I completed a degree while claiming PIP and was upfront about it. The degree took me longer than it should have because of my disabilities though, and I think I gave examples of the difficulties that contributed to this in forms. It didn’t seem to have any negative bearing on my claim.
I manage to hide my condition from most of the world, but it doesn't mean I'm not constantly exhausted/broken and worthy of support.
This is how I feel and why I got so upset at my last review having to admit it to myself and someone else. I hate thinking or talking about what I can’t do because I spiral into a pit of despair. I survive by focusing on what I can do, which might not be a lot but I try my best. I can’t bear the thought of appearing weak or vulnerable so am able to put on incredible acts of being capable and self-assured during brief encounters with people, but inside and in private I’m a mess and can barely take care of my basic needs.
I get the sense that PIP isn't just about whether you qualify, but whether you manage to tell that in the right way?
Yes, this is correct. I would recommend asking CAB for help with how to apply the impact and symptoms of your condition to their questions. In my initial application, I ticked ‘no’ for anything that referred to the need for another person to do something for you or prompt you to do something because I didn’t have anyone in my life to fulfil that role. I was later told that whether I had someone to help or not, the need for it was there. So, for example, I often don’t have proper meals because I’m too unwell to cook anything despite being hungry. Other days I might feel too unwell to eat even though I know I should. It’s not unusual for me to go a whole day having eaten nothing but a couple of biscuits, and even that can be a struggle. I hover between the lower end of a healthy BMI and underweight, depending on how my condition is affecting me. So in my next review I explained this and I was awarded points for those categories. I can use the money to buy things like pre-prepared salads or some kind of ready meal that I otherwise wouldn’t have been able to afford. I still don’t always manage to eat enough (I truly would benefit from being prompted) but it’s made things easier for me.