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Marcus Fakana sentenced to a year in prison

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Zippedydodah · 30/12/2024 12:11

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I cannot believe that this lad is going to spend a year in prison- yes, I know that’s the law there, he should have known better etc, etc
I hope that the girl’s mother is ashamed of her actions.
I don’t want to think what the impact will be on Marcus 😥

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JHound · 01/01/2025 19:55

stuckdownahole · 01/01/2025 19:53

I agree. I know someone who has been her client but not for anything that received media coverage. Detained In Dubai are highly selective about which cases they take on; if you are in jail there for fraud because you are actually a fraudster, they won't help.

I mean it does sound fair that they probably aren’t spending time on actual fraudsters!

tellmewhenthespaceshiplandscoz · 01/01/2025 19:56

Especially if you start raping a minor of another faith, behind their parents back.

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You don't know when to stop, do you?

TwistedWonder · 01/01/2025 19:57

tellmewhenthespaceshiplandscoz · 01/01/2025 19:49

Oh wow. So MF and his family have some responsibility for honour killings now?

Fuck me.

Absolutely disgusting isn’t it and the true colours and agenda are screaming out now.

I honestly hope that poster is on a wind up because the thought someone really thinks that way is far worse.

JHound · 01/01/2025 19:59

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TwistedWonder · 01/01/2025 19:59

Simonjt · 01/01/2025 19:51

Thats racists I’m afraid, they aren’t actually capable of rational thought, the best thing to do is to ignore them.

It’s a shame MN doesn’t offer the function to mute or block posters.

I have no desire to see ignorant racist posts

Simonjt · 01/01/2025 20:00

TwistedWonder · 01/01/2025 19:59

It’s a shame MN doesn’t offer the function to mute or block posters.

I have no desire to see ignorant racist posts

If they did that we would only see about ten different usernames!

OneLemonDog · 01/01/2025 20:04

stuckdownahole · 01/01/2025 19:53

I agree. I know someone who has been her client but not for anything that received media coverage. Detained In Dubai are highly selective about which cases they take on; if you are in jail there for fraud because you are actually a fraudster, they won't help.

They say that they have helped 20,000 people over 16 years, which seems very high for a small organization, particularly a highly selective one. Can you give some more insight? If they aren't leading media campaigns in a case, what does their role involve? More like a referral service?

ShesNotACowShesAFox · 01/01/2025 20:07

PandoraSox · 01/01/2025 17:36

Which was not proven, otherwise he'd be facing twenty years. The girl involved did not claim it was rape, did she?

This was the point of my first post - there’s been so many co flooring reports of what happens (not something we are used to in this country) it’s hard to know what’s true. I’ve heard varying reports - that the mum found out because the daughter confessed at home but also because she found the pill in her suitcase. That she reported to the embassy, but also that she reported to the police. That she reported when in the country try, but also when she got home.

However what we DO know from police reports is that it was reported as forced rape, and that CCTV of the hotel shows her entering his hotel so they dropped it to statutory rape. Depressing that they consider she can’t have been raped because she entered a hotel room.

ive never heard anything about CCTV in a car park, again varying stories seem to be a symptom of this case. Which is why I think I just can’t believe the story of the boy’s family. Or anything really

ShesNotACowShesAFox · 01/01/2025 20:10

PinkTonic · 01/01/2025 17:54

I’ve got something to say about it being reported as rape. I would say that the report was a wicked vindictive act perpetrated by a person who was clued up and cunning enough to get her own child to a place of safety first because she would have been equally culpable. The mendacious report has resulted in a disproportionate outcome for the 18 year old boy.

I’m curious about the persistent posters banging on about the law being broken. Are you in favour of the medieval laws in the country in question, which is corrupt and racist but masquerades as a civilised society in order to attract tourism revenue from westerners whose values it abhors? Or just incapable of nuanced thought?

I would say that the report was a wicked vindictive act perpetrated by a person who was clued up and cunning enough to get her own child to a place of safety first because she would have been equally culpable.

Why would you assume this?

Are you in favour of the medieval laws in the country in question

no which is why I’d sooner cut my toes off than visit it. I’m also surprised anyone thinks the laws of a country should be flexible because tourists don’t agree with them. He broke the law and he pays the penalty. He has had a lenient sentence by UAE standards. This is not an injustice. It just makes people feel uncomfortable because it could happen to their sons and is perhaps a stark reminder to use the World Wide Web for what it was intended before visiting any country

RockOrAHardplace · 01/01/2025 20:10

Clavinova · 01/01/2025 18:14

Then why have numerous posters on this thread claimed that Marcus 'was only two months older than the girl' if that detail is unimportant? Also the claim that they are in the same school year. Similar emphasis by Radha Stirling from Detained in Dubai, who tweeted her version of the age difference (ONE MONTH) in capital letters at least once. It's clearly significant in terms of public sympathy and political pressure.

