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Group of men rescued from Scarfell Pike

197 replies

MrsSkylerWhite · 05/01/2025 22:38

Up to their waists in snow, apparently.
What sort of idiot decides to go on a hike when there’s an amber warning, meaning risk to life, in place?

If you want to kill yourselves, go ahead. Don’t expect to be rescued though when you inevitably get into trouble, putting other people’s lives at risk.

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ErrolTheDragon · 06/01/2025 00:21

Life is complex, there are reasons people don’t always make the best decisions and I’m glad that we help people regardless. It makes us civilised.

Well of course. The MRTs and RNLI are truly wonderful organisations.

But surely these volunteers deserve for people to take at least basic responsibility for checking conditions, finding out what clothing and equipment is sensible rather than just blithely heading out.

PreferMyAnimals · 06/01/2025 00:21

BettyBardMacDonald · 06/01/2025 00:20

That's completely different.

Treating lung cancer doesn't involve anyone else putting their lives in danger. FFS. Think.

At least the hikers are doing something that is usually health promoting.

It's a slippery slope. Do we help people who get injured cycling, horse riding, climbing up ladders without appropriate safety, smoking, drinking, driving? These are all choices people make.

PinkyFlamingo · 06/01/2025 00:22

LameBorzoi · 05/01/2025 22:55

I don't get the vitriol. People make mistakes. I have a lot more patience for this type of mistake than I do for bad driving or sitting around all day developing heart disease.

Mountain climbing during a weather warning is not a mistake,! It's a sheer stupid choice.

Solanumdulcamara · 06/01/2025 00:22

PreferMyAnimals · 06/01/2025 00:20

Rescuers won't always go in if conditions don't allow it. I know of one rescue in the last two months where hikers had to wait it out overnight as it wasn't considered safe to go after them. Surely the first rule of helping someone else is that you don't put yourself in danger to do it? The last thing a rescue agency needs is to have to have a second rescue in progress, which is why the criteria for search and rescue people is so high.

Of course they put themselves in danger.

PreferMyAnimals · 06/01/2025 00:22

PinkyFlamingo · 06/01/2025 00:22

Mountain climbing during a weather warning is not a mistake,! It's a sheer stupid choice.

So are many other things we help people with.

BettyBardMacDonald · 06/01/2025 00:23

EveInEden · 05/01/2025 23:50

If they were ill prepared, fair enough.

But my experienced relative walked off a UK mountain decades ago in a fog. It shouldn't have happened, but it did. Just like many sports things go wrong.

Not everyone wants to sit at home watching Netflix at the slightest warning. Without people pushing the limits there would be no one to rescue holiday makers trapsing around in flip-flops, injuring themselves on minor hills.

Let them do as they please, and fully accept the risks. Not expect others to risk their lives rescuing the foolhardy.

PinkyFlamingo · 06/01/2025 00:23

PreferMyAnimals · 06/01/2025 00:22

So are many other things we help people with.

Putting their own life at risk,?Such as?

Solanumdulcamara · 06/01/2025 00:23

PreferMyAnimals · 06/01/2025 00:22

So are many other things we help people with.

Do you risk your life to help people?

PreferMyAnimals · 06/01/2025 00:24

PinkyFlamingo · 06/01/2025 00:23

Putting their own life at risk,?Such as?

Edited

Smoking, drinking too much, climbing up ladders and falling off due to not taking proper precautions, falling off roofs, swimming in dangerous places ...

BettyBardMacDonald · 06/01/2025 00:24

@PreferMyAnimals

Try to distinguish between ordinary mishaps that require assistance, and those that put the responders and providers at mortal risk. Jesus Christ.

PinkyFlamingo · 06/01/2025 00:25

PreferMyAnimals · 06/01/2025 00:21

At least the hikers are doing something that is usually health promoting.

It's a slippery slope. Do we help people who get injured cycling, horse riding, climbing up ladders without appropriate safety, smoking, drinking, driving? These are all choices people make.

Of course these are choices. But they don't usually involve another human putting their life at risk.

PreferMyAnimals · 06/01/2025 00:26

Solanumdulcamara · 06/01/2025 00:23

Do you risk your life to help people?

No but I did look at joining search and rescue as a volunteer as I'm experienced. However, I can't meet their criteria for independent snow camping experience, and I aren't prepared to get it, so not an option for me. I would be happy to volunteer if it was called for in suitable situations though.

DreamTheMoors · 06/01/2025 00:26

PreferMyAnimals · 06/01/2025 00:21

At least the hikers are doing something that is usually health promoting.

It's a slippery slope. Do we help people who get injured cycling, horse riding, climbing up ladders without appropriate safety, smoking, drinking, driving? These are all choices people make.

My friend’s daughter fell off a ladder and broke her neck.
I can’t imagine someone telling her, “well, that was a stupid choice so we’re gonna leave you there to suffer and die like the fool you are.”
But I suppose there are people in this world who would do just that.

