We’ve just bought a new house together but last night during an argument, my partner came back in the room and grabbed my dressing gown either side of my neck and grabbed it saying something along the lines of I could really do something or I have to try really hard not to do something, I can’t quite fully remember. He did that twice. I wasn’t scared of him at the time, just surprised. I was being mouthy so probably wound him up. He does have PTSD which he said was triggered by something I said. I always thought if he ever hurt me we would be done. But he hasn’t hurt me though so should I stay?
I love our new home, we have a toddler together (in bed when it happened), financially dependent on him and I know I’d be secure in that respect with him. If we didn’t have a child things would be a lot easier, I’d move back in with my parents and go back to work full time but I can’t do that with childcare costs. Plus I’m worried about the implications for our son. What a mess. Am I being unreasonable for weighing up these options?