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Husband boundaries

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MistyH1992 · 06/02/2025 15:25

My husband believes that unless I lay the boundary that I don't want him to come into the bathroom whilst I'm on the toilet, then how does he know I want privacy?
I've told him that I shouldn't have to lay that boundary and that surely it's common sense not to talk at me almost every time I'm on the loo but apparently not.. his words "unless you tell me then how do I know that?" .. AIBU that he should just have enough respect to allow me 2 minutes peace and have a number two in peace? 😅

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StormingNorman · 06/02/2025 21:05

Twaddlepip · 06/02/2025 20:37

Surely she shouldn’t have to lock the fucking door in her own home to stop her stupid husband barging in while she’s on the loo??

I’d assume there was something wrong with him, or he had a revolting fetish.

Exactly this! Putting a lock on the door put the burden of staying safe on the young girl and she should be able to take it for granted.

alwaysMakingItsofar · 06/02/2025 21:12

He is gross. Why?

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