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Why do so many people criticise vegans?

921 replies

trunch · 09/01/2025 16:45

I'm a meat eater!

However, I don't understand why people criticise vegans so much.

They aren't hurting me and are trying to save animals and the environment.

What's wrong with that?

Surely people should be more critical of me because animals are killed for me to eat?

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WhatALazyCat · 10/01/2025 18:05

Thepurplepig · 10/01/2025 17:56

This is why people hate vegans. They spout sanctimonious claptrap. Eating meat is not cruel. The farm where my business is treats its animals better than you do your children.

I eat meat and fish because it provides for a better all round healthier diet. Vegans mostly look half dead and twice their age. I can guarantee my body age is below yours.

You had the cheek to say the other poster was spouting claptrap? 🤣

macaroniandcheeze · 10/01/2025 18:06

tobee · 10/01/2025 17:54

While we're on the topic, I've asked before but when you see some shops selling substitute meat and call something like "not pork" or "no chicken chicken" (can't think of genuine examples right now) do they taste different from each other?

I've eaten vegan food before but not meat substitutes.

Genuine question.

(When I asked on a different forum before I didn't happen to get any recipes)

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Yes, they taste different from each other. No chicken doesn’t taste of much, a bit like chicken really, fairly bland until sauce/spices are added.
Vegan sausages tend to taste of herbs, kind of sausagy flavouring.
Vegan bacon tastes like bacon flavouring. Most bacon flavoured things are vegan, like frazzles, and even some crispy “bacon bits” are often just bacon flavoured wheat.
I don’t eat a lot of fake meats, but hope this helps.

tobee · 10/01/2025 18:08

Right thanks for the insight @HereForTheAnimals.

I've enjoyed bean burgers and veggie burgers plenty of times (and made them myself) and can imagine there's good and bad. I just wondered about how lamby or chickeny etc they are and what thar might mean.

tobee · 10/01/2025 18:08

Cheers @macaroniandcheeze

orangewasp · 10/01/2025 18:10

I eat meat and fish because it provides for a better all round healthier diet. Vegans mostly look half dead and twice their age. I can guarantee my body age is below yours

Eat what you like but this is a ridiculously stupid assertion.

macaroniandcheeze · 10/01/2025 18:11

tobee · 10/01/2025 18:08

Cheers @macaroniandcheeze

Should have also added vegan burgers vary, some taste suspiciously too burgery and are a bit off putting if you don’t like meat but great for meat eaters cutting down for whatever reason.

Thepurplepig · 10/01/2025 18:13

herpastcanchangethefuture · 10/01/2025 17:59

Wow! This is quite the statement - hate vegans and they look old and all unhealthy.

I didn’t say I hate vegans. I said ones like the poster I quoted are sanctimonious. I don’t care what you eat but don’t try to convert me or my children.

Many studies find that a restrictive diet like this leads can lead to a variety of health issues.

I lived in California for five years. Many people are vegan so my selection pool for analysis is vast. I stand by my statement about appearance.

Sevenwondersofthewoo · 10/01/2025 18:15

macaroniandcheeze · 10/01/2025 17:15

You’ve really no idea why? Then maybe listen to the lived experiences of vegan explaining it to you? Because more often than not when we say “oh no milk in my cuppa please” for instance the immediate response is “why?”
It’s not an interrogation but I rarely offer the information that I’m vegan upfront, but then I often find myself explaining it, briefly, not in depth and certainly not a lecture, to people who feel the need to ask.
You’re the one who did the cliche “how you do know… they tell you!” joke so I was just trying to explain some examples as to why they/we often end up talking about.

Generally people are not rude or interrogating, just interested or nosey.

I don’t care what anyone else eats I wasn’t vegan for the first 34 years of my life. But now when I ask for a vegan menu pizza express I am telling people about myself inadvertently, but otherwise I wouldn’t have the menu I need so I kinda need to mention it?!

I haven’t RTWT so I don’t know what experience @tobee is referring to, potentially just being asked about it? But I don’t think my response is that heightened, just a little lighthearted.

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If someone says no milk it’s an ok and that’s that who do you hang around with that does the why.

everyone asks for a menu and most servers I have been one asks also if you’d
like to see the veggie option's too no vegan as we didn’t cater for it.

It’s now all do you have allergies and we point to the board that we are a multi purpose kitchen and some contamination may occur. If an allergy they don’t buy but an intolerance they usually do.

if someone has something different I’m curious but I don’t go all out and say that minging except for vegan cheese then I’ll say as I’ve tried a fair few of them.

macaroniandcheeze · 10/01/2025 18:15

Thepurplepig · 10/01/2025 18:13

I didn’t say I hate vegans. I said ones like the poster I quoted are sanctimonious. I don’t care what you eat but don’t try to convert me or my children.

Many studies find that a restrictive diet like this leads can lead to a variety of health issues.

I lived in California for five years. Many people are vegan so my selection pool for analysis is vast. I stand by my statement about appearance.

Speaking on behalf of vegans we are not sad that you’re not in our gang ✌🏻since your diet seems to have resulted in an untreatable personality issue.

herpastcanchangethefuture · 10/01/2025 18:19

Thepurplepig · 10/01/2025 18:13

I didn’t say I hate vegans. I said ones like the poster I quoted are sanctimonious. I don’t care what you eat but don’t try to convert me or my children.

Many studies find that a restrictive diet like this leads can lead to a variety of health issues.

I lived in California for five years. Many people are vegan so my selection pool for analysis is vast. I stand by my statement about appearance.

So all the vegans in California look old and unhealthy? Right.

For what it's worth I have been vegan for half my life, in my late 40s and IMHO I look good and feel great, hardly ill and blood pressure and cholesterol in great shape.

