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For this to give me the ick

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Ickickick25 · 04/01/2025 18:30

My DP has taken to coming into the house and immediately changing into scruffy trackie bottoms and a hoody (very same style). He wears exactly the same thing every single day unless at work (shifts so not everyday) or we specifically go out somewhere nice. It’s starting to really grate on me and give me the ick, but he says that I am being unreasonable and trying to start an argument. AIBU?

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gannett · 05/01/2025 16:01

I've lived in a lot of house shares in my time and I think every single person I've lived with has had "home clothes" of tracksuit bottoms, hoodie, whatever, distinct from their nicer outdoor clothes. You feel you're keeping the house cleaner (no outside grime or dirt) and yourself more comfortable (outdoor clothes are often hardier, closer-fitting, less cosy). Yes, home clothes are slobbier (and that's a plus point) and no, no one is at peak sexy in them, but this is a batshit thing to be put off by.

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