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Marcus Fakana sentenced to a year in prison

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Zippedydodah · 30/12/2024 12:11

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I cannot believe that this lad is going to spend a year in prison- yes, I know that’s the law there, he should have known better etc, etc
I hope that the girl’s mother is ashamed of her actions.
I don’t want to think what the impact will be on Marcus 😥

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JHound · 01/01/2025 20:53

OneLemonDog · 01/01/2025 20:51

I think you've misread.

No I read it correctly.

My phone just chose to change what I wrote!

OneLemonDog · 01/01/2025 20:54

JHound · 01/01/2025 20:53

No I read it correctly.

My phone just chose to change what I wrote!

Then I think you're confused on the case - he was accused of "forcible rape" but was found not guilty of that.

JHound · 01/01/2025 20:56

OneLemonDog · 01/01/2025 20:53

He was accused of "forcible rape" and was determined not to have committed that, but was guilty of the lesser charge of sex with a minor (under local laws).

Accused by the mother (and I am clear what her reasons were) but not by her daughter.

But the messages and video evidence show a consensual relationship.

Thus I think the reframing as this being a story about rape when it is actually about AOC is disingenuous.

JHound · 01/01/2025 20:57

OneLemonDog · 01/01/2025 20:54

Then I think you're confused on the case - he was accused of "forcible rape" but was found not guilty of that.

He was not found “not guilty” of forcible rape as that was never a charge against him and not what he faced in court. The DM article pasted on that are not sure if that was ever a claim or a mistranslation in the original police documents but the only think he faced in court was the age of consent charge.

OneLemonDog · 01/01/2025 21:00

JHound · 01/01/2025 20:56

Accused by the mother (and I am clear what her reasons were) but not by her daughter.

But the messages and video evidence show a consensual relationship.

Thus I think the reframing as this being a story about rape when it is actually about AOC is disingenuous.

It was the mother who caused the charge to be filed but I don't know if we can say with total confidence what the girl told her mother (perhaps upon the mother's initial discovery of the morning after pill in the girl's luggage).

ShesNotACowShesAFox · 01/01/2025 21:01

JHound · 01/01/2025 20:49

It has been reported that they had sex in a rental car - or at least he said they did.

Not sure where the public sex allegation came from but it was not part of the case against him which is solely the charge of him being 18 and having sex with a 17 year old.

Which makes me think it’s nonsense

OneLemonDog · 01/01/2025 21:06

JHound · 01/01/2025 20:57

He was not found “not guilty” of forcible rape as that was never a charge against him and not what he faced in court. The DM article pasted on that are not sure if that was ever a claim or a mistranslation in the original police documents but the only think he faced in court was the age of consent charge.

I see, it's hard to tell, given the unclear reporting, but perhaps he was cleared of forcible rape (based on the claim made by the girl's mother) in the investigation stage but before a hearing.

OneLemonDog · 01/01/2025 21:08

ShesNotACowShesAFox · 01/01/2025 21:01

Which makes me think it’s nonsense

But if you were facing a charge of sex with a minor on one occasion, arguing "it was 3 occasions, actually" doesn't seem like the strongest defence.

I very much get the impression that Marcus has been honest - he admitted knowing that she was not yet 18, for example.

Delatron · 01/01/2025 21:10

JHound · 01/01/2025 20:51

He is not facing a rape charge. Nobody has claimed it was rape. It was “consensual” sex between two teens but as he was 18 and she was 17 it was against the law in Dubai.

Reframing that as “rape” does a disservice to rape victims imo.

I think the talk about him being a randy 18 year old who could not keep it in his pants does them both a disservice to be honest as they both have agency and made a mutual choice to have sex with each other. People want to give all the power to the male in this scenario which is odd.

Edited

Yes all of this and I was quoting what others were saying about him - (and disagreeing with the phrases used!).

JHound · 01/01/2025 21:13

OneLemonDog · 01/01/2025 21:00

It was the mother who caused the charge to be filed but I don't know if we can say with total confidence what the girl told her mother (perhaps upon the mother's initial discovery of the morning after pill in the girl's luggage).

Actually I take back what I originally wrote as it is not clear the mother made the accusation of rape. It has been said it’s not clear whether that was an accusation or a police mistranslation of the complaint.

