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To give up working at 52?

573 replies

caniquitwork · 16/02/2025 19:53

I am a teacher, but I've had enough.
I have a small teacher's pension- small because only paid in 15 years and even then mostly only part time. Have some other private pensions which will eventually pay out about £1000 a month, but not till I'm 60. Would not touch teacher's pension until then either.
So here's the aibu part - I have a house I own outright so no mortgage, but to live on until 60 I have about £250000 I inherited. Would obviously invest but don't think interest would be enough to live on, so would also just withdraw from the pot iyswim.
Would that work? Would it be selfish- should I keep this money safe for my children?
No dh in the picture. Keep
going round in circles. Wouldn't mind working in another job to supplement but worried if I could even find anything.

OP posts:
XVGN · 17/02/2025 14:18

VivaVictoria · 17/02/2025 14:11

You're incredibly rude to be honest.

It' s possible to have another opinion without being unpleasant.

The figures you quote don't work for us- we're not stupid. And it's high risk.

You do you, as they say.

Edited

I wasn't having a go at you - but the very poor advice that your IFA seems to be giving.

I probably couldn't have retired early if I trusted them that I needed to build up such a pension fund. I would have wasted many years of unnecessary work and probably ended up with far too much money outlasting me on my death.

Get an IFA if you feel you need one or would benefit from one, but if you educate yourself about finances then you may save yourself a lot of error.

BettyBardMacDonald · 17/02/2025 14:22

You could live another 40 years, OP. It seems imprudent to give up a good income and burn through your small inheritance at such a young age.

MikeRafone · 17/02/2025 14:26

Toulousetoolose · 17/02/2025 11:30

making a total of £1470.5 a month to live on mortgage free

but what happens when the boiler needs replacing and costs £5k - that’s nearly 4 months ‘salary’ - where does that money come from?

or money because the roof needs repairing, if she needs new glasses, or the car breaks down, or she just wants to go on holiday! @MikeRafone its insane to not think of these things and confidently assert living off of £1470 is fine.

Edited

Yet thats the national average wage, if you take into account rent or mortgage costing £1000

If I started a thread stating I didn't think I could live on £32k a year as a single person with rent of £1000 a month - people would come out in their droves to say its fine as id have £1470 left over for the bills, savings and food

friendlycat · 17/02/2025 14:31

XVGN · 17/02/2025 13:18

Your "brilliant" IFA needs some serious education!

I was thinking the same thing

caniquitwork · 17/02/2025 14:39

I am all confused now 😂
But I liked the bit about separating the pot and leaving some untouched etc.

I wouldn't mind working in an education environment, just sick of teaching a subject that very few people care about and also sick of the pressure that comes with having a TLR

OP posts:
VivaVictoria · 17/02/2025 14:42

XVGN · 17/02/2025 14:18

I wasn't having a go at you - but the very poor advice that your IFA seems to be giving.

I probably couldn't have retired early if I trusted them that I needed to build up such a pension fund. I would have wasted many years of unnecessary work and probably ended up with far too much money outlasting me on my death.

Get an IFA if you feel you need one or would benefit from one, but if you educate yourself about finances then you may save yourself a lot of error.

It's not poor advice.

You seem to be the odd one out here.

The only friends I know who have cashed in their final salary pensions had 4 or 5 x your money and are drawing down from its investment (managed for them.)

I don't know anyone with £500K who's done what you have- and they've had advice too.

You're entitled to your opinion and experiences but you're not an expert nor do you know our full circumstances.

VivaVictoria · 17/02/2025 14:50

https://frazerjames.co.uk/1m-pension-income-retirement-2/

OP and others- this is worth looking at.

The drawdown value of £1m pot is around £40Kpa.

Bjorkdidit · 17/02/2025 14:55

But that would mean that the £1M pot is left untouched, and will likely grow, however long a person lives. Totally unnecessary unless that's actually what you want.

Spend some time listening to Pete Matthew's Meaningful Money podcast. He advocates 'dying with nothing'. An IFA and financial planner will give advice on a variety of situations such as making the OPs £250k provide her an income over the next 10-15 years, rather than make her DC millionaires, at the expense of her health, which is what you're suggesting she needs to do.

rainbowunicorn · 17/02/2025 15:10

VivaVictoria · 17/02/2025 08:10

That's around a 4 % interest rate. That's about the highest around ATM and mainly for ISAs. Banks etc are more like 2%.