5128gap · 10/01/2025 18:29

tobee · 10/01/2025 17:44

FWIW I happened to mention to a few friends that I'd responded on a thread about veganism and was going to be honest. It is the one topic everyone advises not to engage with.

Do they? How odd. With all the highly controversial topics around at the moment, topics that lead to all manner of aggression and abuse, the one they warn against engaging with is veganism? I'm intrigued at what your friends think vegans are likely to say that will be so intolerable to read?

SuePine69 · 10/01/2025 18:29

Hunglikeapolevaulter · 10/01/2025 17:59

Yet nearly all primates are vegetarian.

This is untrue. In fact, most primates eat some meat, even gorillas, who were previous thought to be vegetarian exclusively.
Baboons catch and eat a lot of insects, small mammals and fish. Chimpanzees actually predate on monkeys.

Gorillas are primarily herbivores, meaning their diet consists mainly of plant material. They typically eat leaves, stems, fruits, and shoots. However, gorillas are also known to occasionally consume insects such as ants and termites. These make up a very small part of their diet, and they don't actively hunt for meat.

So, while they do eat some animal matter, it's not a significant component of their diet. Gorillas get most of their nutrition from the abundant vegetation in their habitats.

tobee · 10/01/2025 18:31

Yeah it's true @5128gap. I think it's the relentless debate it arouses.

See above though where I imply that I don't want to be aligned with any meat eaters who say they hate vegans.

tobee · 10/01/2025 18:32

Yes but chimpanzees certainly do eat monkeys @SuePine69

tobee · 10/01/2025 18:33

Maybe it's the California sun @herpastcanchangethefuture?

SuePine69 · 10/01/2025 18:43

tobee · 10/01/2025 18:32

Yes but chimpanzees certainly do eat monkeys @SuePine69

All of them? Chimpanzees groups are varied and have their own cultures. Some of them can crack open nuts with stones but in other groups it is unknown even when nuts are available. For some groups hunting monkeys is a common occurrence although it could be that not all the individuals within these groups ever get to taste meat. For other groups hunting monkeys may be rare or non existent. All chimpanzees will eat ants and termites where available. Winged ants and termites are easily caught but there may be some chimpanzee communities that have never learned to use a tool to extract ants or termites from mounds.

ChristmasFluff · 10/01/2025 18:46

We are getting to the point of arguing about chimpanzees. It's clear it is because people know they should be vegan, if they really care about animals or the world, but they don't want to.

As a vegetarian because of too often giving in to urges for eggs, cheese or skimmed milk.

5128gap · 10/01/2025 19:01

tobee · 10/01/2025 18:31

Yeah it's true @5128gap. I think it's the relentless debate it arouses.

See above though where I imply that I don't want to be aligned with any meat eaters who say they hate vegans.

I have never seen a thread on MN started by a vegan challenging meat eaters to a debate. Not one. Every thread has been started by meat eaters either outrightly criticising vegans, or telling some tale stereotyping us as performative/militant/sanctimonious to encourage everyone to weigh in with their own insufferable vegan I know anecdote.

Sitting here, minding our own business, we open threads to read we are unhealthy, self righteous, boring. We look old and ill, we are a nuisance socially and our opinions and ethics are wrong. Now the typical vegan will know a great deal more about veganism than the average meat eater, because veganism is our way of eating/living, but not really anything to do with your life, so why would you have researched it? Yet still the arguments against it come, so of course vegans are going to argue back.

FrippEnos · 10/01/2025 19:05

5128gap · 10/01/2025 11:49

You are comparing the actions of a minority of activists that are sufficiently extreme and out of the ordinary to be newsworthy, with people's every day experiences of reactions to their diet. In 50 years of eating meat, I didn't recieve a single remark from anyone at all. In the 5 years I've followed a vegan diet..well I've lost count of the comments, jokes and attempts to challenge the choice ive recieved. Not the sort of out right aggression people are talking about here, but comments none the less. Meat eating is the default, veganism is the minority, so its pretty obvious who makes most of the comments to whom.

The question was
Why do so many people criticise vegans?

I have given an answer to that
However you justify and minimise their actions those that end up on the news for being being in a group at a restaurant abusing those that are just having an meal, pouring milk out in a supermarket, destroying farms, desecrating graves of loved ones that work in the meat industry or stripping naked and covering themselves in paint in the middle of the street all in the name of veganism etc.
these are the public face veganism it doesn't matter how small the group is this is the public face of vegans.

As in so many cases the few give the many a bad name.

tobee · 10/01/2025 19:07

I don't know @SuePine69 . I haven't got around to asking them all yet. I'll let you know

tobee · 10/01/2025 19:08

ChristmasFluff · 10/01/2025 18:46

We are getting to the point of arguing about chimpanzees. It's clear it is because people know they should be vegan, if they really care about animals or the world, but they don't want to.

As a vegetarian because of too often giving in to urges for eggs, cheese or skimmed milk.

They don't want to is about the size of it. Well done; you're getting there.

tobee · 10/01/2025 19:10

Me too. That's exactly why I started on this thread @5128gap. To correct some assumptions.

VoodooRajin · 10/01/2025 19:14

Meat eating will one day go the way of smoking, a small minority will cling on to it, i say that as a meat eater

tobee · 10/01/2025 19:16

Probably won't be give a choice @VoodooRajin.

There was a thread the other day about turnips likely no longer grown by British farmers. Sad day.

JLou08 · 10/01/2025 19:19

I think people feel guilty about their choice to eat meat and feel inferior. I'm a meat eater but I admire those who don't eat meat. I've never met a veggie/vegan try enforce views on anyone or brag, it's just come up naturally in conversation. I'm sure I've been in contact with other veggies and vegans without even knowing.

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