It is not clear whether the accusation of rape originally came from the girl’s mother or was due to a misunderstanding or mistranslation by police officers, but the term ‘raped by force’ in Arabic appeared on the initial police report

We do know the same police document reports the mother confronting her daughter about her birth control pills and phone exchange with Farkana and she was informed she had met with him and had sex multiple times over her time in Dubai.

The mother, in her late 30s, told the Dubai authorities that she found the birth control pills by chance in her daughter’s belongings, according to the document.

The court heard from the prosecutor: ‘When she asked her about the pills, her daughter told her that she got to know the accused and that she had sex with him several times.’

While I am fully aware he broke the law, I don’t think that breaking of the law is enough to describe him as a [predatory] rapist.

And it does not appear that there is anything properly suggesting that is what he was arrested for or faced court over.

What is sad and disturbing is the way the case proceeded with no actual presentation in court by an alleged victim or alleged defendant. It is disturbing to think that he could have faced 20 years in jail without the court ever hearing from a potential accuser (although in this case there isn’t one really. The girl has said nothing.)

OneLemonDog · 01/01/2025 21:16

JHound · 01/01/2025 21:13

Actually I take back what I originally wrote as it is not clear the mother made the accusation of rape. It has been said it’s not clear whether that was an accusation or a police mistranslation of the complaint.

It is not clear whether the accusation of rape originally came from the girl’s mother or was due to a misunderstanding or mistranslation by police officers, but the term ‘raped by force’ in Arabic appeared on the initial police report

We do know the same police document reports the mother confronting her daughter about her birth control pills and phone exchange with Farkana and she was informed she had met with him and had sex multiple times over her time in Dubai.

The mother, in her late 30s, told the Dubai authorities that she found the birth control pills by chance in her daughter’s belongings, according to the document.

The court heard from the prosecutor: ‘When she asked her about the pills, her daughter told her that she got to know the accused and that she had sex with him several times.’

While I am fully aware he broke the law, I don’t think that breaking of the law is enough to describe him as a [predatory] rapist.

And it does not appear that there is anything properly suggesting that is what he was arrested for or faced court over.

What is sad and disturbing is the way the case proceeded with no actual presentation in court by an alleged victim or alleged defendant. It is disturbing to think that he could have faced 20 years in jail without the court ever hearing from a potential accuser (although in this case there isn’t one really. The girl has said nothing.)

Edited

I think you and I have consistently been in broad agreement - but there are a few gaps here and there as we don't have access to the full and reliable reporting that we'd have in a UK-based case.

JHound · 01/01/2025 21:18

The other thing that is sad and disturbing is that it could have been seen as a misdemeanour (which imo is the correct way of looking at it) but due to errors in the original file it was treated more seriously. I get him not wanting to risk a long sentence by appealing but imo it was worth the risk.

Although it’s easy for me to take that stance.

It’s also EXTREMELY weird that the fact he was originally recorded as Pakistani means it was treated more seriously. Why would that be relevant.

JHound · 01/01/2025 21:25

OneLemonDog · 01/01/2025 21:16

I think you and I have consistently been in broad agreement - but there are a few gaps here and there as we don't have access to the full and reliable reporting that we'd have in a UK-based case.

I think there maybe inaccuracies in a police report that also makes him 19 and Pakistani but what has been consistent is that this has been about age of consent and that is ultimately what he pled guilty to.

Unless there is anything from an actual complainant who was there (so the girl) I see no basis to referring to him as a rapist unless people are using that because in Dubai she could not consent. And that’s just silly.

OneLemonDog · 01/01/2025 21:27

JHound · 01/01/2025 21:18

The other thing that is sad and disturbing is that it could have been seen as a misdemeanour (which imo is the correct way of looking at it) but due to errors in the original file it was treated more seriously. I get him not wanting to risk a long sentence by appealing but imo it was worth the risk.

Although it’s easy for me to take that stance.

It’s also EXTREMELY weird that the fact he was originally recorded as Pakistani means it was treated more seriously. Why would that be relevant.

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The other thing that is sad and disturbing is that it could have been seen as a misdemeanour
That's something I'd really like to see some good sources for, but cannot find any.

Ihavenoclu · 01/01/2025 21:55

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Can you explain how he is a victim of racism please?

