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To wish people would just stop?

55 replies

girlfriend44 · 15/01/2025 19:17

Got a spate of car crime going on. No different to other places I guess?
Men walking round in the night trying car doors etc. A couple of cars have been stolen. Some have been rifled through.

Police have been informed naturally.
It's too much. People are starting to feel like the crims have taken over.
What is wrong with people?

Life is hard enough. They are just making people's lives harder they are now having to worry about their cars overnight?
Why don't they give a toss?
Can't people even have a car now? 😡

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coldcallerbaiter · 15/01/2025 19:21

Who do you think is doing this? Locals? Gangs from elsewhere roaming around? Whereabouts are you roughly? Yes it’s worrying, you feel like the worker ants providing for the hornet raider crims!! If police do not regularly catch people them it is as good as an invitation to do it imo. It escalates.

girlfriend44 · 15/01/2025 19:53

No.idea whose doing it?
You wonder why people aren't in bed instead of sulking round the streets at night, seeing if there's something they can pinch.

Too much freedom is a bad thing.

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BallerinaRadio · 15/01/2025 20:08

I know obviously the people trying the cars are in the wrong here, but if you keep your car locked with no valuables in then there's nothing to worry overnight about

youngoldthing · 15/01/2025 20:10

girlfriend44 · 15/01/2025 19:53

No.idea whose doing it?
You wonder why people aren't in bed instead of sulking round the streets at night, seeing if there's something they can pinch.

Too much freedom is a bad thing.

Not enough consequences is also a bad thing.

girlfriend44 · 15/01/2025 20:14

BallerinaRadio · 15/01/2025 20:08

I know obviously the people trying the cars are in the wrong here, but if you keep your car locked with no valuables in then there's nothing to worry overnight about

You've still got people coming onto.your property.
I don't think the stolen cars were unlocked.

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Oreosareawful · 15/01/2025 20:18

It’s happening where I am too. We’ve just installed a new security light to try and make us undesirable to opportunists.

The punishments are just not harsh enough for those who commit crimes

TheMasterplan23 · 15/01/2025 20:26

Our car was stolen last year (thankfully it was a lease car that was due to go back the following month) it was parked in a car park overnight, keys were left in the hotel a 10 second walk away.
Guess they must have cloned the key somehow 🤷‍♀️
DH wasn’t overly bothered but I was so, so angry.
The car insurance went up, again.
It makes my blood boil when skanks steal. I don’t care if it’s someone stealing for their own benefit or as part of a gang…..
Get off your pathetic, scummy, dirty arse and get a job and earn your own money.

Urgh. Rant over.

TheMasterplan23 · 15/01/2025 20:27

Oh and the police didn’t give a sh!t. We told them there were cctv cameras at the car park but they didn’t care.

girlfriend44 · 15/01/2025 20:28

TheMasterplan23 · 15/01/2025 20:26

Our car was stolen last year (thankfully it was a lease car that was due to go back the following month) it was parked in a car park overnight, keys were left in the hotel a 10 second walk away.
Guess they must have cloned the key somehow 🤷‍♀️
DH wasn’t overly bothered but I was so, so angry.
The car insurance went up, again.
It makes my blood boil when skanks steal. I don’t care if it’s someone stealing for their own benefit or as part of a gang…..
Get off your pathetic, scummy, dirty arse and get a job and earn your own money.

Urgh. Rant over.

Exactly.
Aren't they embarrassed skulking around at night, trying to go.through people's gloveboxes in their cars.
Nothing but a nuisance to others.

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mitogoshigg · 15/01/2025 20:30

Around here people put pictures of the culprits on facebook from their ring doorbells. Might not be strictly legal but usually within a short time before it gets taken down usually they are identified, typically from the next town along. Police need to do better.

girlfriend44 · 15/01/2025 20:34

mitogoshigg · 15/01/2025 20:30

Around here people put pictures of the culprits on facebook from their ring doorbells. Might not be strictly legal but usually within a short time before it gets taken down usually they are identified, typically from the next town along. Police need to do better.

Yes agree with the ring doorbell. It dosent seem to stop.it happening though.

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FOJN · 15/01/2025 20:35

youngoldthing · 15/01/2025 20:10

Not enough consequences is also a bad thing.

Yes, it's lack of consequences not too much freedom which is the problem.

Fraley · 15/01/2025 20:36

Steering wheel locks are being strongly advised by Insurance companies, would be thieves will be more likely to move on to the next car with out one. Also if the car is Keyless, keep car keys in a Faraday box or pouch and in a room away from the car is parked.

coldcallerbaiter · 15/01/2025 20:36

mitogoshigg · 15/01/2025 20:30

Around here people put pictures of the culprits on facebook from their ring doorbells. Might not be strictly legal but usually within a short time before it gets taken down usually they are identified, typically from the next town along. Police need to do better.

Again, protecting the criminals identity.

