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To hate Americanisms...?

768 replies

Groof · 05/01/2025 22:54

I think maybe because it feels like all English-speaking cultures are becoming boring and homogenous.

New ones I've noticed that people in the UK didn't routinely say five years ago but are now EVERYWHERE:

  • birth control (instead of 'contraception' or 'the pill')
  • wait list (instead of waiting list)
  • reach out

Which ones do you hate or AIBU?

OP posts:
devilspawn · 06/01/2025 00:25

Whydoeseveryonewanttoargue · 06/01/2025 00:17

Never heard this said in North America so not sure it’s an Americanism (how ya going). I think it’s actually Australian 😂

How”s it going, yes.

Yes, my entire post was Australianisms. I can't be bothered to repeat what I said all over again, so you can go back and look if you're that interested.

GustyGertie · 06/01/2025 00:26

Ghosting

Right?

New pronounced noo. Noo York

Goldenbear · 06/01/2025 00:26

CulturalNomad · 06/01/2025 00:01

Yes, people complaining often just sound like parochial dinosaurs

Agreed! Like moaning that cursive isn't used by younger people.

The internet changed everything. People pick up slang words or expressions they like and adopt them. Nobody under age 30 gives a crap about any of this.

It is very funny to hear "ya'll" being used by anybody not in the American deep south! When I was growing up in New England it was viewed as very "country bumpkin" and never used by anyone not born and raised in the south.

How do you know that British people under 30 aren't interested in their cultural roots, that's quite a statement to make especially if you are American, it sounds quite arrogant.

YankSplaining · 06/01/2025 00:26

raysan · 05/01/2025 23:39

Guys
(When it is used for a mixed or even female group)
There are so many alternatives that are not 'default male'. Depending on context, could be: Yous, you, you all, colleagues, everyone, all, team, lasses, ladies, comrades.

There are articles on why the word is non-inclusive if you dont believe me. Also try asking "what do guys look for in a partner" or "how many guys have you dated/ has your partner dated?"

”Guys” is male, “you guys” is gender-neutral. I went to an all-girls school in the American Midwest and we said “you guys” all the time. I can see why you don’t like people in the UK saying it, but for people who grew up in the US saying it, your alternatives would sound like affectations.

Femme2804 · 06/01/2025 00:26

I really curious here. I’m not english so i wanna ask, why you hate americanism? Its just language? Why though?

2024TN · 06/01/2025 00:26

dreamingbohemian · 05/01/2025 23:49

Yes, soda is the collective noun. 'What kind of soda do you have?'

Then you ask for a specific one.

Birth control, also collective. People don't usually specify because it's TMI. Same here right?

I used to live in the South where all soda is referred to as “Coke”.

“What coke do you want?”

”Sprite”

devilspawn · 06/01/2025 00:27

MerrilyOnhigh · 05/01/2025 23:29

I do think using "reach out" when you mean "talk to" or "contact" should be a criminal offence.

"talk to" is considered rude in the US, it's "talk with" to imply equality

Whydoeseveryonewanttoargue · 06/01/2025 00:27

Redwinedaze · 05/01/2025 23:32

Cell phone, no it’s mobile.

Truck, no it’s lorry.

An American invented the cell phone so actually it is correct.

AshCrapp · 06/01/2025 00:27

steff13 · 06/01/2025 00:23

And when British people say they "feel shit," I wonder why you're putting your hands in shit. 🤷‍♀️

The British expression that most infuriated and delighted my American friend is "take the piss". I can hear him now, incredulously, repeating "take? Take? Like... Extracting the piss? They are taking the piss? What piss, your piss?"

SerenityNowInsanityLater · 06/01/2025 00:28

QuizzlyBears · 05/01/2025 23:53

Perhaps those of you complaining about irritating ‘Americanisms’ your children have picked up from
YouTube should perhaps reflect on the amount of screen time you’re allowing them on said platform if it is influencing their language development to such a degree….

Edited

As an American whose children are on screens as much as anyone else's, thank you for saying this! None of my three have picked up my Americanisms, which, I admit, have been watered down by my decades of living over here, nor do they sound like YouTubers. Honestly, even as a Californian (an old one, mind), the American accents have totally changed (for the worse). That's my gripe. My Californian accent doesn't sound like that of a 22 year old Californian influencer's. I think mine is superior because it's mellow, old school, quieter. But I also realise I'm just being a bit of a curmudgeon here. Accents do change. I need to accept this.

One Americanism that does bother this American right here is when those American 'chefs' on TikTok (or Instagram/FB reels) offer a recipe in 3 seconds then finish the clip with this raised, singsong, "Enjoy!" They ALL do it.

Whydoeseveryonewanttoargue · 06/01/2025 00:28

devilspawn · 06/01/2025 00:25

Yes, my entire post was Australianisms. I can't be bothered to repeat what I said all over again, so you can go back and look if you're that interested.

Umm but this is a post about Americanisms……

YankSplaining · 06/01/2025 00:30

craycray431 · 05/01/2025 23:41

The one Americanism I don't understand is the use of the word 'soda.' From what I can gather, 'soda' refers to coke, pepsi, sprite etc, so when you read or hear 'can you get me a soda' etc being said, how do they know exactly which drink to get?
Also the 'I'm on birth control' . . . what do you mean? there are many types of birth control. Are you on the Pill? have an IUD?