I was commenting on what you were saying, which was that he had to be more than 19 given he was born in the 1st quarter of 2006. My response was that he might be nearly 19 now but he wasn't when it happened and that the age difference is minimal.

stuckdownahole · 01/01/2025 20:16

OneLemonDog · 01/01/2025 20:04

They say that they have helped 20,000 people over 16 years, which seems very high for a small organization, particularly a highly selective one. Can you give some more insight? If they aren't leading media campaigns in a case, what does their role involve? More like a referral service?

Some of their work is Interpol red notice removal, for those who were luckier than Marcus Fakana and were able to flee Dubai before being tried, convicted and sentenced for crimes that wouldn't be a police matter in their home country. That involves writing a submission to Interpol. It's probably a bit more work than a standard legal letter, but it's comparable.

JHound · 01/01/2025 20:20

TwistedWonder · 01/01/2025 19:59

It’s a shame MN doesn’t offer the function to mute or block posters.

I have no desire to see ignorant racist posts

It is mind bogging to me that it is not an option. I wonder what their reasoning is (I have seen the explanation but I think there must be a genuine one).

Maybe it is too expensive to maintain.

PinkTonic · 01/01/2025 20:28

DearDenimEagle · 01/01/2025 19:05

Agree re vindictive mother.
I doubt anyone is in favour of the laws of other countries that don’t match ours. Especially when applied to British Nationals.
However, it does not take away from the fact each country has the right to apply its laws. We don’t have to agree with them. We don’t have to like them.
If you don’t like the laws, don’t go there. If you want to break the laws, don’t go there annd hope. There have been Brits in the East, not Dubai, awaiting death sentences for drugs, knowing when they carried drugs, what could happen.
Do stupid things, win stupid prizes.
Everyone knows about the cruel and unusual punishments for relationships outwith marriage. The girl would usually suffer worse…even if raped. It’s barbaric , which is why one behaves with caution. That a mother of a British child would report another British citizen, knowing there will be horrific repercussions is despicable. If he’d waited till they were back in UK instead of jumping her bones right away, they’d be fine.
Hopefully , he will get a very early release, once they think their point is made.
Hating their laws doesn’t mean we can change them . If someone told us to change our laws for them, we wouldn’t like it

I would completely agree that adult drug smugglers who end up sentenced to death in some of these countries have only themselves to blame. I totally accept that countries have the right to set their own laws, irrespective of whether those laws would be considered barbaric to my liberal western standards.
I also think that it’s a great pity that a ‘holiday romance’ between two such young people involved full sex in an underground car park.
I still think it was evil of the girl’s mother to do what she did and that the strict application of the letter of the law was inappropriate in the circumstances. Hopefully it will impact their tourist trade if they continue to show their true colours to all the western tourists who think it’s a safe place to holiday.

nogginatemycat · 01/01/2025 20:31

No wonder we have a generation like Marcus, who think they can do any thing they like in any country with people defending him purley on his charecteristics.

So far we have had numerous times though out this thread her mother is (xxxxxx <- insert any vitrol here) and a racist because she is Hindu/Sikh.
Her mother reported him just bcause she is a racist.
Dubai Found him guilty because they are racist.
Any poster that thinks he is guilty racist.
Suggests that Marcus and his family should have more respect for other cultures, religions, communities and their values racist.
Marcus should take accountabilty for know laws and not abusing minors racist.

How about save the faux outrage for real racism, as it harms real claims of raceism and you wonder why the likes of Farage and Reform are being boosted in the polls.

ShesNotACowShesAFox · 01/01/2025 20:32

Where’s the evidence they had sex in a car park? I imagine if this was true he’d be serving a much harsher sentence considering this is a serious crime there

Delatron · 01/01/2025 20:35

ShesNotACowShesAFox · 01/01/2025 20:32

Where’s the evidence they had sex in a car park? I imagine if this was true he’d be serving a much harsher sentence considering this is a serious crime there

I don’t think there is any evidence. In fact I think it’s the opposite- the evidence shows nothing on the CCTV therefore they did not have sex in the car in the car park.

I don’t like the narrative that he ‘jumped her bones’. We don’t have all the details but from what I’ve read she sounds just as in to him and this was a fully consensual relationship. Rather than him being a randy 18 year old who couldn’t keep it in his pants.

ShesNotACowShesAFox · 01/01/2025 20:43

Delatron · 01/01/2025 20:35

I don’t think there is any evidence. In fact I think it’s the opposite- the evidence shows nothing on the CCTV therefore they did not have sex in the car in the car park.

