/2025 18:36

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RedPlums · 17/02/2025 18:38

ozyin · 17/02/2025 08:58

A lot of people on here will suggest just giving up work altogether, or jobs related to teaching, like TA, tutoring, but I left teaching at the age of 50, and got a full-time job in tech. You can completely change career at your age. I also love driving, so did consider delivery driver/lorry driver type jobs. I knew I absolutely, categorically did not want to do anything remotely related to teaching. I love working, it gives me a purpose, so health permitting, I can see myself working into my 70s, but everyone is different.

I would quit teaching, give yourself 6 months - 1 year of not working, and see where life takes you. You may love it, in which case downsize, cut back whatever, so you never need to work again, or you may get really bored, in which case start volunteering or looking at jobs available in your area (any jobs - be completely open-minded), and see what takes your fancy - doesn't matter if it's minimum wage. If you're good, it'll soon go up anyway, if that's what you want.

@ozyin did you have to retrain?

fingerbobz · 17/02/2025 18:43

Absolutely not

Career change? Yes! Do it

You can't have been working more than 30 years

You're going to live potentially 30-40 years more

. Retirement is not meant to be longer than your career

A change is as good as a rest

Mumoftwoandcats · 17/02/2025 18:47

Go! Enjoy some time to yourself while you look for some new job that you’d enjoy doing. I presume you’re kids would inherit your house, so they’ll not be left with nothing, life’s too short, go enjoy it.

fingerbobz · 17/02/2025 18:47

Isn't retirement something you do for 10-20 years before uou die?

It's not meant to drag for 30 years

PinkSparklyPussyCat · 17/02/2025 18:48

fingerbobz · 17/02/2025 18:43

Absolutely not

Career change? Yes! Do it

You can't have been working more than 30 years

You're going to live potentially 30-40 years more

. Retirement is not meant to be longer than your career

A change is as good as a rest

Why shouldn't you be retired longer than your career if you can afford it? I'm 49 and not working at the moment and believe me, if I could afford not to work again there's no way I would!

CWigtownshire · 17/02/2025 19:00

Go for it! I did at 54 and haven't regretted it yet - now aged 60. Very little money but had enough to pay my way. Was stressed out every day at work and feel like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders.

Shessweetbutapsycho · 17/02/2025 19:17

pearbottomjeans · 16/02/2025 19:57

How far away is 60? Depends if you’re 30 or 55.

Not selfish though. You only live once, and for a very very short time.

Clue’s in the title

Mirabai · 17/02/2025 19:28

Terrible idea. Nowhere near enough money to retire.

In any case, state pension age may raise to 71 to everyone born after May 1970.

80smonster · 17/02/2025 19:56

Couldn’t you buy a flat to rent out with the 250k, so invest the cash into something that creates a passive income. Then continue to teach but as a private tutor. My understanding is any money you take cash in hand - never happened 😂

JustMeAndTheFish · 17/02/2025 20:15

Go for it OP. I realised a couple of years ago at 61 that my time was more valuable than a few extra pounds and reduced to working two days a week.
I had costed it out and with savings could afford to live reasonably well until my state pension hit. I have private pensions but haven’t taken anything from them yet.
I was lucky I guess that a year later I unexpectedly inherited 50% of a large house that was subsequently let so I have rental income too. But I was very happy to survive on my savings.

EmeraldRoulette · 17/02/2025 20:16

I wish I'd replied first and told you to post on Money Matters. This thread appears to have gone entirely mad.

I'm not going to try and address the mad posts, but I will add to those saying DON'T buy a BTL. The current legislation is problematic and they're going to tighten it up.

StrikeAlways · 17/02/2025 20:22

pearbottomjeans · 16/02/2025 19:57

How far away is 60? Depends if you’re 30 or 55.

Not selfish though. You only live once, and for a very very short time.

The title of the thread says 52

Mirabai · 17/02/2025 20:23

80smonster · 17/02/2025 19:56

Couldn’t you buy a flat to rent out with the 250k, so invest the cash into something that creates a passive income. Then continue to teach but as a private tutor. My understanding is any money you take cash in hand - never happened 😂

Bad idea right now. But 250k invested in a low risk portfolio will yield around 7500 pa after fees and taxes.

LushLemonTart · 17/02/2025 20:25

Definitely. Seen too many die in their 50s. Leave and live.

Girasole02 · 17/02/2025 20:25

I have under similar circumstances. Got a job in a nice school doing invigilation. Lots of travel and hobbies. No regrets whatsoever. Who wants to be the richest in the care home?

80smonster · 17/02/2025 20:28

Mirabai · 17/02/2025 20:23

Bad idea right now. But 250k invested in a low risk portfolio will yield around 7500 pa after fees and taxes.

Thank you for the tip. I’ll definitely be bearing that in mind.

Yoonimum · 17/02/2025 20:29

You need to protect your lump sum as SP and Occ Pension will not be enough to maintain the lifestyle you likely have whilst currently working. But life is too short to stay in a job you are not enjoying. I believe you are underconfident and will have far more transferable skills than you realise. Retire and work PT; start with low paid work if absolutely needed (retail, hospitality) - just don't stay out of work for more than 3-4 months recovery time after leaving teaching. You should be able to finish in the Summer, have a holiday and start with a temporary Christmas job if nothing else but you can progress from there.