Would this be lilegel by chance

[ByArtfulBird]

So basically my 14 year old DDs boyfriend’s parents are kicking her boyfriend out of there house tomorrowAnd I do want to help him not be homeless. would this be lillegel if he lived at my house with my kids and me for a bit until I can get the government to get him somewhere to live. But I don’t want to break the law throughout it.

How old is he?

I would not be inviting my 14 year old daughter's boyfriend to live with us, it sends all the wrong messages. I would be wondering why a 14 year old was being kicked out of home, and notifying the relevant people at his school so they can can pass it on and get help sorted.

Do you mean that they won’t help him if he isn’t actually homeless?

14 same as her age he is getting kicked out because his younger brother wants his own room and they live in a 2 bedroom apartment. I feel sorry for dds boyfriend.

This.
Will he open up to you?

I appreciate this boy is in a tough spot, but you cannot effectively encourage your 14 year old daughter to shack up. Think about her here, long term.

If this boy is 14 also, you need to call social services/ his school and inform them of what is going on.

Was just thinking this

I would take that explanation with a MASSIVE pinch of salt. If he's 14 and his parents genuinely don't feel capable of parenting any more, they need to be getting social services involved.

Ok I will give them a ring tomorrow I have a spare room that’s why I wondering

The pood lad needs someone to care. Why not be you? Imo it will go a long way to shape his adulthood into a decent one.. Maybe make it clear he isn't sharing with dd!! I assume you will have to contact ss....

I have a spare room where are getting this from?

Nobody kicks their child out because their other child won't share a room, bollocks.

If I had the space I’d take in any of my children’s friends in need as long as they where not a harm to mine.

Strict rules keeping them apart at things like bedtime.

even if it were true, don't get involved as it will slow down any help from elsewhere.

his parents don’t care for him most days most of the time I feed him

There's more to this than he's telling you. Call social services and let them deal with him.

It would be perfectly legal for the boy to move into your home if he wants to and his parents don't object, but making a report to Social Services might be a better option. You might not have been told quite the whole story about why his parents don't want him at home. And there are practical issues. What happens if the arrangement does not work out? Are you prepared to tell him to leave? What if your daughter decides she does not want to be in a relationship with him any more? Who pays for his food, clothes, pocket money?

Theoretically yes he could live with you under a private fostering arrangement...but don't think this is anything like normal fostering! However it does require social services to assess.

My mum moved in a couple of my friends when their parents were arseholes over the years. But NEVER a boyfriend. At 14!!! That's a terrible idea.

Call social services.

Correct response!

Oh OP you almost certainly haven't got anywhere near the full story here. You are being incredibly naive to take him at face value. And incredibly irresponsible to your dd frankly - putting her in a position where she has to maintain the relationship - which I hesitate to even call it such given their ages - otherwise be responsible for him becoming homeless.

Social services and school first thing tomorrow. They are experienced at this. You are clearly not.

Have you heard any of this from the parents? It is his dad or a step dad? The whole yarn sounds like a crock. Moving him in isn’t the best reaction.

This. What happens when your dd splits up with her boyfriend? Or worse, wants to split up but can’t? The bf’s parents are breaking the law by putting their child out. You’d just be really really ill-advised (but not breaking the law) to take him in