I don’t like the narrative that he ‘jumped her bones’. We don’t have all the details but from what I’ve read she sounds just as in to him and this was a fully consensual relationship. Rather than him being a randy 18 year old who couldn’t keep it in his pants.

Ok where is the car park claim from then?

I can also assume he is a rapist but it’s a bit pointless because we don’t even know

OneLemonDog · 01/01/2025 20:45

Delatron · 01/01/2025 20:35

I don’t think there is any evidence. In fact I think it’s the opposite- the evidence shows nothing on the CCTV therefore they did not have sex in the car in the car park.

I don’t like the narrative that he ‘jumped her bones’. We don’t have all the details but from what I’ve read she sounds just as in to him and this was a fully consensual relationship. Rather than him being a randy 18 year old who couldn’t keep it in his pants.

No, it's Marcus' case that they had consensual sex on 3 occasions, including in the car.

This is what a police captain is quoted (in the Mail) as saying about the CCTV footage:

"Yes, by reviewing the recordings, it was shown that the victim entered the accused’s room at around four in the morning, and when they were visiting the parking lot where he parked his car."

JHound · 01/01/2025 20:49

ShesNotACowShesAFox · 01/01/2025 20:32

Where’s the evidence they had sex in a car park? I imagine if this was true he’d be serving a much harsher sentence considering this is a serious crime there

It has been reported that they had sex in a rental car - or at least he said they did.

Not sure where the public sex allegation came from but it was not part of the case against him which is solely the charge of him being 18 and having sex with a 17 year old.

Clavinova · 01/01/2025 20:49

RockOrAHardplace · 01/01/2025 20:10

I was commenting on what you were saying, which was that he had to be more than 19 given he was born in the 1st quarter of 2006. My response was that he might be nearly 19 now but he wasn't when it happened and that the age difference is minimal.

I didn't say he was 19 at the time - I posted;

If he was born in Haringey in 2006 then his birth date is recorded as being in the first quarter of the year so he could be 19 quite soon.

Today you posted;

RockOrAHardplace · Today 17:40
But in the scale of things isn't that irrelevant? 2 months or a year - the age discrepancy isn't significant - that is the point being made!

To which I replied;

Then why have numerous posters on this thread claimed that Marcus 'was only two months older than the girl' if that detail is unimportant? Also the claim that they are in the same school year. Similar emphasis by Radha Stirling from Detained in Dubai, who tweeted her version of the age difference (ONE MONTH) in capital letters at least once. It's clearly significant in terms of public sympathy and political pressure.

tillytown · 01/01/2025 20:49

I, like everyone else here, have no idea what actually happened between him and her so there is no point is pretending that any of us do, but using the phrase "rather than him being a randy 18 year old who couldn’t keep it in his pants" when talking about rape is really bizarre and offensive to literally everyone with a brain.
You can support him all you want, he may be completely innocent, but reducing rape to that is disguising.

JHound · 01/01/2025 20:49

ShesNotACowShesAFox · 01/01/2025 20:43

Ok where is the car park claim from then?

I can also assume he is a rapist but it’s a bit pointless because we don’t even know

Why would you assume somebody is a rapist when no claims have been made to that effect anywhere?

JHound · 01/01/2025 20:51

tillytown · 01/01/2025 20:49

I, like everyone else here, have no idea what actually happened between him and her so there is no point is pretending that any of us do, but using the phrase "rather than him being a randy 18 year old who couldn’t keep it in his pants" when talking about rape is really bizarre and offensive to literally everyone with a brain.
You can support him all you want, he may be completely innocent, but reducing rape to that is disguising.

He is not facing a rape charge. Nobody has claimed it was rape. It was “consensual” sex between two teens but as he was 18 and she was 17 it was against the law in Dubai.

Reframing that as “rape” does a disservice to rape victims imo.

I think the talk about him being a randy 18 year old who could not keep it in his pants does them both a disservice to be honest as they both have agency and made a mutual choice to have sex with each other. People want to give all the power to the male in this scenario which is odd.

OneLemonDog · 01/01/2025 20:51

JHound · 01/01/2025 20:49

Why would you assume somebody is a rapist when no claims have been made to that effect anywhere?

Edited

I think you've misread.

OneLemonDog · 01/01/2025 20:53

JHound · 01/01/2025 20:51

He is not facing a rape charge. Nobody has claimed it was rape. It was “consensual” sex between two teens but as he was 18 and she was 17 it was against the law in Dubai.

Reframing that as “rape” does a disservice to rape victims imo.

I think the talk about him being a randy 18 year old who could not keep it in his pants does them both a disservice to be honest as they both have agency and made a mutual choice to have sex with each other. People want to give all the power to the male in this scenario which is odd.

Edited

He was accused of "forcible rape" and was determined not to have committed that, but was guilty of the lesser charge of sex with a minor (under local laws).

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