And she'd lose 20% of tax on it- kicks in with low earners once interest is over £5K.

Agree with the Waitrose job- they get a good discount on food and JL shops!

Investing is not the same as cash savings account though. You would be daft to have that amount of money sat in cash savings. Investing cam easily bring returns of 8 to 10%

DevonMum123 · 17/02/2025 15:11

Depending on area you live in, but in our area you could buy 2-3 bed house for 250k a rent it out for cca £1300 a months. Better than any interest you would get. Plus properties will grow in value so at 60 you could sell it likely for 300k the way it's been going in our area.

rainbowunicorn · 17/02/2025 15:13

anon2423 · 17/02/2025 07:56

Okay what if the national retirement age does reach 71 as some commentators are saying - you’d have 18 years to get through before your state pension kicks in. You’d have £1,000 a month to cover absolutely everything, as you’re planning to spend your £250k over the next 7 years - then what? Equity release schemes? £250k isn’t enough in this situation- also what happens if we have a huge rise in inflation? Saving account interest rates never cover the price rises on the actual shelves. You need to do the sums properly and not “I could probably do a weekly shop for £30” type sums - actually create a spreadsheet and track it and average it over a few months - then build in inflation of up to x percent per year - can you get to 71 on that?

Age 71 for SP is not going to happen for OP. She will be max 68 due to her age now. It is silly to suggest otherwise and try to use that as part of the argument. Any changes to SP age have a huge lead in time. Even going up to age 68 may not happen before OP gets to that age.

bullrushes · 17/02/2025 15:14

ColourByNumbers88 · 17/02/2025 13:03

@cheezncrackers the standard life link is not working for me but 31k equates to 2600 a month, which is more than I currently take home after tax!

I read an aviva blog that stated 1700 a month was a target for a comfortable retirement. No idea who to believe.

You've not taken tax into account. It's £2600 pre tax.

bullrushes · 17/02/2025 15:17

rainbowunicorn · 17/02/2025 15:13

Age 71 for SP is not going to happen for OP. She will be max 68 due to her age now. It is silly to suggest otherwise and try to use that as part of the argument. Any changes to SP age have a huge lead in time. Even going up to age 68 may not happen before OP gets to that age.

This isn't correct. The OP is 52. There is a ten year notice period for changes to state pension age and so she its still very firmly in the group of people who could be affected by a further increase to 71 (or another age)

rainbowunicorn · 17/02/2025 15:20

VivaVictoria · 17/02/2025 08:10

That's around a 4 % interest rate. That's about the highest around ATM and mainly for ISAs. Banks etc are more like 2%.

And she'd lose 20% of tax on it- kicks in with low earners once interest is over £5K.

Agree with the Waitrose job- they get a good discount on food and JL shops!

Again, if her only income is from savings or investments then she would pay no tax until she had used up her personal allowance, starter rate savings allowance and savings allowance so a total of £18670.00 per year before a penny of income tax is paid.

rainbowunicorn · 17/02/2025 15:26

VivaVictoria · 17/02/2025 08:56

That doesn't sound right if you've worked mainly part time.

Edited

The way the teachers pension accrued means that it is probably correct. When you take into account increases every year 15 years even part time as a teacher could easily attain £7000 a year.

Ineffable23 · 17/02/2025 15:42

caniquitwork · 17/02/2025 11:22

This thread has been such an eye opener, I've gone from feeling incredibly lucky and privileged and dare I say well
off to feeling very financially insecure 🙈

You definitely are well off and privileged! What you might not be is well enough off to completely give up work at 52 and have no other source of income.

You're still in a vastly, vastly more secure position than the majority of the country.

It's also really worth analysing what you actually spend at the moment. I could live frugally on about 12k per year after tax, and very comfortably on 24k per year after tax. In fact that's about what I spend after tax currently and that pays for a cleaner, a gardener in the summer, an expensive gym membership and 4 or so holidays.

So actually, if you have low living costs and plenty of time, you may find you could live quite comfortably on the £1500 per month that others have been saying would be too painful.

Would it be worth trying out a frugal few months and seeing how it goes? There might be things you miss and things you don't.