Woukd be good to set a trap, tin of paint spill on the head or rake in the face, like a cartoon.

girlfriend44 · 15/01/2025 20:38

Fraley · 15/01/2025 20:36

Steering wheel locks are being strongly advised by Insurance companies, would be thieves will be more likely to move on to the next car with out one. Also if the car is Keyless, keep car keys in a Faraday box or pouch and in a room away from the car is parked.

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Good idea, dosent stop people going into the gloveboxes though?

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Doingthework · 15/01/2025 20:41

Somebody stole my glovebox!!

Got in the car felt off then realised they’d took the whole glovebox out of the dash. No broken windows must have stolen it to order.

Dueanamechange2025 · 15/01/2025 20:43

Happens on my estate too. Fairly sure they are from the next less desirable village along. Very easy to access via a bridge / foot path.

Fraley · 15/01/2025 20:45

No unfortunately not.

Fraley · 15/01/2025 20:49

No unfortunately not.

MereDintofPandiculation · 15/01/2025 20:50

Oreosareawful · 15/01/2025 20:18

It’s happening where I am too. We’ve just installed a new security light to try and make us undesirable to opportunists.

The punishments are just not harsh enough for those who commit crimes

Severity of punishment is irrelevant if likelihood of being caught is low

itsgettingweird · 15/01/2025 20:51

TheMasterplan23 · 15/01/2025 20:26

Our car was stolen last year (thankfully it was a lease car that was due to go back the following month) it was parked in a car park overnight, keys were left in the hotel a 10 second walk away.
Guess they must have cloned the key somehow 🤷‍♀️
DH wasn’t overly bothered but I was so, so angry.
The car insurance went up, again.
It makes my blood boil when skanks steal. I don’t care if it’s someone stealing for their own benefit or as part of a gang…..
Get off your pathetic, scummy, dirty arse and get a job and earn your own money.

Urgh. Rant over.

Someone smashed my car back window last year and covered whole boot - with da wheelchair in it - in glass.

Whilst I have every empathy he's an alcoholic and was extremely distressed at the time his mum was all over local FB page (she actually lives abroad!) saying how people don't understand and shouldn't judge.

Not one ounce of empathy for my ds stuck with no wheelchair for 3 days on the young men who's trades can he wrote off .

I'm absolutely on the side of supporting people going through a touch time (it's my job!) but we've gone far to much to excusing behaviour rather than explaining it.

He gets sentenced on Friday - will be interested to see what the outcome is.

MissyPants · 15/01/2025 20:53

It's happening in Yorkshire region as-well.
It only seems to be key-less BMW's tho

itsgettingweird · 15/01/2025 20:54

mitogoshigg · 15/01/2025 20:30

Around here people put pictures of the culprits on facebook from their ring doorbells. Might not be strictly legal but usually within a short time before it gets taken down usually they are identified, typically from the next town along. Police need to do better.

They do round here.

Thankfully our local police force ask us to report to them so they can respond to the crime - and they are a good responsive police force who listen and even try preventative patrols.

They do ask they are reported to them rather than on FB as they move on when they know they're rumbled and they don't want them warned off an area before they are caught!

MushMonster · 15/01/2025 20:55

I do think that it is getting more and more dangerous out there.
In the city I work there have been several murders, by shooting, in the last years.
Today two men were pushing and hitting each other in the street and shouting. I did shout at them, from a distance, to stop or I would call the police. Eventually, they carried on walking... together! Can you believe that? One was shouting, fuck England! I was left aghast. Is it possible they were arguing about football? And ended up punching each other? Because they did throw a few punches...

Have you seen this?

Day light robbery in a Tesco, Reading. They walked behind the counter, broke the shutters and emptied the cigarettes, ecigarettes. Then walked out.
It is shocking.

I hope the police finds the gangsters in your area soon. At least you can sleep in peace.

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Justgoodforthegetting · 15/01/2025 20:57

I am a police officer, these types of crime are at epidemic level. Constant.

It’s not that the police don’t care, it’s that these crimes are nigh on impossible to identify offenders for.

Offenders tend to wear masks or clothing over their faces which means no amount of doorbell footage or cctv footage will give us an identity.
Even when their faces are not obscured, doorbell footage and CCTV generally tends to be such poor quality that we can’t get an identity anyway, we do not have technology to make footage better despite what TV would have people believe.

So the only way to identify offenders tends to be based on forensics, and unless there’s obvious blood or bodily fluids left at the scene, forensic units won’t examine each vehicle broken into because they’d never do anything else.

They get into vehicles by intercepting the signal from the fob, so doesn’t matter if you routinely lock your car.

Best thing to do is keep your car keys/fob in a Faraday pouch, which stops the signal being intercepted.
Keep NOTHING in your vehicle overnight that you’d care about being stolen, and if you can, leave glove boxes open and empty And nothing at all visible so if one off these scum bags looks in the window they can see there’s nothing worth taking and will move on to the next one.

They are career criminals, that’s why they’re not in bed. Because rather than earn an honest living, they choose to take from others, it’s easier to do that when most of the world is sleeping and vulnerable.