Ihavenoclu · 01/01/2025 21:57

JHound · 01/01/2025 21:18

The other thing that is sad and disturbing is that it could have been seen as a misdemeanour (which imo is the correct way of looking at it) but due to errors in the original file it was treated more seriously. I get him not wanting to risk a long sentence by appealing but imo it was worth the risk.

Although it’s easy for me to take that stance.

It’s also EXTREMELY weird that the fact he was originally recorded as Pakistani means it was treated more seriously. Why would that be relevant.

Edited

Those errors should not be accepted by Starmer and Lammy. They need to bring this poor boy home.

Ihavenoclu · 01/01/2025 21:58

ShesNotACowShesAFox · 01/01/2025 21:56

Can you explain how he is a victim of racism please?

I am not sure I can tbh. Its abit like 'can you explain why the sky is blue'.

Butchyrestingface · 01/01/2025 21:59

I'm curious too to know how some posters are so convinced that MF is a victim of racism as opposed to the victim of an autocratic, religious nutter (the girl's mother) who would have gone tonto on ANY boy of any race or colour who had pre-marital sex with her daughter.

Do you know the family personally?

RockOrAHardplace · 01/01/2025 22:19

Clavinova · 01/01/2025 20:49

I didn't say he was 19 at the time - I posted;

If he was born in Haringey in 2006 then his birth date is recorded as being in the first quarter of the year so he could be 19 quite soon.

Today you posted;

RockOrAHardplace · Today 17:40
But in the scale of things isn't that irrelevant? 2 months or a year - the age discrepancy isn't significant - that is the point being made!

To which I replied;

Then why have numerous posters on this thread claimed that Marcus 'was only two months older than the girl' if that detail is unimportant? Also the claim that they are in the same school year. Similar emphasis by Radha Stirling from Detained in Dubai, who tweeted her version of the age difference (ONE MONTH) in capital letters at least once. It's clearly significant in terms of public sympathy and political pressure.

I didn't initially post anything about his age, you and many others did, you raised the issue he maybe older than the 2 months or so stated by others (paraphrasing). I read your comment, I replied to your comment. We are just going round in circles here. I could have replied to anyone but I replied to you. The point I made remains the same, whether the age difference is 1 month , two months or a year - there is very little difference in their age! That is the point being made and it still remains relevant.

DearDenimEagle · 01/01/2025 23:24

tellmewhenthespaceshiplandscoz · 01/01/2025 19:33

Two young people engaging in consensual sex when one is 18 and the other a few weeks off is VERY different to an 18 year old having sex with a 13 year old . FFS

And I'm not arguing the legalities as whether we like it or not thems the rules in that medieval cesspit. But to hammer it home as if implying MF is no better than a sexual predator is wrong.

I’ve never suggested MF is a sexual predator. He was a normal teen with a teen gf. I remember those days and there was a bigger gap between me and my bfs in my teens.
Don’t take my comment out of context. It was a reply to another and differing cultures do have differing attitudes. I never said I agreed with it. Just pointed out a fact.

DearDenimEagle · 01/01/2025 23:34

JHound · 01/01/2025 19:43

But there is a demonstrable mental age difference with a 13 year old.
The fact that people feel the need to make it an extreme age gap shows that people are aware their position is weak.

It’s not that it would have been legal in the UK it is that they are essentially the same age.

it would be akin to a 16 year old Cuban holidaymaker having sex with a 15 year old holidaymaker in the UK and I don’t think anybody would be calling for the 16 year old to be imprisoned. I certainly would not.

And had they been the same age, there’d be no problem. We have an age 18 limit for drinking and smoking . They have an age 18 for sex. USA has age 21 for drinking. 18 for sex, I think. It’s certainly older than ours.

We can’t go abroad and expect everyone to accept our versions of what’s right. They are as convinced they are right as we are. But we don’t rule the world.
I hope he gets home soon, that it’s dropped. If the mother had not complained, nothing would have been said or done, but authorities always feel they must act if something is brought to their attention, even if they’d prefer to ignore it.
I feel sorry for him..and the girl, too. The mother is nasty and vindictive.

nogginatemycat · 01/01/2025 23:47

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ShesNotACowShesAFox · 01/01/2025 23:50

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coloured

JFC really

TwistedWonder · 01/01/2025 23:52

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And there it is. Using an outdated term considered racist by black people. Absolutely no one under the age of about 80 who doesn’t have bigoted views would use the word ‘coloured’

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