Between that, a bit of part time work and drawing down just 4% of the 250k (put somewhere sensible like index funds or bonds depending how risk averse you are) you should have plenty to totally change your lifestyle, which is a massive achievement, even if it isn't full retirement. If you think that you've been working full time since the age of (say) 21, and you're now 52. That's only 31 years. Your life expectancy as a woman of 52 is 87 years, with a 25% chance you make it to 95. That's another 35 years - longer than you've worked! It's always gonna be tough to support a retirement longer than your whole career. It would be the same length as your career even if you had started full time work at 16.

rainbowunicorn · 17/02/2025 15:44

bullrushes · 17/02/2025 15:17

This isn't correct. The OP is 52. There is a ten year notice period for changes to state pension age and so she its still very firmly in the group of people who could be affected by a further increase to 71 (or another age)

Considering the rise to 68 wont affect anyone born before 1978 it is extremely unlikely that OP will be affected. At the mist it will be 67 years and a few months depending on actual birth date.
This is after taking into account that the changes have been brought forward. She is not going to very firmly in the age 71 group. She will be 67 and some months.

Manthide · 17/02/2025 16:10

bullrushes · 17/02/2025 15:17

This isn't correct. The OP is 52. There is a ten year notice period for changes to state pension age and so she its still very firmly in the group of people who could be affected by a further increase to 71 (or another age)

I've got 7 and a half years to go until I can retire at 67 - I would be beyond devastated if they changed my retirement age before then. I have a manual labouring job at minimum wage and on a zero hours contract.

HamptonPlace · 17/02/2025 16:18

caniquitwork · 16/02/2025 20:05

I would love to work in a different job, part time, even just to see what it's like, as teaching is all I've ever known. But I have so little confidence that anyone would employ me!

Believe me, any employer, should there be no highly specified technical skills required, would be foolish not to hire a teacher. If you can teach, you can do anything! p.s. are you a primary or secondary teacher? Is it a 'good' school (well mannered children etc), or a 'bad' school? (Both words used for wont of better words)

rainbowunicorn · 17/02/2025 16:20

Manthide · 17/02/2025 16:10

I've got 7 and a half years to go until I can retire at 67 - I would be beyond devastated if they changed my retirement age before then. I have a manual labouring job at minimum wage and on a zero hours contract.

Don't worry, it won't happen. The replies from people saying that it could rise that quickly are just nonsense. It happens all the time on here as people reply without really knowing what they are taking about. Mumsnet is probably the last place I would come for financial advice.

bullrushes · 17/02/2025 16:24

Nobody is saying it will affect the OP simply that it could. Until each change is implemented nobody knows for sure. The government's rules say they have to give ten years notice of changes to state pension age and so whilst they generally do give longer and generally then have a tapered system in terms of which group is affected, they don't have to. Given the state of the country's finances and the general mess the world is in, who knows.

caniquitwork · 17/02/2025 16:26

Secondary- a grammar school. Does that make me more or less employable? 😅

OP posts:
WeCanOnlyDoOurBest · 17/02/2025 16:29

Bringmeahigherlove · 17/02/2025 06:48

She can’t just keep working because her adult children will have mortgages and children. What an odd way of thinking. I’d rather my mum had a good quality of life than slaving away to help me as an adult.

Totally agree with this, adult ‘children’ will never stop using the bank of mum and/or dad if we don’t teach them how to stand on their own two feet. Ours have never fed off us, they are both homeowners and are completely self sufficient.

XVGN · 17/02/2025 17:45

VivaVictoria · 17/02/2025 14:50

https://frazerjames.co.uk/1m-pension-income-retirement-2/

OP and others- this is worth looking at.

The drawdown value of £1m pot is around £40Kpa.

Perhaps this is where we have disagreed. I think that with a better asset allocation, a safe withdrawal rate of 6% can be used. That would immediately lower the fund required to c.£670K to generate £40k pa. Then, taking into account a state pension kicking in, and perhaps needing less income beyond the age of, say, 75, we can start feeling more comfortable at the £500K level. Many people won't even need that and can happily live on much less assuming they own their own home.

Being able to operate a portfolio yourself can save many £K in IFA fees that would be unnecesssary. You should maniacally focus on reducing all fees. Once you get your head around it, it isn't difficult, and a well diversified portfolio (other than the simple stocks and bonds suggested by most IFA's) improves the ulcer index no end by reducing overall volatility. It's worked for me for over 10 years.

Read here for further details.

portfoliocharts.com/2015/11/17/how-safe-withdrawal-rates-work/

Leedsfan247 · 17/02/2025 17:47

The inheritance alone gives you £31k pa until you are 60 - that’s without any interest, it’s a no brainier