PinkyFlamingo · 06/01/2025 00:26

PreferMyAnimals · 06/01/2025 00:24

Smoking, drinking too much, climbing up ladders and falling off due to not taking proper precautions, falling off roofs, swimming in dangerous places ...

Smoking...who else's life is at risk apart from the smoker? Same with drinking .
Climbing up a ladder, now you are being completely ridiculous 😂

Justlurking10 · 06/01/2025 00:27

I think a lot of people think it’s just a bit of snow but there is a big knock on effect too on the roads etc, it’s not just heading into the mountains that’s the problem. The depths of Cumbria is not a place you want to get stranded unprepared when the snow really comes down, many roads get closed etc. People head over passes they shouldn’t and then get stuck on snow or ice, causing an obstruction and need rescuing from their vehicles.

Quite often in severe snow the mountain rescue teams are already busy assisting the ambulance service too to reach patients in remote places where the ambulance is unable to reach.

It’s just selfish really.

PreferMyAnimals · 06/01/2025 00:27

BettyBardMacDonald · 06/01/2025 00:24

@PreferMyAnimals

Try to distinguish between ordinary mishaps that require assistance, and those that put the responders and providers at mortal risk. Jesus Christ.

That's a fair contrast but PTSD among first responders is a real thing, so even if their life isn't at risk, their health can be.

PreferMyAnimals · 06/01/2025 00:27

DreamTheMoors · 06/01/2025 00:26

My friend’s daughter fell off a ladder and broke her neck.
I can’t imagine someone telling her, “well, that was a stupid choice so we’re gonna leave you there to suffer and die like the fool you are.”
But I suppose there are people in this world who would do just that.

Exactly. Which is why we help people even if they take risks we deem silly.

PreferMyAnimals · 06/01/2025 00:28

PinkyFlamingo · 06/01/2025 00:26

Smoking...who else's life is at risk apart from the smoker? Same with drinking .
Climbing up a ladder, now you are being completely ridiculous 😂

The point is that all those things cost the taxpayer money, which is the other side of the discussion. Even if you only put your own life at risk, others have to fund the consequences. Maybe they shouldn't by your reckoning?

LaLatina · 06/01/2025 00:29

TheFlyingHorse · 05/01/2025 23:02

I think it depends how experienced and well prepared they were. I live in the Lakes and know someone who died on the fells in winter after slipping. The weather wasn't particularly bad and he was a well equipped, experienced mountaineer who was very unlucky.

Absolutely. I mean, I absolutely admire the volunteers (I know someone who trains dogs for mountain rescue), but they don’t only rescue the deserving, experienced, well-equipped mountaineers who run into trouble, they also rescue the idiots who decide to climb Scafell Pike in flip flops.

Just like the lifeboats rescue hardworking fishing boats with engine trouble AND some dope who decided to give paddle boarding a go in an area with dangerous tides, after dark. And, in the case of a crew I know, a boat dropping off drugs that got into trouble.

DowntonBlabbie · 06/01/2025 00:30

RandomButtons · 05/01/2025 22:40

If they didn’t know what they were doing YANBU, they are idiots.

However even very experienced mountaineers can make mistakes. Doesn’t mean they shouldn’t go out fully prepared. The conditions atm are hardly anything to anyone who’s trekked in the Alps in winter.

Experienced mountineee wouldn't go out in an orange warning. Literally the point

Solanumdulcamara · 06/01/2025 00:31

DreamTheMoors · 06/01/2025 00:26

My friend’s daughter fell off a ladder and broke her neck.
I can’t imagine someone telling her, “well, that was a stupid choice so we’re gonna leave you there to suffer and die like the fool you are.”
But I suppose there are people in this world who would do just that.

How many people put their own lives on the line to save hers?

ErrolTheDragon · 06/01/2025 00:32

At least the hikers are doing something that is usually health promoting.

It's a slippery slope.

Unintentionally appropriate choice of words.. Walking on slippery slopes is generally known to be a bloody stupid idea liable for many trips to A&E and then being out of action with the injury.

PreferMyAnimals · 06/01/2025 00:32

ErrolTheDragon · 06/01/2025 00:32

At least the hikers are doing something that is usually health promoting.

It's a slippery slope.

Unintentionally appropriate choice of words.. Walking on slippery slopes is generally known to be a bloody stupid idea liable for many trips to A&E and then being out of action with the injury.

LOL yes, well spotted. Hadn't noticed that.

battairzeedurgzome · 06/01/2025 00:33

LameBorzoi · 05/01/2025 22:55

I don't get the vitriol. People make mistakes. I have a lot more patience for this type of mistake than I do for bad driving or sitting around all day developing heart disease.

You can avoid heart disease without putting your own or other people's lives in danger. A brisk walk or a session in the gym will give you the same health benefits, even if it dosen't get you much attention on Instagram.

justasking111 · 06/01/2025 00:34

Living in north Wales we've mountain rescue friends and RNLI. The vast majority of rescues are of idiots.

We've towed people in who got into trouble offshore with no radio, lifejackets, etc. the lack of planning around weather, tides is just jaw dropping.