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What class are you?

175 replies

OnWednesdayswewearpinkIYKYK · 17/01/2025 19:46

There are soooo many threads about class that are on this forum. I wondered how people actually identify.

I’m assuming there’s not too many upper class or aristocracy, or even royalty, and only have two options for the vote (I think).

So, YANBU is: Middle class
YABU is: Working class

Please vote! 😁

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OnWednesdayswewearpinkIYKYK · 17/01/2025 22:04

ForPearlViper · 17/01/2025 21:52

I am not denying that certain aspects of perceived class are influential. But that isn't what your original post was about. You didn't start a discussion about how the remains of the old class system affects society. You asked what class members thought they were, repeating the many, many similar threads on the subject.

Exactly how did you think your original question was adding to the body of knowledge on the subject?

I was not trying to add to a body of knowledge, just posting out of interest.

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Anonym00se · 17/01/2025 22:04

I don’t know why that pasted in such a large font - apologies!

Splendud · 17/01/2025 22:07

Genuinely don't know what class I am.

My mum was the daughter of a senior army officer and had a private school education. My dad was the son of Irish immigrants, his dad worked in construction, and Mum was a school cook.

Mum rebelled and married my dad. Ended up in a council house which they bought in the 1980s. I am state school educated (albeit with a grandpa who taught me Latin and Greek every Saturday morning)

I now have post grad qualifications and earn £90k, DH earns more. Both of our kids went to good state grammar schools and are at university. We have a really good standard of living and enjoy lots of culture, theatre, art, music etc.

My mum thinks I am a snob because I like culture, have a detached house and do a very middle-class job.

My MIL thinks I am not worthy of her son because I grew up in a council house so I must be very working class.

Colleagues think I am posh because of the culture I enjoy, and they were stunned when I did an archaeological dig last year as they thought that was ridiculously posh.

BBC class survey thinks I am an 'elite'

All I can conclude is that class is something that other people pigeonhole you as.

PerambulationFrustration · 17/01/2025 22:08

Lol I just did that bbc class calculator and I'm
Elite [twirls]
Living in London, I'm
Sure there are many Elites who are not.

OnWednesdayswewearpinkIYKYK · 17/01/2025 22:08

JessiesJ99 · 17/01/2025 21:59

Sorry, 6% 🤔😅

Even more special!

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ForPearlViper · 17/01/2025 22:12

OnWednesdayswewearpinkIYKYK · 17/01/2025 22:04

I was not trying to add to a body of knowledge, just posting out of interest.

Ah, the disingenuous 'posting out of interest' or 'I was just curious' response. No surprise there. I hope knowing how a bunch of Mumsnetters categorise themselves enriches your life.

Eldermillenialyogi · 17/01/2025 22:13

It's honestly not something I think about

My dad had his own business when I was growing up and it did very well. I went to private school, had lots of holidays abroad and ate out a lot. Lived in very standard detached three bed house that was extended. I think my parents considered us working class.

Now I'm in a professional role in a medium to senior role (think lawyer and dentist), we earn £150k as a household, live in a nice area... I'm not sure what class people would think of us as but I would think of our DC as growing up middle class 🤔

Bbq1 · 17/01/2025 22:14

I'd say upper working class but I've just completed 2 different Class Indicator quizzes online and the results were:

Established middle class

Middle class

Eldermillenialyogi · 17/01/2025 22:18

I just did the quiz and got Elite as well so they're obviously giving it away

Sorry @JessiesJ99 😂

Milodon · 17/01/2025 22:23

I think middle/working are too broad categories that they’re a bit meaningless now. Even just reducing it down to newspapers as a proxy, middle class could be the Guardian or it could be the Telegraph, working class could be the Daily Mail or it could be the Morning Star. Obviously you don’t have to be those classes to read those newspapers but hopefully you get the vibes I’m trying to describe, which are completely different groups within the same high level bracket.

Janbluesuary · 17/01/2025 22:24

Solidly middle class. Dad was defintely working class, left school at 15 with no qualifations and worked on the markets until he went into finance and ended up as the MD of a financial services company,

my mum was solidly middle class, Nannie’s, boarding school and horses.

I was privately educated and went to uni; always worked in professional roles. My kids have been in a range of state and private. They’re well travelled and have been brought up with the whole theatre / museums / uni thing

however, I am 3rd gen British and a minority faith so I don’t think that we can ever be upper middle like the Middletons or upper class

ItsFreedomBabyYeah · 17/01/2025 22:25

Peaceandquietandacuppa · 17/01/2025 19:50

I’m not really sure anymore!

