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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To think we shouldn't be funding this on the NHS?

571 replies

AgileJadeDog · 28/12/2024 09:29

I recently had my first stay in hospital due to a respiratory issue and I kid you not, every other person in the bay smoked+had a smoking related disease.

I have no idea if this is typical in other specialties/hospitals but it really hit me how much gets spent on completely self inflicted stuff. AIBU to think we shouldn't be funding stuff like this?

OP posts:
PandoraSox · 28/12/2024 09:56

AgileJadeDog · 28/12/2024 09:40

Everyone else kept going outside to smoke and the diseases (lung cancer x2, lung infections related to COPD x3) were all smoking related. 2 people who could no longer walk got staff to wheel them out in a chair...

So they are highly addicted to a substance that is legally available and puts money into the tax coffers?

The answer is to ban sale of tobacco, not punish the addicts. Which is what the government is doing in the long term.

Sirzy · 28/12/2024 09:56

AgileJadeDog · 28/12/2024 09:50

Work out the how the rate of COPD, lung cancer, type 2 diabetes etc varies with smoking, obesity etc

Work out how much this costs, charge people for having CO2 on blood tests, high BMI etc similar to how life insurance or health insurance works this stuff out.

Then what? Leave those you don’t approve of to die in the streets?

humanity at it’s best!

Annabella92 · 28/12/2024 09:57

Don't worry OP they're anticipating the collapse of the NHS, and are bringing in assisted dying as a 'healthcare procedure', soon we will all be invited to sunset ourselves in lieu of unaffordable treatments, and the population will be far healthier and happier than it is now.

fanaticalfairy · 28/12/2024 09:57

AgileJadeDog · 28/12/2024 09:37

If you're driving a car responsibly and crash or injure yourself playing tennis I think that should be covered. If it's an obesity related disease or something caused by extreme/obviously dangerous sports then I would be leaning towards the NHS not covering it.

I think my problem is that if my experience is typical it isn't a few people which are in hospital due to self inflicted stuff, it's the overwhelming majority.

How will it be determined whether you were driving responsibly or not?

Will there be an assesment before paramedics get there? During? And they decide that no... It's definitely your fault, and leave you and your kids at the roadside...

UndeniablyGenXmasOfAWomblingMerryType · 28/12/2024 09:57

Smokers pay a ton of tax and many will more than cover the cost of their own medical treatment over the years.

WhereIsMyLight · 28/12/2024 09:57

Almost all illnesses and injuries can be seen as self inflicted. Broken your leg through playing sport, or falling off a ladder doing some DIY, or going out in high heels or because you don’t eat enough calcium? Most of us eat carcinogenics in our diet because they are rife in the food system. So where do you draw the line?

In reality, people in lower income areas also have poorer health. Some of this can be argued to be self inflicted due to diet, mobility, smoking. There are a number of reasons why smoking is higher and diet is worse in these areas. Some health conditions may be due to work opportunities such as manual labour or exposure to toxic materials. Either way, you are creating a system that punishes people on lower incomes for things that aren’t entirely in their control. And we have enough of that already.

Berga · 28/12/2024 09:58

AgileJadeDog · 28/12/2024 09:56

Pulmonary embolism (blood clot in lungs). I've never smoked, have a BMI of 20, exercise regularly and eat a good diet.

I don't hate these people it's just to think that this has got to be where a good percentage of my pay check is going... it's grossly unfair. They should be covering it themselves.

And here we are at the nub.

You're not directly funding it. That bit of your paycheck? Wouldn't touch the sides paying for your own healthcare.

toomuchfaff · 28/12/2024 09:58

AgileJadeDog · 28/12/2024 09:43

Doing anything which is very widely known to be harmful and can easily be avoided.

Smoking (it literally says on the packs you will get cancer if you smoke)
Obesity
Drugs
Alcohol
Extreme sports/irresponsible behaviour

Doing anything widely known as harmful

Your idea of harmful and someone else's is open to interpretation.

Stop being an arse. So you have never done anything "harmful" then? Never been in a car, or a plane? Never been outside? skin cancer; suns rays are definitely harmful, this has been proven, no treatment for you (or anyone) who has ever been outside.

Sirzy · 28/12/2024 09:58

AgileJadeDog · 28/12/2024 09:56

Pulmonary embolism (blood clot in lungs). I've never smoked, have a BMI of 20, exercise regularly and eat a good diet.

I don't hate these people it's just to think that this has got to be where a good percentage of my pay check is going... it's grossly unfair. They should be covering it themselves.

So someone could have exactly the same issue as you but have a lifestyle you don’t agree with - maybe the odd pint and McDonald’s - so they should be left to die?

BlondieDH · 28/12/2024 09:59

This is honestly such an ignorant, self centred attitude to have op.

can you honestly not see how there is so many variables that put make your idea utterly ridiculous?

AgileJadeDog · 28/12/2024 10:00

Berga · 28/12/2024 09:58

And here we are at the nub.

You're not directly funding it. That bit of your paycheck? Wouldn't touch the sides paying for your own healthcare.

I paid £80k in tax last year and have never stayed in a hospital before this incident. I think I am funding my own and many other peoples healthcare thankyou very much.