“Can you get me a soda?” means you don’t particularly care which kind you get.

”The Pill” drives me insane - there are all different types of pills in the world, so what makes contraceptive pills worthy of being “the” pill? I would understand if it was still 1960-something, but it’s not. “The spectrum” drives me crazy for the same reason.

I agree that “birth control” meaning specifically “oral contraceptives” is annoying.

Whydoeseveryonewanttoargue · 06/01/2025 00:32

Mikiamo · 06/01/2025 00:03

Grab a bite.

Have a sit

Can I get is not correct unless youre actually getting it. If you're not, it's could I have.

Never saying please or thank you.

Anything that butchers words, such as swapping e and r - centre, fibre, or removing the u - colour.

Never saying please or thank you? Having lived in both places believe me this is equally bad in both.

YankSplaining · 06/01/2025 00:32

devilspawn · 06/01/2025 00:27

"talk to" is considered rude in the US, it's "talk with" to imply equality

Edited

What?! I’m an American and I’ve never heard of this in my life.

AngelsWithSilverWings · 06/01/2025 00:34

@mathanxiety thanks for the explanation. I've just realised that when I was growing up they were called second hand shops or junk shops. I don't actually remember when they became charity shops!

dreamingbohemian · 06/01/2025 00:35

GustyGertie · 06/01/2025 00:26

Ghosting

Right?

New pronounced noo. Noo York

How on earth can you complain about people pronouncing New York the way New Yorkers pronounce it

steff13 · 06/01/2025 00:35

Femme2804 · 06/01/2025 00:26

I really curious here. I’m not english so i wanna ask, why you hate americanism? Its just language? Why though?

Snobs.

Whydoeseveryonewanttoargue · 06/01/2025 00:35

YankSplaining · 06/01/2025 00:32

What?! I’m an American and I’ve never heard of this in my life.

Same here.

CulturalNomad · 06/01/2025 00:38

How do you know that British people under 30 aren't interested in their cultural roots, that's quite a statement to make especially if you are American, it sounds quite arrogant

I wasn't referring to British people or American people in particular. In general most younger people today consider language to be a fluid thing and adopt phrases and slang that resonates with them.

You can be interested in your "cultural roots" and still enjoy the ebb and flow of modern communication.

MumblesParty · 06/01/2025 00:39

Femme2804 · 06/01/2025 00:26

I really curious here. I’m not english so i wanna ask, why you hate americanism? Its just language? Why though?

@Femme2804 I can’t speak for other posters, but I hate them because it feels like a rejection of the language I have grown up with, my native language, English. It’s as if people think English English isn’t cool enough, so they want to sound like Americans instead. Also I was the first person who spoke to my children and taught them how to speak. I want them to use the words I taught them, not words they’ve picked up from American TikToks!

SleepyCrow15 · 06/01/2025 00:40

“Let’s go to the art exhibit” instead of exhibition.

I’ve really tried to understand “I could care less” instead of “I couldn’t care less”, but I just can’t.

CongraDulations.

pronouncing words such as ammunition, ending in ‘tion’ , as ammuni’shin’ instead of ‘shun’.

I have to admit it all looks a bit petty written down, but I read somewhere that some people’s brains process these things in a different way and find it more grating than other people do.

steff13 · 06/01/2025 00:41

YankSplaining · 06/01/2025 00:32

What?! I’m an American and I’ve never heard of this in my life.

Nor have I. Now, "giving someone a talking to," would be considered a bad thing, because it implies you're in trouble. But just "talk to?" Not inherently bad in my opinion.

MumblesParty · 06/01/2025 00:42

dreamingbohemian · 06/01/2025 00:35

How on earth can you complain about people pronouncing New York the way New Yorkers pronounce it

@dreamingbohemian I think she means the pronunciation of new as noo in any context, and gave New York as an example.

mathanxiety · 06/01/2025 00:45

dentalflosser · 05/01/2025 23:42

I know there are way more important things going on in the world but:
Reach out - makes me imagine a giant arm and hand trying to grab something.
Garbage
Moving forward - instead of in future.
Happy Holidays
Making a huge fuss about Halloween.

Some of these 'Americanisms' don't translate as directly as you think they do.

Reach out, for example, implies a generous offer to share wisdom or experience or a shoulder to cry on.
Moving forward is more nuanced than 'in future'. Implicit there is the idea of moving forward together or the idea that you're getting a boost of some sort.

Making a big fuss about Hallowe'en has always been done in Ireland, where the holiday originated (with a Scottish origin too). It is a really big folk holiday, celebrated for centuries.

Happy Holidays is a greeting that makes sense in a multicultural society where wishing someone Merry Christmas might not be appropriate (because lots celebrate Kwanzaa, Hanukkah, Diwali, solstice, etc). Holiday retains its original Holy Day or special day or sacred day meaning in US English. It doesn't mean your annual trip to the Costa Brava.

dreamingbohemian · 06/01/2025 00:45

MumblesParty · 06/01/2025 00:42

@dreamingbohemian I think she means the pronunciation of new as noo in any context, and gave New York as an example.

OK but that's a terrible example, because 'Noo' York is correct

What's an example of 'noo' in a British context?