Born very much working class - first one to go to uni, qualified for financial support with fees, free school meals etc. mum a cleaner. grandad was an Irish immigrant labourer.

Now, own a home with mortgage, earn £50k, “professional” middle manager type job.

Am I partly middle class now (but with working class heritage?!) Or just working class with a bit more money (def not rich by any stretch 🤣)

Edited to add - if someone asked me I’d probably say working class.

Edited

You sound a bit like me, but I earn a bit more than you & am upper management (think boss like). I still think of myself as working class...

littlebilliie · 17/01/2025 22:36

Just did the bbc quiz and it seems we are in the elite grouping mainly because we know people in a wide range of professions it's a bit of an odd quiz

HailtotheBop · 17/01/2025 22:37

Working class in origin. Went to university (well, former polytechnic). Married a solidly middle class man and now live a middle class life. Having said that, there are things that continue to mark me out as originally being working class (my accent, slang words I use and no doubt more besides). I still feel working class, but my DC are middle class.

DroningLovisa · 17/01/2025 22:49

Namechangedcositsouting · 17/01/2025 21:58

Namechanged cuz evryone knows me dontcha knoww?! Grin

Grew up upper middle class, robbed shoulders and dined with some of the upper class, elites and royalty (not in this country, mind). Now I'd say I'm lower middle class or just in between classes, quite poor, on my own but relatively happier. Life happens!

Is that you, Fergie?

TempestTost · 17/01/2025 22:55

Middle class. We are very middle of the road in terms of our income. DH's is a bit higher than average, and mine a bit lower, so it evens out.

When I was really small I would probably have been considered working class. My parents were in the kinds of jobs that at that time were in transition from a working class to more of a middle class income and benefits. However, my parents divorced and money was quite tight for a while after that.

Once my mum remarried we were firmly MC and by the time I was at university upper middle class. Which is still where my mum and step-father are. My father and step-mother are working class.

TheTruthHurtsDontIt · 17/01/2025 22:56

All Mumsnet users are just middle class and upper middle class LARPers didn't you know?

I've no fucking idea what class I am but I know I've got fuck all class and I'm comfortable with that.

steff13 · 17/01/2025 22:57

First class all the way, baby.

TempestTost · 17/01/2025 23:01

Anonym00se · 17/01/2025 21:43

I’m an ‘Elite’ according to the BBC class calculator.

I actually was born sub-working class, grew up in care and was a teen mum. I would still consider myself to be working class, and feel like a ‘pretender’ now that I am financially comfortable. I hate the insinuation that WC people by definition cannot enjoy opera, theatre or museums.

I think you have to differentiate between individuals, and statements about groups.

On a statistical level there are differences in the kinds of leisure activities are enjoyed by differernt groups.

On an individual level, anything goes though. A fellow I work with, a very wc guy, probably has one of the greatest collections of classical music I've seen, he's really passionate and knowledgeable about it. My grandfather, also very wc, was a great lover of poetry and a poet himself, and actually very well educated compared even to many university educated people today, although he was self-educated.

StormingNorman · 17/01/2025 23:03

TempestTost · 17/01/2025 22:55

Middle class. We are very middle of the road in terms of our income. DH's is a bit higher than average, and mine a bit lower, so it evens out.

When I was really small I would probably have been considered working class. My parents were in the kinds of jobs that at that time were in transition from a working class to more of a middle class income and benefits. However, my parents divorced and money was quite tight for a while after that.

Once my mum remarried we were firmly MC and by the time I was at university upper middle class. Which is still where my mum and step-father are. My father and step-mother are working class.

How are you defining upper middle class? I would think it’s impossible to go from working class to upper middle. There just isn’t the upbringing, education, network or life experiences to support it.

vodkaredbullgirl · 17/01/2025 23:04

I'm just classic 😆

Namechangedcositsouting · 17/01/2025 23:05

DroningLovisa · 17/01/2025 22:49

Is that you, Fergie?

Haha! No way! Grin

JimmyGrimble · 17/01/2025 23:07

I am working class aristocracy, granddaughter of a miner on one side and a naval officer on the other. Didn’t have a pot to piss in growing up due to a very acrimonious divorce but my mum always took us to museums and stately homes and the library. We were not allowed to watch itv ever. Although according to the bbc calculator I am elite.

Bunniemalone · 17/01/2025 23:08

OnWednesdayswewearpinkIYKYK · 17/01/2025 21:24

Sounds fascinating!

It was a very interesting childhood to say the least 😂. My older sisters went to Cheltenham Ladies & Roedean. My brother's to Rugby.... I went to the little local primary followed by the local grammar. Yet I'm the only one with any sort of qualifications. Turned out Im a bit of a maths whizz.

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