OP posts:
FreedFromDesireMindAndSensesPurified · 28/12/2024 10:00

I don't think we should provide NHS treatment to people who start threads on MN and then swerve the inconvenient questions.

TeenLifeMum · 28/12/2024 10:00

98% of bladder cancers are in smokers. I cannot understand why you can even buy them still and now many countries have legalised weed which is linked to paranoia and mh issues. The damage we do to ourselves is ridiculous. However, obesity is also a killer so where do we stop? Or the guy with a failing liver from years of alcoholism. Do we issue leave him in pain?

Plastictrees · 28/12/2024 10:00

AgileJadeDog · 28/12/2024 09:56

Pulmonary embolism (blood clot in lungs). I've never smoked, have a BMI of 20, exercise regularly and eat a good diet.

I don't hate these people it's just to think that this has got to be where a good percentage of my pay check is going... it's grossly unfair. They should be covering it themselves.

Well what if they can’t cover it themselves? Do they just rot away quietly then?

There are so many actual issues in society that need to be focused on currently - such as the vast amounts of inequality which underpins many of the examples you’ve given. The fact so many people are living in poverty in this day and age is grossly unfair, really.

I think I’m suffocating from the amount of Tory in your post.

PandoraSox · 28/12/2024 10:01

AgileJadeDog · 28/12/2024 10:00

I paid £80k in tax last year and have never stayed in a hospital before this incident. I think I am funding my own and many other peoples healthcare thankyou very much.

Sure Jan GIF

You are over egging your pudding, OP.

ShowMighty · 28/12/2024 10:01

AgileJadeDog · 28/12/2024 09:56

Pulmonary embolism (blood clot in lungs). I've never smoked, have a BMI of 20, exercise regularly and eat a good diet.

I don't hate these people it's just to think that this has got to be where a good percentage of my pay check is going... it's grossly unfair. They should be covering it themselves.

I’m a perfect weight. Don’t smoke. Rarely drink. Go to the gym a few times a week.

However I used to binge drink when 18- 25. Smoked from 16-35. My diet was awful and never exercised until I was 35 (but was lucky that I just naturally stayed thin)

Should I be treated for any potential lung cancer or liver disease or heart failure in later life? I had pneumonia last year. Maybe I shouldn’t have been treated? Maybe it was due to my smoking 10 years ago? Or maybe it was bad luck? Which one would you choose?

TMGM · 28/12/2024 10:02

YANBU.

FreedFromDesireMindAndSensesPurified · 28/12/2024 10:02

PandoraSox · 28/12/2024 10:01

You are over egging your pudding, OP.

Yes, I think OP has spaffed a bit too early here. It would've been more effective had he/she/it waited until maybe page 13 before bringing definitely truthful tax contributions into it.

fanaticalfairy · 28/12/2024 10:03

AgileJadeDog · 28/12/2024 09:56

Pulmonary embolism (blood clot in lungs). I've never smoked, have a BMI of 20, exercise regularly and eat a good diet.

I don't hate these people it's just to think that this has got to be where a good percentage of my pay check is going... it's grossly unfair. They should be covering it themselves.

I hope you don't get an exercise related injury, that would be self inflicted. Or choke on your food...

AgileJadeDog · 28/12/2024 10:03

toomuchfaff · 28/12/2024 09:58

Doing anything widely known as harmful

Your idea of harmful and someone else's is open to interpretation.

Stop being an arse. So you have never done anything "harmful" then? Never been in a car, or a plane? Never been outside? skin cancer; suns rays are definitely harmful, this has been proven, no treatment for you (or anyone) who has ever been outside.

I'm really shocked by these purposely obtuse replies, you know these are all really rare compared to smoking => lung cancer/COPD or obesity => heart disease/diabetes.

I will address the skin cancer bit though, I wear suncream everyday including in winter. You're acting like this is a ridiculous thing to do? Like we don't already know the sun gives you cancer?

OP posts:
kittybiscuits · 28/12/2024 10:03

AgileJadeDog · 28/12/2024 09:37

If you're driving a car responsibly and crash or injure yourself playing tennis I think that should be covered. If it's an obesity related disease or something caused by extreme/obviously dangerous sports then I would be leaning towards the NHS not covering it.

I think my problem is that if my experience is typical it isn't a few people which are in hospital due to self inflicted stuff, it's the overwhelming majority.

I'm presuming you were on a respiratory ward? So you would be surrounded by other respiratory patients. This does not mean the hospital was "full" of patients with smoking-related illnesses. YABU, anyway.

Barbie222 · 28/12/2024 10:03

Raise the tax on these products more?

Berga · 28/12/2024 10:03

AgileJadeDog · 28/12/2024 10:00

I paid £80k in tax last year and have never stayed in a hospital before this incident. I think I am funding my own and many other peoples healthcare thankyou very much.

In that case, I apologise, not many 200k earners kicking around.

This makes sense why you don't have much sympathy or experience with health inequality.

Perplexed20 · 28/12/2024 10:05

I see you are almost perfect. Judgemental, lack compassion but almost perfect.

RhaenysRocks · 28/12/2024 10:05

Where do you stand on rugby? Mountain biking? Winter sports? Not really extreme but certainly injury prone