Alright, bear with me on this. I mentioned before that I had a friend who strongly believed she had a spirit guide. Well, things escalated, and now she claims she’s “married to a spirit.” Essentially, she believes she’s married to a spirit connected to a place where she used to work.
She says she has a fulfilling sexual relationship with this spirit and even describes their marriage as being like any other marriage. It honestly scared me a bit.
But something happened recently that made me stop talking to her. I went over, as I usually do, with a bottle of wine. She drinks quite a bit—usually two bottles before passing out—but at least her four-year-old is usually in bed. This last time, though, her child was still up when I arrived. I was playing a game with him, and she fell asleep mid-conversation, clearly very drunk. She has a wood-burning fire in her house.
I told her son to go to bed and tried to tuck him in, but he wouldn’t leave her side, and we couldn’t wake her. I ended up tucking him in next to her and walking home (it’s just around the corner). But then it hit me—I’d forgotten about the fire. I panicked and called 101 for advice. They insisted I give the address, but I didn’t want to do that. Instead, I went back, rang the doorbell until she woke up, and told her what I’d done.
The next morning, she said I was being ridiculous for worrying just because she’d fallen asleep. I tried to explain that she’d been incoherent and that it was irresponsible, but I didn’t press the issue and just left. Later, she texted me repeatedly, asking what I was trying to achieve by calling 101 and what outcome I was expecting. I didn’t want to argue, so I blocked her on Facebook and elsewhere.
Now I feel guilty. I can’t bring myself to walk past her house. I feel bad for her because I know she might be struggling with losing a friend.
Am I wrong? I feel awful.